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Hey Guys! It has been FOREVER! :(

But I'm back! (as of October 08) If you don't know or remember me my name is Ashley :) Currently 16 years old and a junior in highschool. I don't complain much and you'll always see a smile on my face.

PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't be shy with asking to my inbox. I'll do my best to answer any question with any subject :)

Want to just talk to me? Go here..
http://www.advicenators.com/talkaboutme.php?userboard_id=27150

advice

I want to be ugly betty for a Halloween party I'm going to in a week but I need an "ugly betty wig" and every store that sells them is out of stock! What should I do?

Since you can't find that specific one try buying a normal black wig the same length with those bangs. Then you can cut it and make the waves in it exactly how you want it to look.
♥ Ashley

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heyy.
uhm. i`m new to this and i need to know how to change your about section on my advice column.
help.
thanks.
xoxo. kelsey

Well welcome! How do you like it so far?
For editing your about me section look in the left hand column for 'Profile Settings.' Click it and scroll down and you'll see a blank box, type away and then click the button to update. It's super easy once you figure everything out but let me know if you need anymore help :)

PS: Sorry for the wait!

♥ Ashley

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heyyy. Right now I'm basically pretty preppy I used to be emo and I'm wondering if I should go back to emo but idk what to do.

In my opinion, you need to dress and act like just you. Don't label yourself, and feel you need to act up to it. 'Emo' and 'Preppy' are just words. If you wanna wear hollister but rock out to punk metal then do it. It's all about being yourself, and doing what you love.

PS: Sorry for the wait!

♥ Ashley

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14/f
hey my name is claire,
Okay so I really like this guy, we call each other our "bestest friends" and last night we hung out for the first time and he asked for my number so i gave it to him then i got his. Now when he texts me i'm afraid the conversation is going to be boring like

Him: hey
me: Heyy
him: whats up?
Me: nm bored you?
him: sameee haha
me: coool

...and then its just going to be awkward and boring. i don't want him to think i'm a boring person. so like what could i say to make the conversation go on for like EVER. you know like when you have those late night texts staying up all night texting the one you like? I want to do soemthing like that so like what could i say to make the conversation last long and have him interested in me? Thanks

Aww that is adorable :)
The key to not having a boring conversation is to MAKE it fun! Start it off exciting, sweet, or even funny just to get the conversation going. Bring up the other night before anyone even says 'whats up?' and also never give 1 or 2 word texts, that just kills the conversation. Asking a lot of questions helps too, just get to know him and he'll probably be shootin back at you.
If it gets too good, you may even end up with one of those late night phone calls :)
♥ Ashley

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OMG im getting so mad. So like you know how everyone has the little playlist thingy.

Well like idk but my profile wont do that.

And like i try adding a new song and it keeps saying "Error Processing,Please Try Again".

And i tried deleting the song but it wont delete it!!

Does anyone know why?or how i can fix it.

Im starting to think that its because i have an old account and thats why. i dont know.

but please help!:]
thanks.

Ah! Ok so i had the same exact problem as you hun and it took me forever to finally figure it out but heres what you have to do. Go to your account settings on the homepage, then change your Preferred Site & Language to U.S.A. It is most likely set on Canada. Then try clicking on manage my playlist and it shouldn't have the error message anymore. Try that and let me know if it works!
♥ Ashley

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What kind of colours can make someone look thinner?

Dark colors, and layering your shirts.
Avoid skin tight super short shirts.
Hope this helped :)

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In your own personal opinion, could you please tell me whether or not I'm suited to be a model?

http://a555.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/68/l_65b79c8cae81f557eea3af183969c0b2.jpg

http://a907.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/84/l_e86e91e169984f9c9fccc32a860503a2.jpg

http://a375.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/19/l_0d29c5e1b6d363286b0332a656fdc13e.jpg

In all honesty please. My feelings don't get hurt easily. Constuctive criticism will be taken well.

Honestly I can't see you very well is those pictures, you should take some from a straight on angle showing your face.
But from the three given you are gorgeous. I think you could make it as a model.
And it's great that you can take constructive criticism, you'll get alot farther in a modeling career that way.
Goodluck! I hope everything works out for you!

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okay, about a month ago a guy i liked asked me "whats up" and i was like "nothing" and then i said "whats up" and he said "nothing" LOL. its funny looking back now but back then it was sooo awkward.

do you say "nothing" or do you launch into a full account of what you've done all week? im confuseedd. btw this applies to people you're not total strangers with BUT don't really know well enough to give a full account of everything that's happened in the day.

honestly, i think there should be an unspoken social rule that acquaintances dont say "whats up" to each other. =[

thanks in advance lovess

I usually say what I'm doing.
Ex: What's up?
Just walking around town, you?
Blah blah blah.

Hahaha yeah.
Because to me it's so boring when someone says 'Nothing.'
It makes me think they arn't interesting in having a conversation.
Hope this helped!

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Okay, is wearing a cut-out swimsuit as a top with jeans completely tacky and unacceptable haha?

I like the look of it but I know it looks a bit slutty but I'm not sure if it's TOO slutty haha, I wouldn't be wearing it to a club or anywhere, just to be around.

I didn't even know what that was until I googled it :)
I think that would look really cute actually.
Don't worry about what anybody thinks.

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Hey. What are some websites where I can get pants with really cute stuff written on the butt?

Do people still wear stuff like that?

It doesn't matter if people wear it or not, if you like it then wear it.
Try Victoria Secret, the sweatpants are really cute there and usually PINK is written on the back.
Also just try stores like Kohls, Mervyns, Macys etc etc.
Stay away from anything cheesy looking like glitter letters that say SEXY on the back.
Hope I helped!

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What is the difference beetween gel nails and acrylic nails? Which one is better *lasts longer, looks prettier, which one is worth my $*
Thanks!

Personally I think gel nails are ugly.
They are way too chunky, look really fake, and they look cheap.
But ironically they are more expensive then acrylics.
Yes acrylics do ruin your nails more but they are meant to be on for awhile so they shouldn't be taken off right away anyway and once you grow your nails out, they look fine.
Plus acrylics look nicer and are more natural looking, plus cheaper!
So my vote goes towards acrylics.
Hope I helped!

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what is flixster???

Flixster is a simple, free web site that lets you share movie ratings and reviews with friends.

I googled it and that's what mostly came up [:

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i heard rumors about a guy i used to like that he gave an older girl a "blow job". can someone explain what that is? i have an idea but i'm not totally sure. thanks!

He gave her Oral Sex.

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How do you actually know when your cherry is popped? How can you tell??

When your cherry is popped, it bleeds a little.

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theres this song on a comershal with a women singing it and the only lyrics i remember are " 1..2..3..4 tell me that you love me more..

does anyone no what the song is and who sings it?

1234 - Fiest [:

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Last time I was on here I asked a sex question and the Admin told me I couldn't ask it on this forum. Because of that I'm not sure if I will get an answer to this question but I need to ask anyway. I've no where else to turn.

I'm a 17/m and because of recent events I am at the crossroads of a potentially life changing decision. I'm a virgin. I've never been kissed or even so much as held hands. I've been on one date my whole life but I don't really count it because the girl didn't like me at all. I am an only child and live alone with my mother and father. I don't have many friends because I live in a small town and don't go to school or have a job (long story). I really never meet any girls for the same reason, but hopefully that will change when I start college in the winter. Anyway, my parents are leaving town in a few weeks and I have $200 in my bank account. I have been thinking of using this opportunity to hire and escort. I can't stand being a virgin anymore because I feel like a complete loser, but if the only sex I've ever had would be paid for I wouldn't exactly feel like the coolest guy ever either. I don't know what to do. Please help.

You would enjoy having sex with someone you're in love with much more then someone you paid.
And do you wanna risk getting an STD?
You're having sex with whoever that person has had sex with basically.
Look, you're only seventeen. Most girls would appreciate that you havn't slept around.
You would still be in highschool if you were in school so just wait and stick it out until you meet some amazing girl you fall in love with.
:]

EDIT: Sure you think that's an easy way around it, but what happens if the condom breaks? Just thought I would let you know condoms arn't 100% but it's your decision.

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ok im 15 1/2 almost 16
and my bf is 18
i want to have sex with him because i love him and trust him
and i know all the consequences
but because he is 18 he doesnt want to have sex because it is "illegal"
is that right .
can someone please help me
i have been with him for 3 years and i love him with all my heart and i just think it is about time for sex . but is there really a low about age and sex ?
i hear something aobut 5 year difference
but i just want the truth

It's illegal because he is a legal adult while you're still a minor.
Even if you have sex with your consent, your parents would still be able to press charges with the chance of him being arrested.
He probably doesn't want to go through any trouble related to that.
Sorry, but unless you convince him and hide it you guys will have to wait until you're 18.

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well. what are some signs that you're in love?

You can't help but smile when you see them.
When the phone rings you hope it's them.
When a love song plays you think of that person.
You miss talking to them 10 seconds after hanging up.
You reread their text messages over and over.
You get butterflies when they walk in the room.

You just know if your in love [:

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So tomorrow i'm going to a bat mitzvah. It says dressy attire requested. I'm wearing one of those layered bunched dresses with sparkles. My friend said it's called a club dress when I described it. My mom says I can get my hair done, and I usually just get it blown out. This time I want something different. Any ideas on what I should get. Nothing too outrageous because i'm going right from the hair place to the service, and you know the famous "you hate the way the hair stylist did your hair". I have medium length brown hair thats a little wavy. I'd prefer it to be down, but if there is any cute updos let me know. Nothing too fancy cause i'm not going to a wedding, and nothing too casual cause it's not like a birthday party at her house.

Just make it really simple and classy.
Have her blow out your hair straight then curl the ends really loosely.
I tried to find a picture but I couldn't find one but I'm sure you know what I mean.
Hope this helped!

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What is a good swimsuit bottom for a girl with big hips, thighs, and butt?

If you're looking for a way to hide it then look for th boy shorts to camouflage the problem or try a one piece that sits high on the thighs. This will lengthen the legs and draw the eye away from the hip area.

You can also try having a bright pattern on top and then a dark solid color on bottom so the attention is attracted to your top.

If you are trying to enhance your 'booty' area :) then try a bathing suit skirt which will just draw attention to your butt without making it look bigger.

Hope I helped!

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