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i'm a senior in high school this year. i've been dating an incredible guy for about nine months. he's been my best friend for almost four years, so we already knew each other really well. he is the most amazing guy i've ever met. we have a deep, deep connection. we're both strong christians and very spiritual and have built our relationship on that. we deeply love each other. i've never felt this serious or in love with anybody. i'd never loved until him. i'm the first girl he's dated, but i've dated a lot before him. i know he is the kind of guy i want to spend the rest of my life with. he knows all of this. we talk about our future together a lot. we hope we will get married someday. this kinda scares me though because we're young and serious. i'm afraid i'll get my heart broken or break his heart. honestly, i can't see myself ever loving anybody else like this. i want to marry him. we want to make it though college before we marry, but we're probably going to different colleges. we know we can stay together but it will be hard. i love, love, love him. and i think, if possible, he feels even stronger. ;) do i sound like another crazy high school girl in puppy love? or does this sound like we have a future together? if there is a possible future there, do you have any advice for our future? like tips to stay together over long distance? this is a while away, but we want to be prepared for the change. i don't want to lose him. i love him. sorry for the 'mushy' message, it's just been on my mind a lot. :)

really? it sounds like you guys are in love. i mean you have known eachother for so long and if you know you want a future with him and he thinks the same then make it so. dont deny it just go with the flow. if you both love eachother the way you say you do then itll work out in the end =]

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19..female. i'm a very outgoing girl. i'm very confident in myself but not to the point where i'm cocky, i hate people like that. i just love to have fun. i'm crazy loud and heard to be funny/fun to be around. the problem is..

girls HATE being around me and guys because they feel like i get all the attention and like i'm asking for it. but really, its just how i am. its not my fault that they give me the attention?

for instance..last weekend me my friend and her neighbor went to go see her boyfriend. i was in the back seat and we pulled up to his house and i was like hiii!! and then i was just being gooofy and stuff while my friends neighbor was talking to her boyfriend. i didnt seem to think i was doing anything wrong until i hear that she feels like i was trying to get her boyfriends attention and stuff..? i was totally blind-sided. because thats not how i am at allll.

is it wrong of me just to want to have fun? sorry it attracts boys attentions but i just hate when gilrs dont like being around me because they feel i get all the attention and am an "attention whore" when really... its how i am?

I think you are just one of those people that everyone is jealous of because they arent like you. you are just really outgoing and friendly. dont stop being that way just because people dont like you. be who you are thats the best you can be. and if people have a problem with that then they dont deserve you.

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okayyy so like my friend i dont know if shes lying to me i hear all the time she is and i have known her forever what do i do ?

well a lot of the time people who lie will tell you a story once and then when you ask them again they will change the story up somewhat. because they change it. but some people just forget. people who are good liars a lot of the time know all the tricks but if you go on google or any search engine and look up lieing or signs people are lieing you should be able to find expressions and ways to tell that they are lieing.

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i heard this song, and i think it may be by jason mraz.
when i type it into google, i cant find anything.

it goes " it takes no time to fall in love, but it takes years to know what love is"

it is by jason mraz its called life is wonderful
here are the lyrics =]
"Life Is Wonderful"

It takes a crane to build a crane
It takes two floors to make a story
It takes an egg to make a hen
It takes a hen to make an egg
There is no end to what I'm saying

It takes a thought to make a word
And it takes some words to make an action
It takes some work to make it work
It takes some good to make it hurt
It takes some bad for satisfaction

La la la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
Ah la la la la la la life is wonderful
Al la la la la

It takes a night to make it dawn
And it takes a day to make you yawn brother
And it takes some old to make you young
It takes some cold to know the sun
It takes the one to have the other

And it takes no time to fall in love
But it takes you years to know what love is
It takes some fears to make you trust
It takes those tears to make it rust
It takes the dust to have it polished

Ha la la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
Ah la la la la la la life is so full of
Ah la la la la la la life is so rough
Ah la la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
Ah la la la la la la life is our love
Ah la la la la la

It takes some silence to make sound
It takes a loss before you found it
And it takes a road to go nowhere
It takes a toll to make you care
It takes a hole to make a mountain

Ah la la la la la la life is wonderful
Ah la la la la la la life goes full circle
Ha la la la la la life is wonderful
Ha la la la la la life is meaningful
Ha la la la la la life is wonderful
Ha la la la la la life it is...so... wonderful
It is so meaningful
It is so wonderful
It is meaningful
It is wonderful
It is meaningful
It goes full circle
Wonderful
Meaningful
Full circle
Wonderful

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I'm writing a paper for school and I'm quite confused with what I'm finding online, so if anyone knows, please help!

Is it legal for a restaurant to record conversations the people are having and have them playing in the back where the food is prepared. If the purpose is to get the order faster (allowing the chef to hear the order and get started while the waiter is taking it down to get a heads start) but still being able to hear any part of the couples conversation, would this be considered legal or illegal?

I'm leaning towards illegal. Any ideas? Please & Thank you!

i would think it was illegal because of the fact that the peopel didnt consent to having a private conversation they were having recorded.

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My mom had breast cancer when I was little and I want to start getting checked for breast cancer. I heard that this is breast cancer awareness month, I think, and so I thought maybe there were some free places this month I could have a breast cancer screening done at...does anyone know of a place?

you can try a local clinic. i think they offer them. if not ask your doctor. or a doctor you know.

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What is a good dish to bring to a potluck dinner? I am going to one this weekend and I STILL haven't figured out what I want to bring. I want to bring a dish that most people will enjoy so I guess something not TOO extravagant, you know? What are some really good, delicious ideas for dishes to bring to a potluck? THANKS!

well depends on what you want to bring
do you want to bring a type of salad
a dessert
an appetizer
or an actual dinner entree?
if a salad why dont you bring something like potato salad or pasta salad.
if a dessert why not something chocolaty
if an entree why dont you bring something like fried chicken or something really simple.
hope i could help

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I didn't make a garden at home this year but next year I plan to do that because I want some nice, tasty home-grown vegetables for salads and stuff. Anyway, what are easy vegetables to grow at home? I want to go on and make a list so I don't have to worry about it next year. I have enough space to plant whatever vegetables but I don't want to try anything that is complicated or needs a lot of maintenance since I'm just getting into this.

tomatos are awesome to grow and i really like how home grown cucombers come out.

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I'm a senior in high school and over the years I've had to suffer, and still more than ever, really, really bad jealousy. And I don't mean I'm jealous over people in my grade being prettier than me or getting guys, but I mean being jealous of people being smarter and better at stuff than i am. I am pretty smart, i work really hard, and do well in school and everything else I do, but there are always handfuls of people who are way better than me. I mean, I know it's almost impossible to be the best at everything but I can't help but be really, really jealous. I'm really good at music but there are so many people who I'm jealous of because they're better than me. I'm also so jealous of the kids in my class who are smart enough to apply to mit, yale, cornell, harvard, upenn, etc. What kills me is when people are amazing at music AND really smart. But my question is, does this high school competitiveness tone down once college starts (i'm not going to an ivy league)? Is college less like high school, where everyone is interested in each others' grades and where everyone is always trying to surpass each other? I really want to be able to see a light at the end of the tunnel.
Thanks.

i dont see why you should compare yourself to others when it comes to grades and that stuff. you should be doing the best you can do. you probably could have gotten into any of those schools but did you actually apply to them? if not then thats why you arent there. because you got to jealous of someone else that you really shouldnt have gotten jealous of anyways and you didnt think you could do it. jealousy is something everybody feels. but it seems like you dont have enough confidence in yourself to see how great you are. you just look at everyone else. i havent gone to college yet but my friends tell me that it is a new experience. it can be hard for you if you let it be. i never got jealous of people in high school because of their grades i just tried to do the best i could.

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So, apparently I caught the H1N1 swine flu last week (verified by my doctor; yes, he ran some tests for it). It was pretty awful but aren't all flus? Anyway, do I still need the H1N1 swine flu vaccine? I mean, if I already overcame it, it means I'm immune for this year, right? I'm still getting a seasonal flu shot, but do I actually need the specific H1N1 vaccination?

in science i learned that you can never get the same sickness like flu or cold more than once. but it can mutate and get worse and you think its the same thing but its not. you should really ask your doctor if it would actually help you out if not then i dont see why you should have to get it.

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I'm 14, in 10th grade now, and I'm due to have my cervical cancer vaccination, Gardasil, next friday, but since a girl died from it recently I've been looking into it more. I'm now having second thoughts because of some of the facts. Turns out that the Gardasil vaccination only helps to prevent four of the HPV strains out of over a hundred. That doesn't sound like such great odds to me anyway. Out of 700,000 girls 1,300 have had adverse side effects which includes paralysis, sight problems seizures, and sudden death. They haven't researched what the vaccine may do to you in the long-term future either...like the morning sickness shot they gave pregnant women years ago, that left babies deformed in the end! I'm afraid that this shot may cause other serious problems years later for me. I'm really scared about having it done! They say it only lasts 6 years so I don't really see the point in having it done if I'll be 20 when it wears off and haven't even had sex before then. I plan on waiting until I'm married before I have sex anyway. It's just my beliefs. Please help me figure out what I should do about the shot! What should I do? I don't want to do it now but I feel like I should or something...but then again I don't...ugh!!!!! HELP!

my mom made me get it without looking into it and i really didnt want to get it. i mean yes it helps prevetns certain things but i also heard it was harmful. its not a shot you need to get. you should think about it and figure out if it is truely worth it. all i know is that when i got it the injection site hurt so bad and my hands would shake more than usual but thats because my hands also do shake already.

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is elite modeling a good company thing????? PLEASE HELP!!

its actually very popular and its known for being a very good modeling agency.

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I'm almost 25 years old, I'm a guy, and I like the Goo Goo Dolls. Is there something wrong with me? I know that they're pretty much "get laid" music, which means they get laid after a show, but I just enjoy the music they make. Am I a homo?

nope it just means you like the goo goo dolls. its just a band and its just music. youre not about to go out and get with a guy. why would it seriously make you gay? or what you say a "homo"?

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What're the pros of waking up early on weekends ?

today I had the day off from school, and since I'm so used to the schedule of school, I usually wake up at 9. my boyfriend told me to wake up him when I did, so I kept calling him, but he didn't wake up until 12.

we got into an argument and he said "oh, you're not doing anything today as it is, why wake up early?"

so, although you're not doing much that day, what're the pros of waking up early despite plans or not?

sleeping later in the day makes you feel sleepy all day and it can put a strain on your body. but having a normal schedule and waking up early is actually better because you arent as tired during the day and you can really accomplish more. i really dont see why your bf has a problem with it.

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So, my best friend about 6 months ago moved down to her dad's house.
But she still visits her mom. Which when she does, we planned to hang out.
But when she first moved, she didn't even tell me. I found out from a teacher at school. And she talked to me on myspace, called me, etc. like everything was normal. And then I confronted her about her moving. And she just said "Sorry, I meant to tell you." =/ But I forgave her for that. But she came down to her mom's this weekend. She promised to call me and to hang out. And my friend, Hannah (also her friend), started telling me about the amazing weekend her and Haley (my "best friend") had and how I should have been there. O.o Which is what we planned at first. But I never got the call. And lately she's been telling me she's going to visit and call me, but she never does. I've canceled plans once thinking we were going to hang out, but she never called.
And it's not only that she's not keeping to her word, it's that I feel we are growing apart. And I still at least want to stay friends with her, but I don't know how. Should I try talking to her? Or just forget about it? =/

ive had a friend like this.
1. try to confront her. and if you thinks shes lieing dont even try to be her friend because thats all shes gonna do.
2. it sounds like shes trying to make your friendship not work.

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i have a friend who is new to my school.she follows me everywhere and she is annoying ,and tries to hard.i want to find a way to get rid of her without hurting her feelings because i used to be and act like her.

1. you know how it felt like to be her. so give her some slack.
2. introduce her to people you think she will have stuff in common with.
3. maybe get to know her better and maybe if you give her a chance you guys might end up being great friends.

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Okay so I don't feel like having a party for my birthday but i just want to invite like a couple of my best friends over. I have no clue what to do except maybe music/dancing and movies. What other things could we do?
Im 14 by the way. thanks.

you can do makeovers
watch movies
eat
dance
just have fun
truth or dare haha
thats always fun.
play pranks on people.
just the fun stuff

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16 f

So I just found out my best friend is bisexual . Ok bigg deal right? So why doesn't everyone else at my school see it the way I do? Today in school I sat with her during studies and heard people wispering all sorts of stuff and I overheared one person in perticular say "omg maybe that's her girlfriend" it just pisses me off how people are so sterolistic these days and judge one another for the stupidest stuff I hate drama I hate stress I try to avoid it everyday and now because of that once stupid person everyone is beginning to get the idea that I too am a bisexual and I certainly am not (not that there's anything wrong with being bisexual I'm just saying I wouldn't fitt under that category) and the last thing I want to do is avoid her or stop talking to her because I'm not that kind of person . How do I stop everyone from thinking this way without going to that last suggestion? Or how do I avoid all of this?

you shouldnt care what people say they are just stupid. i swear. just ignore it believe me it will be old news soon.

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what could we do this friday thats like really fun! ok so i dont really want to ddo the mall thing or movies or go out to dinnner becuase we do that almost every weekend and we want something new to do.. we already though of a sleep over but ehh not so awesome! ya know? so i was wondering if anyone had any ideas on what we could do thats really fun???

were 16 if that helps anything :]

movie night.
if you live by a beach go to the beach or lake or something
camping
you can do a sleepover
umm have like a little party
maybe go to a party.
just find something fun to do

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17/f
okay soo here's the deal. my friend ben started goin out with this girl named holly. and i didnt really know her until i heard she was making up stuff and was trying to make me and my cousin (also my best friend) go pick her up cuz ben "supposively" wanted to see her but he didnt. ben was starting to lose his friends because of her so i went up to her in like october and sorta yelled at her. my cousin and other friend didnt like her at the moment either. but now my cousin is friends with her and on new years eve her and our other friend were like oh my god answer this and i didnt know who it was and i seen it was holly and i was like "what do you want" and she is like can i talk to allie (my cousin) and im like she is driving.do you want me to give her a message? and she like hung up on me. my cousin says she is scared of me, and bens older sister was like is that girl still being mean to you? but i dont know what she said back. and like the next day my cousin is like why did you hang up on her holly, and she is like she wasnt saying anything, and this got me really mad because she was lying about it. but whatever and then my cousin was like oh were you with ben on new years eve? and she is like no and she was like dont worry he didnt kiss any girl, and then our friend nessa yells in the phone "YEAH EXCEPT WHEN MANDI (me) AND BEN WERE KISSING IN THE BACK SEAT" i felt kinda but but she was just like "what?" it wasnt true tho! i didnt kiss him, im not like that. i feel kinda bad being mean to her now because honestly i dont want any "beef" with her, i dont have a reason to but wouldnt it be weird if all of a sudden i was tryin to be nice to her? and i dont wanna apologize because that would be like...umm okkkay? and my cousin and nessa would be like what the hell, i thought you hated her. i dont really see this girl, because everyone thinks i hate her and stuff so they keep me away from her. any suggestions??

thank you soo much. sorry so long but i'll rate ya!

gosh she sounds horrible for the stuff she has done. i kinda think she deserved hearing that. but anyways just say i didnt kiss him i dont know why people think i did. and just end it there and if anyone sayd anything just be like whatever someone said it not me i was just making the story straight. well i hope that helped.

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