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this is pretty weird..
ok so my "buddy" wants me to give him a handjob and i want to also. we are both excited about it, but heres the thing : he told me hes nervous and would feel more comfortable if we did this when our two friends (who are a couple) were hooking up in the same room as us. This is kind of weird for me. I mean, ok i will do the whole public thing but not the first time we do this you know? My question to you guys is, do you have any ideas on how to come to a comprimise or how I can get him to feel more comfortable so its just us 2 in the room?
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Just talk to him and tell him that its uncomfortable for you to have someone else in the room while you are doing it... i mean.. that is kinda gross if you think about it you dont wanna have to listen to someone else hooking up and doing "stuff" if ya know what i mean , while your in the same room.. i dont blame you for not wanting to do it while they're there with you two...just explain tohim that its your first time doing this and youd rather not feel awkward and uncomfortable and tell him that maybe after you do it and youve done it for the first time that if he still feels the same way about having someone else in the room while whatevers happening is happening then your either down or your not plain and simple...
***Hope i helped...
***Kayla...
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What I am about to say is very important: Don't get yourself into a situation that you aren't going to be comfortable in. If you don't want to have your first sexual experience when there are other people in the room, then you shouldn't because it may become an embarrassing memory or a regret. Don't compromise your feeling when it comes to sex, because it could end up being a big mistake. Explain to your friend how you feel and that you won't feel comfortable if there are other people in the room for the first time and if he is still pressuring you to do it, tell him to back off. If he can't respect your feelings in such a situation then you shouldn't be doing anything sexually with him.
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Is it your friend or your Boyfriend? But anyway you should just try to forget about the other to and just go about it. Good Luk!
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