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I'm happy to help. I really want to be a type of Therapist or someone who helps others when I'm older so this column thing really helps. I'm good with the drama and love/life of everyday things. I also love my life especially my Friends and Family. Ok some think i'm a bitch if you can't get over it well screw you. I absolutely hate people who can't spell correctly seriously if you can't spell normally just don't bother me. I think its stupid when people ask if they can get pregnant from holding hands i mean seriously get over yourself and learn something. I love to type alot and if you don't want to read it well you can just go away because it may waste your time. You might not like what i say but unlike my friends they like to see the the friendlier sides of people i like to see the truth and nothing but it. I reply with honesty and i do everything by which i think is right. Think I'm a brat I really don't care. I couldn't live without my besties I wouldn't be where I am without them. Photography is my favorite. Yes thats me in the picture. I hate drama but i'm great about giving advice about it. I have and will always live my life to the fullest. I am who I am and your opinion isen't needed. I don't like school that much or my town but couldn't last a day without the people here. Stealing my ideas is stupid because it shows you can't come up with anything. I hate people who bring others down only to lift themselves because it shows your self esteem is really low. I also hate two faced bitches i mean seriously if your two faced at least have one of them be pretty.
I love to help so ask away.




Loves: Photography, hotties, shoppping, txting, makeup, vintage, AIM, talking, skinny jeans, smiles, kindness, fashion, love, reading, eye shadow, guitar hero, sleeping, watching TV, music(my Ipod is my life), my cell phone and everything in between.

Hates: stupid people, whores, broken things, paris hilton, brittney spears, two faced, back stabbers, people who spend all their time watching TV, lazy people, people who show PDA just to show off, jerks, sluts, people who type sorta like this: WaTs uP hOmMiE, showoffs who can't do anything, overly tanned people, emos, and mostly 7up Soda.
Need Advice I'll Tell You the truth and nothing but it.
xoxoGossipxGirlxoxo

advice

I need a slow song that truly is beautiful.
I am helping my brother propose to my best friend
And basically I need a really beautiful song (a slow song)
Its going to be playing in the background
And its going to be the song that they’ll have for the rest of their lives, you know?
These are the two people I love the most in the world
It really needs to be beautiful

He’s 26 and she’s 24 and I’m 22 so we’re not ancient but we’re not teenagers either.
So as long as the song is slow and beautiful, it will be fine.
Help!

Your Guardian Angel
by the: The Red Jumpsuit Apparatus
It truely is beautiful.

Hope I helped.

xoxoGossipxGirlxoxo

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Alright so i just got a new laptop and i obviously want music on it. Is there any way to get my music from my desktop computer to my laptop but keeping like all my playlists, the ratings for the songs, song plays and everything? Please help! Thanks!

Yes this will include everything. I've also done this before and i was afraid but everything will be included.
I think if you go to apple.com you can go to support and i think that they have the answers probably...
Hope I helped.
xoxoGossipxGirlxoxo

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in this world we are having war...ik why but WHY? uk what i mean i hate that the only way to solve things is by war...why not by a game of vollyball or twister whats wrong with that. your brought up to not fight be nice love. and everyone says i want peace in the world but no one does a thing about it. im still in school and in history im learning about how some people cant accept others because they have a different look to them or their religion is not thiers i hate it i want to do something have my voice out there for all to hear. but its like im in a club and what ever i do i cant get around the noice to tell my friend "what did you say"!!! im asking you why war why not peace why does everything have to be complicated when it doesnt?!!!! why make it easy ? it hurts to say it but if we dont shape up soon we mite all die either from depression murder suisde...its the worst disease ive ever could feast my eyes on. why can it stop!?????

your question is sorta hard to answer i think the reason no one can be peacful is we care so much of what others will think of us unless we do what they like. We are so differenct in our own ways but some people can't accept that. This usually started when we were kids playing games to see who can get to the end of the track first. To a point in high school where we alienate kids because of what they look like or wear. To answer your question I think we can't stop because we have been doing it all our lives and that some people say they want to stop it but they don't recognize when they're actually doing it. And this is what i think even though i havent experianced all my life being at the age of 14.

When the power of love Overcomes the love of power the world will know PEACE.

Hope I Answered Your Question.

xoxoGossipxGirlxoxo

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ok so first of all i have known what sex is since i was 8 and now im 14 and i have had my period for about a year now and my parents dont know that i have my period or i know what sex is i have been hiding my period from them because i dont want to talk about sex with them it feels weird when i talk about stuff like that with them i cant even tell them that i have a crush on a boy or somthing like that i just feel really weird how can i tell them that i have my period without getting the sex talk

oh i had my period about a 2 years ago and don't worry, my parents didn't give me the sex talk i only told my mom and she hasn't told my dad. Parents just are happy to see you growing up. You should probably tell your mom because you can't really hide it forever. Trust me it will work out and they will probably not give you the sex talk and yes i think they are just as afraid to talk to you as you are with them about sex.

Hope I helped.
xoxoGossipxGirlxoxo

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okay, i asked a question about gifted and talented yesturday and said how adam kinda stood up for me. well like i donno what happened.
i asked him about G&A because like i said he\'s in it too, and he explained everything out to me. so i told him i was thinking about leaving the class because i didn\'t know anyone in it and he\'s like well you know me doesn\'t that count for something?? like all cute because he is=] and i was like well yeahh but and i explained everything i was thinking that i explained in my other question about him being made fun of for talking to me because my name isn\'t highly respected. and he kinda laughed and was like-- what do you think were doing right now? and i didn\'t know what to say i fealt kinda stupid.. and for reassurance he was like katie, i don\'t care what my \'popular friends' think I barely talk to them anyway. i was like awwww haha noo but so wanted to hug him. and like now everyones like ooo you guys are like best friends. but i donno.. none of this happened until that whole g&a class. wait noo.. before but not as hardcore. and i dont believe in labels but i explained this to my cousin over aim and she\'s like aww it sounds like adam likes you. but it\'s me so its like well he could be feeling sorry for me. and then in tech ed this kid mike was yelling at me because the table was packed just like every other one, and i was like wow mike calm down budd jeezz. and he like rawred and i was standing next to adam and we missed yesturdays class because of g&a and we were both lost in the project everyone started so we ended up teaming up just like copying people =]] and it was soo much funny i swear and i loved it. i love hanging out with him it\'s just the looks adam and i get.. but it doesnt faze adam im like ughhh. i know- i know self esteam but so hard to build.
and on the way home, i sat next to him. and randomly out\'ve no where he was like \"are you really going to kick g&a??\" so i was like \"maybe.. i\'ll probably think about it over the weekend and what not.\" well adam didn\'t take that answer...
he was like \"no. katie.. you\'ll do awesome in tha class why don\'t you continue it..\" i was like because no one wants me there. so he brought the whole mee thing upp =] and then was like \"promiss me you wont drop out.. i really want you there and think you can do it.\" i swear my face is beat red and im like I donno know.. im not sure but thankss and he\'s like first stop and he refused to get up. he didnt get up when the bus stopped and my bus driver was like adam??? but he kept looking at me in his cute little puppy eyes and was like please??? so what could i say? so i was like fine.. and his face lite up i was like awwww and like wanted to cry.
well i think im starting to like him. but i can\'t. okay how 1st grade does that sound.. but no i mean he\'s a genusus.. straight up smarty pantss! im smart but not hardcore future rocketsciencetest.
does it look like he likes me by how he acts around me?? and im not pretty and i know what you\'ll say you probably are.. blahh blahh. im not. im 14. 200 pounds so ima fatty and because im fat i have acanthosis negricans which is discoloration around the neck, armpits and knuckles. people are being all aww but its like look at me! i know i need to build self eestem but its so hard with like fungii growing out\'ve my neck.
btw i dont feel right swearing infront of adam because he doesnt grow up in that kinda household so how do i stop? it\'ll slip through and im like =0 sorry adam. and i know he doesnt care he\'s told me but it doesnt feel right and i wanna brake that habbit anyway. so any good things about that would be greatly appreciated.
thanks--sorrys its soo long!

i think you should if you like him that much everytime you want to swear replace it with the word fudge or everytime you want to swear think of adam. or you could replace the cusswords with some other words well thats what i would do.
Hope I helped.
xoxoGossipxGirlxoxo

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i sent sumbody a message & now i dont want him 2 read it
how can i delete it so he cant read it

I'm sorry honey but it isen't going to be deleted its there forever. But what i do is say you gave one of your friends your password and they sent it to you as like a joke or something , he's a guy he'll probably believe you, but if it doesnt have his name on it say it was sent to the wrong person.

Hope i helped.
xoxoGossipxGirlxoxo

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OK I'm turning 14 in March, and I need to start studying for my driver's permit test. Are there any websites that can help me? I live in Arkansas btw :) thanks

Instead of websites you could always go to your local DMV and get a driving packet.
Hope i helped. (hopefully because i live in a different state).
xoxoGossipxGirlxoxo

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I'm having a holiday and a valentine party. (2 different ones) I really want some cute games and ways to get my friends parents to let them sleep over (Co-Ed) I know like spin the bottle, but we're 13 so any ideas?

Oh yes spin the bottle is fun so is 7 minutes in heaven. But you should try to have the guys leave around midnight thats what me and my friends did and it works. But remember your only 13 don't completely go over the top. Plus some kids are close to their family and might tell them so watch out for that.
Hope I helped.
xoxoGossipxGirlxoxo

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13/ F

ok
so a little bit about the characters
M = me
S = sam (yes, this is a girl)
b = blake
anywayzzzzz

i like this boy lets call him B

and i used to go out with him, we both ended it because we wated to be friends. but then he told me that he still cares for me.
well... S knows how much i like him. bu ttoday she told me that she likes him too.... at first i didn't care because we aren't going out anymore
but then i was hurt really badly....
what kind of a friend would do this to me???

this has happened before i liked a guy named Sam then she liked him to

so i told my mom this problem and she thinks that she is jealous of me... so she likes the same guys

should i stay friends with her... well i mean of course i am staying friends with her
but she is moving away soon and i am very sad.
even though she is doing this to me

please help me
and yes i have tried talking to S but she just likes them anywayzzz

i have never liked her BF's and she shouldn't like mine right?

yes i rate

Maybe she thought you were over him or she wanted him for herself it depends if you still want to be friends or not. And it also i think you should think over if you still like this guy if you really don't let sam take a liking to him.

Hope I helped.
xoxoGossipxGirlxoxo

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OK, my love life is far too complicated to handle. I seem to have had bad luck over and over again when it comes to men (I'm 18/f by the way).

So my first boyfriend (A) I got with about 2 and a half years ago, but we broke up 6 months ago. It was totally the right thing to do - things really weren't working out (i.e he definately wasn't the guy I thought he was). Anyway, I met a new guy (B), who I dated for a bit, but then suddenly he stopped things without any real reason.

Now I'm single, and I've found that my confidence in flirting and that is completely dashed. Like I'll make out with guys when drunk (don't judge me, I'm very confused!!) but I can never establish more with them than a few text messages. And the guys that HAVE wanted to get to know me better I've lost interest in as soon as I realised. Weird, huh?

Basically, I'm not over the guy I dated after my boyfriend. And what with A getting a new girlfriend, and me not so happy this new year, I figure a bit of advice may help :)

Thanks in advance!

I'll answer as easy as I can. I think your makinmg out with those guys because you feel that after you broke upi with him that you have to go around with other guys to make yourself feel better. It will get so much better this year just don't make yourself so available and try to not get drunk when meeting guys, try to meet guys that have values because if you first make out with them it just won't work out.

Hope I helped.
xoxoGossipxGirlxoxo

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Okay, I asked a question about this before. Well, only that I was considered in being assigned into this class that I had no idea what it was, well now I know it's a class for prepps!
Okay Im not a prep. What-So-Ever! I'm not like dirt poor nasty needer of friends but I have no friends in this class. And every teacher I asked was like Ohh wow congratulations! Im like for what? I told my favorite teacher about my problem.. because I can't just drop out of this class because my Mother was imformed and she told everyone and she wont be mad she'll be dissipointed. I know I can do everything in the class which is a bunch of building stuff. Im almost possitive but today was my first class where the teacher informed everyone about what we would be doing and I kinda was a little late so I walked in maybe 6mins late asked if this was the room for G&A and kids looked at me as if I had 6 heads!! I have no friends in this class but everyone I've told was like Ohh my god stay in it dont you dare drop out this is an amazing oppurtunity. Like today Bailey was like "Are you sure youe saposed to be in this?" so being completely insulted i was like "My teacher told me that I was on the list-- So I just hope my teachers not wrong!" Trying to be nice but ohh I just wanted to smack him. Im not the kind've person to get in this. Its a bunch of smart people.. So I asked my teacher why I was even chosen she said because i think outside the box. ILL STOP I will I hate it. But Its only my first class so i should stay in and prove these little kiddies wrong! I know, but i stayed back last year and this is the second year of me being in there grade Im not the most popularist kid, or the best looking. Or anything really and I know this shouldnt madder but it does! All the girls are pretty and I feel so huge and ugly I seriously wanted to cry.. the only kid in my class thats in it with me is Adam. He was the only guy who talked to me and everyone was like Adam you talk to Katie?? And he completely was like Yeahh shes awesome. =]] Kinda made me happy but I embarressed him and I know I did:[ I can't drop out, but I like can't stand to be in the class... and the only kid who actually talks to me might like now be made fun of! I like Adam[[FRIEND]] I dont want that..=[[
I dont have the confidence to stay in this. Ive been getting the grades ever since I stayed back i didnt think anyone noticed. Well now people are stopping me in the halls! Infront of kids, be like "ohh Katie I Hear your doing so much better-- Im sooo proud of you.'" and yea im flattered but jeeeezz. I never liked being the invisible girl, but i had that class in the morning now no one will drop it its like story of the year. The smartest girl in my class Madison didnt get in and she thought she would but only a certain number of kids could and I was chosen instead of her-- now shes like out to get me NO JOKE!
I know im making this sound like end of the world but I know its not.. but why is it such a big deal?? Get over it and drop it.. No one talked to Adam! Erghh I know it isnt as horrible as Im making it out to be, people are noticing im not like my brothers but for liek 2 years nothing now im drowning in there congratulations!!!
=[[

Stay in the class who cares about everyone else you have the right to be there and i think adam sounds nice so you should stay in that class no matter what everyone else says because its your life and just because they make fun of you or whatever screw that your pretty no matter what they say.

Hope i Helped.
xoxoGossipxGirlxoxo

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Hey!
Ok, so i like this guy named dylan. Long story short, my friend kelly told him that i like him. I liked dylan 2 months ago,(then i stopped but now i like him again) and someone told him that i liked him then, and he didnt talk with me for a week.
We were just becoming really good friends and he was showing tons of signs that he likes me.
Now i dont know what to do.. Do i just ignore the fact that he knows i like him or..??
When kelly told him she said the reason i didnt want him to know was because i didnt want things to be different between us, and he said dont worry they wont.. What the heck did he mean by that?
And last question.. So he just got the iphone, and i knew he didnt have my nember, so when he came over to me and my friend christina in the hallway i asked if he had my number. He said no. I asked if he wanted it, he was like Uh... um.. sure?! But he walked away a couple seconds later.. i never gave it too him.. Does this mean he doesnt like me?? or.. did he just forget? After i said i would give it to him, christina said something funny, he laughed then walked away if that helps any.
Thanks soo much!

I would say he sounds like a normal middle schol boy who really doesn't know what he wants. And those things sound like he does like you and you should decide if you want to give him a chance because it looks like he likes you, and when he said don't worry they wont he means it won't change things between you that it will be ok but i should warn you if you go out and decide to break up things WON'T be the same.

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how do you delete songs from a ipod nano the easiest way?

my answer is go to apple.com/support and than go to the site choose your ipod and get the technical stuff thats what i would do.

hope i helped
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