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hey everyone me and my fiance' had sex with out a condom and we used the withdrawal method but i want to know what the chances are of getting pregnant and what i should do in the meantime when i dont no like before it kicks into making a baby i really dont want to confront my mom atall right now and im really confused and i dont no what to do for now should i just wait and see what happens or what i dont think i can get ne pills unless i tell my mom but yeah please help thanks bye
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Using the withdrawal method is only 85% effective because before the penis ejaculates, it emits precum that does contain sperm. You can go to your doctor or a hospital to get the morning after pill, which is effective up to 120 hours after you had intercourse and it prevents the egg (if there was one) from getting fertilized.
You are able to get birth control without your mom knowing about it. You can go to www.teenwire.com to find a Planned Parenthood center near you that will give it to you and it's completely confidential. Depending on your financial situation, it will cost under $10 a month or it will be completely free. birth control takes approx. 2 weeks to be effective so if you do go to a Planned Parenthood center to get birth control, they will give you condoms to use during the 2 week period if you are going to have sex.
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there is always a possibility. the best time to get pregnant is 2 weeks before your period or 2 weeks after your period. do your calculations and see if your anywhere close. if your still not sure then you may want to take a pregnancy test if your late--however if you worry about it that can cause you to be late--or you can go to your obgyn and get blood work taken and that tell you earlier. good luck
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Pre-cum is a factor, but chances are its not very likely you are pregnant, i mean its harder than most people think it is to get pregnant.. bur I just answered like a series of questoisn about this to another girl. The questions and answers for her are all in my advice column, so take a look there.. to sum it up
Theres a place called Planned Parenthood where you can get an ECP to make sure you aren't pregnant. Read my answers in my advice column for more details hun:-)
Feel free to put anything in my inbox if you have more questions:-)
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take a pregnancy test...
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The "withdrawl" method doesn't work. Sperm are released LONG before he reaches orgasm. The male will release small amounts of semen as a sort of "cleansing" and lubrication. That contains many little happy swimmers, so you run the same risk as anyone having unprotected sex.
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