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masturbation
( female/17/ has BF)
Hi well me and my Bf have gotten pritty far, their is gust one thing when were doing it he is the only one who gets off, i can't. Could it be that from masturbating too much that my endurance is too great and also he comes really fast not even 20 minutes is their anything to help him last longer? we've allready tryed squeezing right befor he comes then its like a gun.
If you got any advice of internet signts that could help please post them.
Also he want to try anal but i dont, out of curiosity is it good or is it not good for me?
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you could try to mess around (foreplay) before actually havin intercourse, sometimes that can work. And yes, it can be your endurance holding you back. i would not masterbait for a few days, and have sex than, that should work also.
and as far as him getting off to fast, there are a couple things that can help him from lettin lose before you get yours. such as:
1)when his strokes start to get faster, do something gentle, like lay his hand on your cheek and lay your hand on top of his.
2)change postions. it will interrupt and cool him down. It will also take more time for him to get used to the new angle.
3)Have him pull out and squeeze the tip of his penis with med. pressure for 3-4 seconds. It will bring the arousal down a bit. Make sure you warn him first.
And anal, you shouldnt do it as often as you have vaginal intercourse because it could give you boils (eww, i know) and when you have to go to the bathroom, its hard to hold it back. But if its something he wants, you should hold back his fantasy. But fair warning. it hurts badd. therefore i would recommend you start off with finger and work your way up to his size.
hope i helped
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