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like ugh, this is really bad.
um hi i dont think i know you but my name is shaneyah, and im 15. i need some major help and i think someone around the same age as me would know whats best for me. well me and my boyfriend just had sex not to long ago, and it was wanted. but when i fell asleep he took the condom off and raped me, and got me pregnant. i dont want a baby at this age, and my mom has no idea yet what has happened to me. i cant dump my boyfriend cause i dont want to be a single mom, and i dont want my baby to not know his/her dad. i have no idea what to do, and i dont want to tell my mom what has happened. i cant leave my boyfriend hes really the only thing i have, please help me.
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heyy,
Ok well uhmm your in a very hard situation right now. If a boy would do that to you then he truly doesnt have you at heart. You should deftinely tell you mom you will not regret it. Moms always know what to do and trust me theyve been in a situtaion at some point like this. But maybe different. Your mom will prob band you from seeing him and thas not a bad idea. and i know you dont want to be a single mom but you need to start thinkin whats best for the baby. Maybe you are someone that doesnt mind oboration and i am not here to say if that is right or wrong. All im saying is your family WILL be there for you and yes they may freak at first but theyll be there for you. and you said you dont want to tell your mom but you should they,l prob figure out once your belly starts devolping. sooner the best. You could always have the baby and go through with rasing it, or obortion, or adoption. I am not gonna tell you my opinion which is wrong or best as an option because its up to you. i hope you make the right decsion thats best for your daughter. and remember if u want to finish school so you put her/him up for adoption you can make a deal with the paents that adopt your baby that you could see the baby as it grows up. theres always a way. well i hope i helped.
thanks :)
Abby.
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