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how can i become like her???
15/f
Theres this one girl, at my school who is amazinnggg, she is like sooo popular, and so pretty, i mean shes absoulty gorgeous, and shes so nice, unlike all of her friends, but still. and were kinda friends, kinda. but shes just soo nice. i mean for her birthday, her mom bought her all this stuff, and then gave her like 5000 dollars, and she went to the mall and like bought all these clothes, and gave them to the poor! shes always thinking of others, and she just so sweet! i just want to be just like her. i mean honestly, i dont know how she can be the way she is. i mean shes like the richest girl in our town, and she doesnt act like it at all, shes always thinking of others. and shes really smart, and i mean, i just want to be like her. how can i? shes like a freaking saint, she doesnt talk behind anyones back, shes not stuck up, bbut thne yet she has so much confidence in herself in everything she does.
I WANT TO BE JUST LIKE HER.
how?
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First off, I'm sure she has some faults because everyone does. She is deffinetly not perfect, because no one is. Try being yourself, and being nice. Find your identie, not hers. Copying someone isn't being yourself. Try being nice to everyone. You don't have to be rich to give to the poor. Try selling clothes or things you don't need and you can give that money to the poor. There is many things you can do. Like angelina jolie is a good romodel for giving to the poor. Try finding your idenitie. I hope i helped = ]
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woah lol i think you should be yourself but try to be nicer, like without being her "mini me" try donating old clothes that don't fit to big brother or something like that. also, study hard to get good grades and just think about other people before yourself. you shouldn't be just like her because she should be able to be an individual, so try to be nicer and more conciderate and over all a better person and that will make you kinda be like her and other people with out literally being just like them. i hope i helped
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wow... she must sound really nice
but i am just curious... why do you want to be like her?? I know that she is pretty, nice, smart, and caring but she is her own person. So I think that you should be your own person too!
I am not sure if this help you but seriously I really think that EVERYONE needs to be different in their own ways. But part of being unique is making your own desicions. So if you really want to do this if i were you i would show this to her. It may sound weird but trust me she would love it. But do it in a letter and dont let her "friends"see it!
i hope this advice worked. Please rate me and comment me... Thank you
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Well to start with you dhould do what she does - which is be herself. You cant be someone else. That wouldn't really be you that would just be a fake. Being nice to people, respecting people, wanting to help... these things are all things we all choose to do just like she has chosen to do. If you want to do things like that then by all means do so but don't do it because you want to copy her or be like her - do it because it's what YOU want to do. As for confidence, that comes with time. If you lack confidence you just have to be more sure of yourself. I mean everyone fails at something or another (it may seem she's perfect but no-one is ever that perfect). Don't waste your time trying to be like someone else, honestly. I mean the last thing you want is people seeing you and saying, "oh wow! She's just like blah blah." No, what you want is them to say wow aren't you a really nice person and someone who's caring etc, etc. Why would you want people to say you're like someone else when you can be your own person?
"Popularity, next to virtue and wisdom, ought to be aimed at; for it is the dictate of wisdom, and is necessary to the practice of virtue inmost."
--John Adams.
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