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one of my best friends, let's say his name is michael, has been dating another one of my friends for a very long time. his girlfriend is gone for the summer but comes back in a couple months. me and him flirty like CRAZY. everyone sees it, the things he says to me, the way sometimes he touches me, it's usually us two drinking or something together. i dont' know. i really really like him a lot, and i don't know what to do. and he flirts with me SO much, i can't ignore it, anddd, he's one of my b est friends, i'm with him every single day. just the only thing standing in the way is his girlfriend, who i really adore. i knwo they won't break up any time soon, i knwo that for a fact. id on't konw. i hate it, and i want to know what to do.
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WEll has he evr told you he likes you??
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You really need to quit flirting with your friend's boyfriend. How would you like it if you went away for the summer and some girl was flirting with the guy you were with, trying to break the two of you up? I doubt you'd like it at all. I know that I wouldn't like it one bit.
Also, I think we all know that you know what you need to do - you just don't want to do it. You have two choices: you can be immature and let your emotions control you or you can be mature and control your emotions. It really is that simple if you stop and think about what you're doing.
Finally, I would ask the guy why he's flirting with you so much if he's in a relationship with your other friend. Maybe he doesn't want to be with her anymore and depending on how good of friends you and the girl are, you can pursue him and forget about your friendship. It's up to you.
Just be careful. Karma really is a bitch.
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I would suggest you just move on and let him and his girlfriend be. There's not really much else you can do other than jump on him, cause a problem between him and his girlfriend and get them to break up so you can have him to yourself. But then afterwards you may wonder what he's up to when you go off on a holiday somewhere - I mean you may come back only to have another girl all over him and him flirting with her. :] Some guys flirt (I flirt with a lot of my friends) and it's usually nothing, just a laugh. Unless you know he means it all you can do is get over it and get on with things. If he is searious about it then it's unfair on him stringing his girlfriend along when he can't even decide who he wants to be with so maybe he should make a decision and stick with it. You said yourself though that they won't be breaking up anytime soon and I'm guessing if you wanted to break them up you'd have made your move already to do so. All I can really suggest is just oving on and finding someone else. If they break up then fair enough but there's no point in waiting around - wouldn't be fair on yourself.
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