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ok so my "buddy" wants me to give him a handjob and i want to also. we are both excited about it, but heres the thing : he told me hes nervous and would feel more comfortable if we did this when our two friends (who are a couple) were hooking up in the same room as us. This is kind of weird for me. I mean, ok i will do the whole public thing but not the first time we do this you know? My question to you guys is, do you have any ideas on how to come to a comprimise or how I can get him to feel more comfortable so its just us 2 in the room? (link)
What I am about to say is very important: Don't get yourself into a situation that you aren't going to be comfortable in. If you don't want to have your first sexual experience when there are other people in the room, then you shouldn't because it may become an embarrassing memory or a regret. Don't compromise your feeling when it comes to sex, because it could end up being a big mistake. Explain to your friend how you feel and that you won't feel comfortable if there are other people in the room for the first time and if he is still pressuring you to do it, tell him to back off. If he can't respect your feelings in such a situation then you shouldn't be doing anything sexually with him.


on tuesday me and my bf were foolin around and he ended up giving em a hickey..normally its okay but this time its like really dark and noticeable..its one the side of my neck and kinda towards the back..like right under my ear and back like a cm.well i been wearing me hair down since so you cant see it at all. but if my hairs not down its veryy and i mean VERY noticable. its like very dark. i can wear my hair down the rest of the weekend and to school on monday. but for cheerleading i have to wear my hair up so idk how im going to do that without my whole squad seeing it cuz trust em they will. can anyone help mee!?

5's for any bit of help (link)
Since hickey's are normally light red all the way up to a dark brownish red, the best way to cover it up is with green concealer. (I know what you must be thinking.. green concealer? But don't worry, it works I've used it before on very dark hickeys). The best kind of green concealer I have found is from Physician's Formula and you can find it at Rite Aid, Walgreens, CVS, and Walmart. You can buy it in combination with regular colored concealer or alone. Once you have the green, completely cover your hickey in a thick coat of it and then cover that green coat with a thick coat of regular (don't forget to blend the edges)and cover that with powder and it will cover your hickey all day, even if you're heavily sweating at your practice.
I hope I helped!


hey everyone me and my fiance' had sex with out a condom and we used the withdrawal method but i want to know what the chances are of getting pregnant and what i should do in the meantime when i dont no like before it kicks into making a baby i really dont want to confront my mom atall right now and im really confused and i dont no what to do for now should i just wait and see what happens or what i dont think i can get ne pills unless i tell my mom but yeah please help thanks bye (link)
Using the withdrawal method is only 85% effective because before the penis ejaculates, it emits precum that does contain sperm. You can go to your doctor or a hospital to get the morning after pill, which is effective up to 120 hours after you had intercourse and it prevents the egg (if there was one) from getting fertilized.
You are able to get birth control without your mom knowing about it. You can go to www.teenwire.com to find a Planned Parenthood center near you that will give it to you and it's completely confidential. Depending on your financial situation, it will cost under $10 a month or it will be completely free. birth control takes approx. 2 weeks to be effective so if you do go to a Planned Parenthood center to get birth control, they will give you condoms to use during the 2 week period if you are going to have sex.



Hi
I'm 15 years old and i've had my period for a little bit over a year now. I have always used pads, but i'd really like to start using tampons. But there's only one problem, im so scared of them. I've tried using the before, but im just scared to leave something up there...please help me. Are there small tiny tampons for teens to use? im sooo freaked out.

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I understand what you're saying, when I first used tampons I was afraid and it took me a little while to get used to the idea of them. The brand that I started out with (I was 14) were Playtex Gentle Glide Slimfits Tampons. The applicator is designed to go in smoothly without discomfort and they are smaller and ideal for teens who's vaginas are smaller than most adult females.
As for your fear of TSS, as long as you change your tampon every 4-6 hours, you shouldn't worry about getting TSS. And don't be afraid of the tampon getting stuck inside your vagina. The string is woven throughout the entire tampon and it cannot come out.

I hope I helped!
--Heather.




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