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what are his feelings???


Question Posted Sunday July 15 2007, 3:18 am

hi there...
okay theres this guy right.
we have "hooked up" before. (did not have sex)
he moved away.. but has now moved back..
has lived here for a couple months..
he has a girlfriend..
calls ME every night. we talk for like 2 or 3 hours every night.
he complains about his girlfriend sometimes...
always talks about the night we hooked up
tells me to send him a picture..
and soo on..
is he just wanting to stay friends or what??
i am sorta confused on what he wants...
advice is greaty appreciated...
thanks...


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abs23 answered Tuesday July 17 2007, 11:39 am:
ohkay. well i have been here before. I think that he finds comfort in you becuase he has history with you. you two need to talk about this and u need to ask him this. Maybe him and his gf are having problems and he uses you to fall back on for comfort. but DO NOt break them up it will back fire on you. but since he has a gf keep it friends only zone. never go past that becuase his gf.

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PsychoSpazzy101 answered Monday July 16 2007, 7:52 pm:
well he's obviously into you. he complains about his gf to you, he talks about when you guys hooked up, and he talks to you for about 2-3 hours EVERY NIGHT! he is so into you, but maybe feels you've moved on since he moved away. You should talk to him about it. He might feel shy telling you his feelings just tell him how you feel, and if he doesn't feel the same way tell him you're ok just being friends, but i highly doubt he only wants to be friends. Guys are really hard to read and if he hasn't told you he's into you then he's not likely to to tell you anytime soon, so you have to make the move, trust me go for it! what have you got to lose?

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ask_blondie answered Sunday July 15 2007, 11:15 am:
typicall guy haha. he deffinetly wants to be with you, not his gf. hes telling you all these negetive things about his gf, hoping that youll say break up with her and give him way to do it. he wants you to him self or he wouldnt talk to you for more then 2 hours anight. (you guys obv have alottt in common)good luck-

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monsenanna answered Sunday July 15 2007, 8:33 am:
My taking of this situation is that he wants to be with you, and not his current girlfriend. I mean if a guy calls you every night, and you talk for about 2 or 3 hours, then there must be something there, you know? I would talk to him about it, and see for yourself if he wants to be friends, or to be more than friends.

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