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I wanna be sexier
Ok...the other night i went to a party with my cousin and some of his friends. Well we were all riding in one his friend's jeep..and none of the guys made any conversation. I didnt know understand why? I just sat there and looked out the window while the guys were talking about all sorts of nasty stuff. It bothered me because im not a bad lookin girl? Most guys think im pretty or w/e but i didnt understand? So it made me start thinkin..i wanna be sexier..and more of a catch. Any advice on how and why these guys did this? (17/F)
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ok. first you should never have to change to impress a guy. if you dress sexier like 2 inch eyeliner and lots of mascara and smokey eye shadow like alot of it and short short short short skirts that barely cover your butt and hooker heels. all ur doing is giving them the wrong impression completly. theyre just gonna think your easy and u want some, and guys talk about sexual stuff in front of girls to look experience and tough and cool. or theyre just immature. dont treat your self like meat that has to get dressed up for guys. be yourself. dont sell yourself short. your better than that.
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abby :)))
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Sexy is a subjective description and varies at great length depending upon who and what you are talking about. The problem with trying to be a generic sense of sexy that will appeal to the masses at large, is that you will be setting out bait for men you don't want hooked. Get it? Be selective and attract fewer more quality guys that actually appeal to your specific tastes. You already are sexy, and just need to develop your confidence and sense of identity. If the nasty talk was bothering you and was a sign of the immaturity you have no interest in, then don't sweat it that you were ignored. Of course, if you want to be a part of a discussion or give your opinions, then speak up for goodness sake! You are a catch, but some guys would rather eat worms. Let them, and save your goodies for a man worth your time. Boys you have been hanging around with are most likely not going to impress you. All of us do put out a vibe about who we believe we are and what we want to attract...what a smart girl you are to realize that this is within your power. You do have the power and control to establish yourself as whoever you desire to be and when you can confidently present yourself as the woman you are becoming, then the appropriate men will notice and you will be irresistable to them. A word of caution...a confident woman is a threat to boys, so be prepared to get some static from the ones that can't handle you...then again, this makes it easier to step over them and get on the path to better.
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Mini skirt.
Heavy smokey eye make up, heels, stay in shape but still have some curves. make your hait sorta messy but sexy you know?
Idk how to explain but a lot of guys like that.
Vanyn
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You don't need to be "sexier" to get a guy to notice you. Be yourself. Why change for a guy? There is a wonderful guy out there who will love you just the way you are. Besides, dressing sexier could give guys the wrong idea and think you're a slut.
As to why the guys weren't talking to you, but talked about nasty stuff? There are two reasons this could be possible. A) When guys are in large numbers and around girls they tend to act like that to seem "cool." They want to impress the girl and their peers with talk about sex. or B) They're just jackasses.
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