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im in 8th grade i go to Anthony wayne.
i love volleyball. I also love music i would def. die without it. i love having fun and hangin wiht my friends. my friends and my family are my life.i have one brother and hes older.all my friends come to me for advice, and told me i should do this so here i am. :)

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so, me and this girl used to be friends, but now we hate eachother. like really badly. And she always fights with me (even now) about the stupidest shit. Well, today, she talked shit behind my back.......and she thought I was doing something similar, but I wasn't.

My question is : what's the best thing to do? Confront or just ignore and leave them alone no matter how upset you are?

you need to confront her and tell her the truth if you dont she'll think she can walk all over you. You just need to confront ehr, not in front of everyone just one on one and you both need to spill about whats going on. the longer you wait the harder it will be to save ur friendship

hope i helped if you need anymore advice i.m me on awsoftballbabe23

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i have a huge dick. its like fuckin huge. i get blowjobs like all the time cuz the girls in my school cant keep their mouths off of me. im not gonna say no dont suck my dick cuz it feels ssooo good and we make videos and stuff. its really fun. but its gotta stop. what should i do.

hahahah wowww.


i have a feeling this is a joke but ok.

uhmmm you have to say no if u dont like it or maybe you need help ahha im jk. uhmmm you need to make the decision for yourself if you want to or not/

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onceee.. while i was babysitting
i sudddenly got the urge to see what
would happen if i dropped the baby down
the steps..and i did.
anddd then i ran out the door
and never came back. im afraid to return
to the familyyy. what should i do?
-TOTALLY CONFUSED AND SORRY

hahaahaha

i think you need help.

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ok well i like these two boys and we are always flirting. but one says he doesnt like me and the other says he likes someone else. i dont know what i should do because i like them both but i dont know if they realy like someone else or if they are just saying that. because we are always flirting. what should i do?

Well hello someone who i cant say. hah.

hi,

umm okay well this is easy since i know the situtaion. But i dont know the perticuluars. Ummm are thses boys flirts with everyone? cause that might show something. Well maybe you hsould talk to them and say we flirt alot but i like you in a bf gf type way not just flirting fun way. And you can give it a shot and see what they say. but if they both say they like you in a boyfriend girlfriend way then you need to pick one. Two boyfriends at a time isnt too good. But you just need to pick which one your more confortable with and stuff like that. But please dont say i cant do that, because you can you never know until you try and youll regret not tellin them if you find out in the future they liked you. and you could have been going out with one of them this whole time but nows its too late. well i hope i helped.

thanks :)

Abby.

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um hi i dont think i know you but my name is shaneyah, and im 15. i need some major help and i think someone around the same age as me would know whats best for me. well me and my boyfriend just had sex not to long ago, and it was wanted. but when i fell asleep he took the condom off and raped me, and got me pregnant. i dont want a baby at this age, and my mom has no idea yet what has happened to me. i cant dump my boyfriend cause i dont want to be a single mom, and i dont want my baby to not know his/her dad. i have no idea what to do, and i dont want to tell my mom what has happened. i cant leave my boyfriend hes really the only thing i have, please help me.

heyy,

Ok well uhmm your in a very hard situation right now. If a boy would do that to you then he truly doesnt have you at heart. You should deftinely tell you mom you will not regret it. Moms always know what to do and trust me theyve been in a situtaion at some point like this. But maybe different. Your mom will prob band you from seeing him and thas not a bad idea. and i know you dont want to be a single mom but you need to start thinkin whats best for the baby. Maybe you are someone that doesnt mind oboration and i am not here to say if that is right or wrong. All im saying is your family WILL be there for you and yes they may freak at first but theyll be there for you. and you said you dont want to tell your mom but you should they,l prob figure out once your belly starts devolping. sooner the best. You could always have the baby and go through with rasing it, or obortion, or adoption. I am not gonna tell you my opinion which is wrong or best as an option because its up to you. i hope you make the right decsion thats best for your daughter. and remember if u want to finish school so you put her/him up for adoption you can make a deal with the paents that adopt your baby that you could see the baby as it grows up. theres always a way. well i hope i helped.

thanks :)

Abby.

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Ok...the other night i went to a party with my cousin and some of his friends. Well we were all riding in one his friend's jeep..and none of the guys made any conversation. I didnt know understand why? I just sat there and looked out the window while the guys were talking about all sorts of nasty stuff. It bothered me because im not a bad lookin girl? Most guys think im pretty or w/e but i didnt understand? So it made me start thinkin..i wanna be sexier..and more of a catch. Any advice on how and why these guys did this? (17/F)

ok. first you should never have to change to impress a guy. if you dress sexier like 2 inch eyeliner and lots of mascara and smokey eye shadow like alot of it and short short short short skirts that barely cover your butt and hooker heels. all ur doing is giving them the wrong impression completly. theyre just gonna think your easy and u want some, and guys talk about sexual stuff in front of girls to look experience and tough and cool. or theyre just immature. dont treat your self like meat that has to get dressed up for guys. be yourself. dont sell yourself short. your better than that.

thanks
abby :)))

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im proud of my little abigail for taking on my tradition of giving advice. im glad you passed me those traits of yours soo i caould do this too.

yay abby! you know who i am.
and i love you.

hahah i have no idea who this is.

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okay so basically i like this guy a lot.
and i think he likes me but im not sure.
and i wanna tell him that i like him back, but i'm scared that im going to get rejected and then feel like a complete loser.

anyone wanna help me?
i have no idea what to do :[

it is very good that you like Him and the only way that you can find out if he likes you back is if you tell him. you have to be open with your feelings or you'll never know if he likes you. because he wont wait around forver. so dont take to long. you wont be a loser. at least you were big enough to say i like you.
hope i helped.

thanks.

abby.

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Its been almost one year since this all began. It all started early September and when Josh broke up with me September 21st 2006 I went into a huge depression. I cut my wrists, stopped talking for a little, and completley lost myself. Since he broke up with me hes only gone out with one other girl, my best friend, but hes gone out with her 5 times off and on. But he has gone out with me about 5 times off and on too. So theres this tension between me and my bff now. But also since he broke up with my I kept trying to replace him with someone else. On my second try (Steven) is when things went out of control because when he broke up with me the entire depression thing got worse and I don't know who I am, or who I am supposed to be. Now I'm doubting whether or not I love my current bf. Am I just trying to replace Steven? Or am I still trying to replace Josh? For a while I had no problem saying I love you. But my sister said "Ever since Josh you haven't been the same" and Im shocked at how right she is. How do I find myself again, but now that I think about it I don't even know if I want my old self back because I always hated the way I was. And now im just so confused. I don't really have a specific question but what's your opinion on this whole thing? Please anyone help me.

honey,

Boyfriends come and go. they break your heqarts and you break some too. life is hard. and you have been having a bad year. i am so very sorry for this to happen to you. i dont think that your tryin to replace him. i just think that your lonely so you need the comfort, or securnisne. that you feel when you have a boyfriend.no mattter how upset and hurt and depressed you feel never go to the extremems of harming your own body...never. Maybe its too soon to see other people because you just get hurt. Well obvisuly your sister is seeing problems in you and maybe you can confide(tell her) in her. I understand that there is now tension between you and your friend maybe you and your friend need to talk and decided whether you two need space or not. But if you just want to gather your life together and figure out who you are? then maybe put ur realtionships on hold and go be with family. family will always be there no matter what and they define you. They will help you through anything. ALways friends will help. But friends can turn your back on you, but you always have your family. Just try and not date. Because you will get more upset. Realtioships are hard some times. Maybe you just need to create friendship with some boys and get close for comfort but not too close, and then gain this friend back, and lean on your family. But most important find yourself. Its not hard. You just ahve to find out who you really are and what you want to be like. Your real self is still there it never left. You just covered it up with this new you. And you said that you didnt liek the old you, well take the old you and better it. But dont try and be someone your not. i hope i helped.if you ever need to talk i have a s/n its Awsoftballbabe23 if you ever need to chat.

thanks

abby.

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Im fucking tired of this. Everythime I try and ask her why she wants to come over she doesnt say and ask if jasons gunn abe home and if i say no shes like oh my mom wont let me or something dumbb like that. And when he is home thats all she doesnt is hangg out with him.
WTF

ok. well. it seems like she is just using you to get with him. i dont know if he likes her. and i dont know the whole situation but you should try only hangin with her when hes not home. because then you can test you real friendship good luck. thanks.

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where can i get a cute pair of skinny jeans
that look like some of these
(and dont say kohls or jc pennys cause just eww)

http://i7.tinypic.com/5xnd5oj.jpg
http://i18.tinypic.com/4lzaoaq.jpg
http://i13.tinypic.com/674ccaw.jpg

thanks

umm this is a store in the mall called buckle.

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hi there...
okay theres this guy right.
we have "hooked up" before. (did not have sex)
he moved away.. but has now moved back..
has lived here for a couple months..
he has a girlfriend..
calls ME every night. we talk for like 2 or 3 hours every night.
he complains about his girlfriend sometimes...
always talks about the night we hooked up
tells me to send him a picture..
and soo on..
is he just wanting to stay friends or what??
i am sorta confused on what he wants...
advice is greaty appreciated...
thanks...

ohkay. well i have been here before. I think that he finds comfort in you becuase he has history with you. you two need to talk about this and u need to ask him this. Maybe him and his gf are having problems and he uses you to fall back on for comfort. but DO NOt break them up it will back fire on you. but since he has a gf keep it friends only zone. never go past that becuase his gf.

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