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hard to get: playing the game...
okay so ha, i went out with this guy last year and it didnt work out but we're still friends. we've gone out with other people since but basically i like him again and im pretty sure he likes me. he stares at me totally and completely, he doesnt even care that i see. he talks about me all the time and crap like that. and last week he brought up our former relationship to one of my friends.
so i have 2 questions: 1)he always talks about me like guy-talk or w/e. like "i wanna fuck her" and shit like that. and i cant tell if he actually likes me and thats the guy part coming out or if thats all he wants. b/c wen he was talking to my girlfriend, he told her if he had a gf he'd want it to be me, but then when he was talkin to my guy friend, he is all like "i dont wanna date her, i just wanna 'fuck' her" and "oh, she wants me so bad"
and 2) i sit w/ him every few days in class like when i feel like it as just friends and i dont know if i should continue or if i should just play hard to get...but when i sit with him and his guy friends talk about other girls, it kinda seems like he tries to purposely not too. and his friends give me looks and stuff...idk its just confusing, i want him to chase after me, but at the same time im afraid if i stop giving him any attention at all then he'll just be like "screw it" so yea..it would help getting some feedback from a guy. thanks!! :)
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its kind of hard to tell if he really likes you for you and not just for your body. it seems to me like he's trying to be cool in front of his friends. he doesn't seem like someone you should date.
but if you really want to date him, you should be straight forward with him. guys sometimes do like the chase, but all that does is prolong things, which sometimes doesn't work out. if you like him, just tell him
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i think he still likes you. some guya say that shit to other guys to look cool. i think you should just ask him about it. juss be like oh ya do you ever still have feelings for me or somethin. seriously just tell him you like him or somethin. because its obvious, really obvious, he still has feelings for you.
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