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Men, right...
OK, my love life is far too complicated to handle. I seem to have had bad luck over and over again when it comes to men (I'm 18/f by the way).
So my first boyfriend (A) I got with about 2 and a half years ago, but we broke up 6 months ago. It was totally the right thing to do - things really weren't working out (i.e he definately wasn't the guy I thought he was). Anyway, I met a new guy (B), who I dated for a bit, but then suddenly he stopped things without any real reason.
Now I'm single, and I've found that my confidence in flirting and that is completely dashed. Like I'll make out with guys when drunk (don't judge me, I'm very confused!!) but I can never establish more with them than a few text messages. And the guys that HAVE wanted to get to know me better I've lost interest in as soon as I realised. Weird, huh?
Basically, I'm not over the guy I dated after my boyfriend. And what with A getting a new girlfriend, and me not so happy this new year, I figure a bit of advice may help :)
Thanks in advance!
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I'll answer as easy as I can. I think your makinmg out with those guys because you feel that after you broke upi with him that you have to go around with other guys to make yourself feel better. It will get so much better this year just don't make yourself so available and try to not get drunk when meeting guys, try to meet guys that have values because if you first make out with them it just won't work out.
Hope I helped.
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I know exactly the reason that the guys you made out with while drunk didn't call you back. They messaged out of guiltiness of not doing so, but did not want to establish an immediate relationship with some girl that they didn't know, and came off as "easy", the girl who kissed them while intoxicated. Not really that becoming. I suggest that you meet guys other ways; flirt in bookstores (the classic place for finding dates), cafes, restaurants, churches, the gym. Places like bookstores or church are especially good since that means that at least you're interested in some of the same stuff. And for you getting over this guy, I can't help you. Only time and some genuine fun (no drinking or sex) will heal your bruises from your past relationship.
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