Question Posted Tuesday September 15 2009, 6:51 pm
last night i gave my bf a bj and he said he liked it, but then he said he wanted to go farther and i said you will find out tomorrow....should i do it??? im 14 btw
jessayy answered Thursday September 17 2009, 2:34 pm: i wouldnt do it.
your only young once and once you lost your V you cant get it back. save it for someone that actually means something. if you love them and they have respect for you, go for it. otherwise i'd keep it for as long as YOU can wait.
gibs96 answered Tuesday September 15 2009, 11:20 pm: Seriously you are 14!!!!
You shouldn't be doing that you are
Way to young! No don't your not ready.
No one is at 14 that is discstig and it's ajoke
To be doing that stuff at 14 [ gibs96's advice column | Ask gibs96 A Question ]
NinjaNeer answered Tuesday September 15 2009, 10:52 pm: My basic rule; if you need to ask strangers online if you should have sex, you shouldn't.
The decision to have sex should be made based on being ready for it, and being in love with the person. If you're asking us, you're not sure, and so you're not ready. [ NinjaNeer's advice column | Ask NinjaNeer A Question ]
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Tuesday September 15 2009, 9:52 pm: okay saying you are way to young is just going to make you want to do it. trust me. i made that mistake after my mom told me i was to young to even think about it. i got pregnant. changed my whole life. i was 14 when i got pregnant.
christina answered Tuesday September 15 2009, 8:55 pm: No.
14 is way too young to be doing anything sexual, and that includes oral. If you don't know whether or not to do it, that means you aren't ready or that you don't want to. Both are good reasons not to have sex.
dearcandore answered Tuesday September 15 2009, 7:40 pm: Hell no! I'm sure you really like each other and you feel you are old enough for sex, but trust me, 14 is too young. Every available study on this shows that girls who lose their virginity before the age of 18 are more likely to suffer depression, eating disorders, low grades and of course more likely to get pregnant. When you give a guy your body you are giving him more than that. You are giving him a piece of you. As a woman, the most powerful gift you have is yourself. If you give it away before its time, you lose that power. Once you've done it, you can't take it back, and the mystery that drives most young men to get to know girls like you in the first place is gone. The decision is yours, of course, but it won't be like you think it will be, and I know you'll end up regretting it. And if you're not having sex you shouldn't be experimenting like you did last night. You're just leading him on and pretty soon you'll have a reputation that will be pretty hard to drop in your high school years. [ dearcandore's advice column | Ask dearcandore A Question ]
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