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my boy friend is a little too much..
i've been dating this guy, let's call him delicino (his last name), and we've been on and off for 3 years. we were together for 2 years then we decidd to end up, but have gotten back together 2 times afte rthat and one of those times are right now. it's a secretive relationship and he's my brother's best friend and my best friends brother. my best friend knows about it and we're pretty sure my brother knows too. We only see each other when he stays the night over here and when i'm over at his house. everytime he's over though and we're left alone, he always trys to get me to take off my clothes or something along the lines of that and i tell him no every single time, but he still trys again and the next time he's over. it gets so annoying to me and he's over at my house now and i'm 100% sure he'll try it again. i want to break the relationship off, but im not sure if i want to. it's hard giving him up for the fact that when ever i see him, it brings back memories and me being the person i am gets back together with him. i've told myself not to and that the last time we were together was the last time, but i'm back with him again. i'm confused. i din't know if i should stay with him or not. i have on and off feelings for him too.
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dump him. but make sure he knows why. trust me, if he really cares about you'll, he'll beg for your forgiveness and to be your boyfriend again. and if you guys do go back out again, and he continues... dump him FOR GOOD.
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First off, why is this a 'secretive' relationship? Is he seeing someone else? Your parents won't approve? What?
Second, the guy doesn't respect your wishes and continuously tries to push you sexually to do something that you don't want to do. So why do you want to be with him? I see that you have a history, but there are plenty of other guys out there. Don't think that you have to stay with him just because there's a history there.
You didn't state your age, but I can guess that you are pretty young. Listen, take it from someone who's older- do not get yourself in the habit of being with guys who don't respect you 100% and treat you like you deserve to be treated. Start now, while you are young, chosing the right kind of guys to be with- and you will save yourself a lot of trouble and a lot of heartache in the long run.
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