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The right way to lose your virginity
Last time I was on here I asked a sex question and the Admin told me I couldn't ask it on this forum. Because of that I'm not sure if I will get an answer to this question but I need to ask anyway. I've no where else to turn.
I'm a 17/m and because of recent events I am at the crossroads of a potentially life changing decision. I'm a virgin. I've never been kissed or even so much as held hands. I've been on one date my whole life but I don't really count it because the girl didn't like me at all. I am an only child and live alone with my mother and father. I don't have many friends because I live in a small town and don't go to school or have a job (long story). I really never meet any girls for the same reason, but hopefully that will change when I start college in the winter. Anyway, my parents are leaving town in a few weeks and I have $200 in my bank account. I have been thinking of using this opportunity to hire and escort. I can't stand being a virgin anymore because I feel like a complete loser, but if the only sex I've ever had would be paid for I wouldn't exactly feel like the coolest guy ever either. I don't know what to do. Please help.
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Wait wait wait until the right person comes along. Trust me. It's difficult at times, but if you meet an honest and open person who loves you for who you are, it will be worth all the crap you're going through now. Don't let sex be the end all of your life. You'll regret hiring an escort.
Have you tried meeting people online at all? Worked for me...(small town, shy, little dating experience). That way there's no pressure if it doesn't work out.
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I wouldn't do that. Sure you might lose your virginity, but think about the diseases those "escorts" carry. Since you've waited so long for sex, what will a little while longer hurt? Wouldn't you want your first time to be with something you actually knew and cared about?
Your virginity is NOT something to be ashamed of. You will meet a lot of new people in college and you just might meet a girl you really like. I really feel that if you lose your virginity to an escort, you will regret it for the rest of your life.
There is no right or wrong way to lose your virginity. Obviously the choice is yours and yours alone. You just need to decide if sex means anything to you or if you're willing to waste it on a person you've never met before in your life.
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Virginity is not a thing to be wasted on just some 'escort' that is just paid to enjoy it. You need to wait and give it away to someone worthy of it. A girl that you really care about, just remember that you are only a virgin once and once its gone its gone. No taking it back, so don't be stupid and waste it on someone that won't remember who you are. [[Sorry if this was upfront or blunt]]
Hope I helped =]]
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This is a very interesting question...
Problem with most escorts? They're horse face ugly. You don't want any of that.
I would wait 'till college and find some people then.
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You would enjoy having sex with someone you're in love with much more then someone you paid.
And do you wanna risk getting an STD?
You're having sex with whoever that person has had sex with basically.
Look, you're only seventeen. Most girls would appreciate that you havn't slept around.
You would still be in highschool if you were in school so just wait and stick it out until you meet some amazing girl you fall in love with.
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EDIT: Sure you think that's an easy way around it, but what happens if the condom breaks? Just thought I would let you know condoms arn't 100% but it's your decision.
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Hi.
Personally I think it's really awesome that you're still a virgin...but that's just me. A lot of girls will appreciate you for that.
Don't feel like you have to lose your virginity because that's the "cool" thing to do.
Why don't you spend that money on something a lot better than a one time thing? You can use it to buy stuff for college and the such. As you mentined, you're going to college and you'll meet a lot of new people there.
Hope I helped. :)
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It is not a good idea to lose your virginity to an escort. It is a really lovely feeling to know that the person you give yourself to eventually is the person that truly cares about you. You sound like you have real issues with your self-confidence and it may be a good idea to find someone to help you build this up. There will most likely be a lot of information at your local library offering classes in things that you find interesting and once you have something in common with a girl, you could try and build up a friendship. You could also try to see a counsellor to talk to or your doctor who could advise you on where to get a little extra help. You are still very young and although not a lot of people will be brave enough to admit it, they too lost their virginity at an older age. I hope that I have made some sense to you and if I can help any more please let me know.
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i honestly think you should save your money and DO NOT get an escort... that is deff. not the right way to do it, its ok if your a virgin.. i actually i have alot more respect for guys that are vergins at that age.. i think you should wait until you find someone special, and that you care about.. you are going to start school soon, that is a whole new world, you will meet many new people, many new girls, you will go out and have fun, get to know them, and when you find someone you like enough, do it with them... i really think spending you money on tat is a foolish thing to do... i would not recomend it..
but then again, it is your choice...
i have given my advice, and i hope i have helped =)
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