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I Think She Likes My Brother More Than Me.

Question Posted Monday July 16 2007, 6:50 am

Im fucking tired of this. Everythime I try and ask her why she wants to come over she doesnt say and ask if jasons gunn abe home and if i say no shes like oh my mom wont let me or something dumbb like that. And when he is home thats all she doesnt is hangg out with him.

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abs23 answered Tuesday July 17 2007, 3:47 pm:
ok. well. it seems like she is just using you to get with him. i dont know if he likes her. and i dont know the whole situation but you should try only hangin with her when hes not home. because then you can test you real friendship good luck. thanks.

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ynnej610 answered Monday July 16 2007, 8:09 pm:
ok i dont really know the entire situation, but to me it seems like she is just using you for your brother. i would just ask her straight out, but most likely she will deny it. My opinion is if you really, really like her and want to stay friends with her then try and deal with it. If she isnt that great of a friend and you do not like her that much then just dont be friends with her. i mean you will make new and better friends, most likely ones that will not use you for your borther. sorry about your situation that is a really tough!
i hope i helped and good luck ::)

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ductape_n_roses answered Monday July 16 2007, 4:30 pm:
Tell her straight out that if she likes your brother more, go talk to him instead of lying to you and using you to get to your brother.

I'd be pretty pissed off, too, & I'd just say that your brother isn't home every single time she asks =P

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DefinedEyes answered Monday July 16 2007, 4:30 pm:
Just ask her right out,
if she likes your brother.
Obviously it sounds like it,
so tell her off. Tell her it makes you really angry that you call 'pretending' to want to hang out with you, when she's only interested in your brother. Tell her you dont like being used, and if she wants to hang out with your brother, tell her to call him and make plans, because you arent going to help her with him. And also let her know.. when you want to be friends again, you knwo my number.

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