|
i dont do it for the attention.. its just me!
19..female. i'm a very outgoing girl. i'm very confident in myself but not to the point where i'm cocky, i hate people like that. i just love to have fun. i'm crazy loud and heard to be funny/fun to be around. the problem is..
girls HATE being around me and guys because they feel like i get all the attention and like i'm asking for it. but really, its just how i am. its not my fault that they give me the attention?
for instance..last weekend me my friend and her neighbor went to go see her boyfriend. i was in the back seat and we pulled up to his house and i was like hiii!! and then i was just being gooofy and stuff while my friends neighbor was talking to her boyfriend. i didnt seem to think i was doing anything wrong until i hear that she feels like i was trying to get her boyfriends attention and stuff..? i was totally blind-sided. because thats not how i am at allll.
is it wrong of me just to want to have fun? sorry it attracts boys attentions but i just hate when gilrs dont like being around me because they feel i get all the attention and am an "attention whore" when really... its how i am?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
The poster who said they are just jealous , maybe so.
Ask yourself if you have ever behaved in a manner that if one of your friends ever behaved in the same way , that you wouldnt be annoyed?
If you can say you wouldn't be annoyed, then yep, theyre just jealous.
]
I think you are just one of those people that everyone is jealous of because they arent like you. you are just really outgoing and friendly. dont stop being that way just because people dont like you. be who you are thats the best you can be. and if people have a problem with that then they dont deserve you.
]
More Questions: |