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how can i apologize.
17/f
okay soo here's the deal. my friend ben started goin out with this girl named holly. and i didnt really know her until i heard she was making up stuff and was trying to make me and my cousin (also my best friend) go pick her up cuz ben "supposively" wanted to see her but he didnt. ben was starting to lose his friends because of her so i went up to her in like october and sorta yelled at her. my cousin and other friend didnt like her at the moment either. but now my cousin is friends with her and on new years eve her and our other friend were like oh my god answer this and i didnt know who it was and i seen it was holly and i was like "what do you want" and she is like can i talk to allie (my cousin) and im like she is driving.do you want me to give her a message? and she like hung up on me. my cousin says she is scared of me, and bens older sister was like is that girl still being mean to you? but i dont know what she said back. and like the next day my cousin is like why did you hang up on her holly, and she is like she wasnt saying anything, and this got me really mad because she was lying about it. but whatever and then my cousin was like oh were you with ben on new years eve? and she is like no and she was like dont worry he didnt kiss any girl, and then our friend nessa yells in the phone "YEAH EXCEPT WHEN MANDI (me) AND BEN WERE KISSING IN THE BACK SEAT" i felt kinda but but she was just like "what?" it wasnt true tho! i didnt kiss him, im not like that. i feel kinda bad being mean to her now because honestly i dont want any "beef" with her, i dont have a reason to but wouldnt it be weird if all of a sudden i was tryin to be nice to her? and i dont wanna apologize because that would be like...umm okkkay? and my cousin and nessa would be like what the hell, i thought you hated her. i dont really see this girl, because everyone thinks i hate her and stuff so they keep me away from her. any suggestions??
thank you soo much. sorry so long but i'll rate ya!
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Well, if the reason you don't like her is because of her lying, then why is it you need to apologize? You are not at fault.
And if these other folks are lying and telling her that you kissed this guy, then why should you have to apologize for others? You are not at fault.
The best way I can see to go about making amends with her is to just go up to her, and say "We got off on the wrong foot, I don't want us to have to do this avoiding game, I want us to get along. How about we just start over?"
Offer your hand as a sign of friendship and shake on it.
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gosh she sounds horrible for the stuff she has done. i kinda think she deserved hearing that. but anyways just say i didnt kiss him i dont know why people think i did. and just end it there and if anyone sayd anything just be like whatever someone said it not me i was just making the story straight. well i hope that helped.
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I honestly don't know why you hate Holly so much besides the fact that she makes stuff up. You should be the bigger person and apologize for being rude to her for no reason. I don't think that you would want anyone to treat you the way that you're treating her. Your cousins won't be like "uhm, okay" if you apologize to Holly. But, like I said.. defenetly apologize and I know it probably wasn't your intention to make things bad between you and her. You never know, you guys could end up being great friends if you gave her a chance.
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