Listen ask me abut anything and iw ill give you a response no matter what. Ilike music, play the keyboard. And if you expecially need help with things like socially or funny or things along that sort just ask.
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Gender: Male
Location: MI
Age: 16
AIM: lokatme321
Member Since: April 2, 2007
Answers: 38
Last Update: April 28, 2007
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hi im 14 6ft tall and weigh 300 pounds ish arg no judgement please i really want to loose weight but i cant move because i have a shattered hip and pelvis after beign attacked. can anyone give me any advice ??? please thanks (link)
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hey im 16 6'4 and about 300 too and go on weight watchers on it you could just sit and still lose weight ok. Its good thats what i am on i have lost 35 in about 2 months so thats what you should do. Oh and work out i like working out you may not buit that is how i was trust me after you wqork out for a long time you ownt be able to stop. Of course you will have to wait to you heal properly.
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whats newer and cooler than an ipod? i dunno.. my cousin told me something, that like ipods arent really that "in" anymore and theres something else.. i forget what its called.. does anyone know the name? and no i dont live near my cousin and it would be weird to just call them to ask that question. thanks :)
like he said that on this thing you can also listen to the radio and such.. also where can i buy an ipod for the cheapest? (dont say ebay). a white ipod nano (can there be colors? unless thats just like the cover. if theres colors, then i'd like a green one.) (link)
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oh you are talking about a Zune way better
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ok. so there's this guy on my bus who is usually like a total cocky ass little bitch and he really pisses me off. but he isn't anymore. he like sits at the back of the bus, lays down, and sulks. and i know this sounds rediculous but it pisses me off that he isn't being all cocky and shit. now, we aren't the best of friends [he's admitted that he's scared of me (probably cause i could totally kick his ass)] but it bothers me that he isn't being all cocky and stuff. now, the big thing is, i can't stand him but i have this "characteristic" or whatever that makes me want to solve everyone's problems [including this boys]. so, should i just beat him up so he'll be his normal self or just leave him alone or what? please help! (link)
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im sorry you are probobly give me a one for this but omg you are going to beat the shit out of some person cause there not being cocky. What has the world come to we dont like people who are cocky and think of themselves as better and we dont like the people who are just there and dont bother anyone. If you say you want to solve his problem did you ever think how much betting the shit out of him will actually mess him up more?
well i hope i helped some how.
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ok so when i get embarrassed or something bad happens to me or i get in trouble i always try to make a joke out of it. it's like ..im afraid that people will laugh at me or be like...psh what a freak...is it bad to always be joking and smiling at everything? if its bad is there anything i can do to stop.like i dont want to be a sad non-smiling person but i really need to stop joking around. thanks in advance! 15/f (link)
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I believ you need to both there eh? :} you need to figuir out when its time to joke and when its time not to. If you dont know then think about it make a list and when those times come well you know dont joke. alrighty
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There have been rumors at my school that there will be a school shooting tommorrow, as it is the anniversary of Colombine. I know that many schools are having rumors such as this circulated, and that it probably won't happen. However, I don't feel safe going to school tommorrow. I'm terrified. My mother is making me go; she refuses to listen to me when I say that I'm scared. How can I convince her? (link)
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wow i think some other people already answered i was just looking at some peoples comments. omgare they retarted? bannanas taking over the world eh. That is absolutly nothing to take lightly i belive i am answering this way after the fact. And no school shooting is not that slim of a chance. Look at all the things that have happened after virginia tech. today is annevisary for columbine. Dont ever take something like that unseriously. I hoped you had a good day today and i hope nothing happened
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what the heck is a punta? i know its spanish for point but ive heard people call others that.. and im lost? (link)
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Si, puta en engles es bitch
ayudas con espanol? pregunta? then just ask lol im american
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14/f OKAy my dad has been battling cancer of and on since i was about 9 im 14 now and about 3 months ago all the cancer was gone and i was sooo happpy well last week he got realli sick and had to go to the hospital to get his kidneys fixed.. well they think he has bladder cancer now.. I cryed a little bit but i keep tryint to hold it all in... last time my dad had cancer i had a major breakdown with my 3 really close friends, i dont liek ot break down but they were thhere for me and they talked me through everythign.... well no i feel like i have noone to break down to and i realy feel like i need to just once and let all my anger and sadness out..but the friends i did it with last time we arent really friends anymore becausse we went to different high schools when high school started.. now i feel like if i want to talk to anyone 1. they wont care and 2. they will think differntly of me because i am the girl who is easy to become friends with but im alwsy the one to listen to there problems and i rarely let anyone know whats goign on in my life.. i feel like if i done have a "breakdown" soon something bad is goign to happen.. i dont wanna become depressed but i think i am on the rode to major depresseion and i used to cut myself and i really dont wanna start that up again but i feel that if i need to i will.....What do i do!!!!!!!?!?!? i cant go to any counselers cause i never feel comfortable with them.... how do i talk to my friends about it !?!?!?! im just soo lost iu dont knoe what to do with myself??
ANy advice will help
THank you in advance (link)
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Hey smile your dad isnt dead. Did you think of that maybe you have maybe you havnt.doesnt matter I am sorry i cant tell you what to do i am sorry for that . But i think you know what to do you said in your paragraph. Get someone to talk to. Hey i know this will sound weird but you can try talking to your dad tell him how much you feel for him. This is if you havnt because that will help you and it will help him too. You know that time at night when you are just sitting there and somepeople think of the thing s they have, somepeople things they havnt, somepeople things they want. While you sit there go over all of it one night all the things you have things you dont things you want. And where does your dad come into picture?
Most likely i will never talk to you again you answer my question or i answer another one of your so if not have a good life.
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15/f. Is it possible to be at such an early age?
1. I don't trust ANYONE. Not even my parents. Nobody understands. Nobody WANTS to understand. They don't want it to be their problem. They shrug it off. My parents make up excuses to not have to deal with me, since I'm at the *uncontrolled teen* stage of my life.
2. I cut myself
3. I don't talk to anyone. I'm antisocial, and I seem to hate everyone/everything.
4. I cry for no reason. I'm very sensitive and have gone through a lot of personal pain in my life. (getting raped).
5. My parents's pressure over school is KILLING me
6. I seem to have the need to be PERFECT at all times, and it's driving me CRAZY.
7. I think life is worthless. I think *I'M* worthless. I'm incredibly pessimistic.
8. I want to see a therapist and have had suicidal thoughts.
9. I have a really serious case of OCD.
10. Nobody in school like me. People reject me/ignore me, and never want to talk to me. I have absolutely NO friends. And the people that ARE supposedly my friends, have no trust from me. I believe they're there to just use me and screw me over. I don't consider them anyone towards me.
11. I have no one to talk to. Nobody to spill my feelings onto and have them help me.
There are many more *symptoms*. But I didn't want to make it too long. This is pretty much an outline of what is happening to me. Am I seriously depressed? (link)
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yeah sure the people before me are right in all but some of those problems you can fix yourself. Smile stand up for yourself. Listen i have gone through depression and no i dont sit here and try and say i understand cause god damnit i dont. You have to relize there are things to live for in this world. And yeah you say you have no friends and i dont want to get down on you but maybe thats your doing. I know what you are thinking this guy seems to be yelling at me and saying its all my fault. I never said that ok. I am sure a ton of it isnt your fault. And you probobly need to understand that. Things you can control you can control and the things you cant you cant. please stop these thoughts of suicide. Some of my friends have tried doesnt just end your life it ruins others. Essentially you will be just taking your depression and throwing it lots of other people. I know i am jumping around but listen maybe there are no kids i your highschool (i am guessing you are) the maybe a teacher counsler someone that will listen. hey while you read thise last few lines think to yourself one thing that you want to live for and if you cant find any then listen live for yourself not others.
Hey i will definatly listen if you want. my screenname is lokatme321 if you dont have aim or something then just keep asking questions or something. Hey smile.
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my bf's best friend and his other friend asked me out.i said no of course but now their all fighting.i feel like its my fault but its not.their not even thinking about how it makes me feel but right now i feel like their treating me like a doll.my bf doesnt know that his bbf asked me out he just knows his other friend does.my bf and i havent seen or talked to each other for ages because his phone is broke.we are going back to school tomorrow.we dont go to the same school but im afraid my bf and his friends will have a massive fight.to be honest they all have a bit of a temper.i dont want any of them to get hurt because their all of my friends.is it my fault their like this?what should i do?i m feeling really down over this. (link)
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its always the guys fault you guys say haha joking anyway did you ever think of talking to them about it? So they dont get in the fight. Other than that the other people had good opinions.
later
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do you have any ideas when mariah's album will out this year?
Thanks
ps: DONT TELL ME TO GOOGLE IT. (link)
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may 8 i believe
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so i'm on this diet thing... well it's not really a diet because it's healthy and safe... so it's more of an eating plan...
I stay between 1500-1800 calories a day...
and well, i get all shaky and feel like i'm about to die or black out or something when I can't have my food that I actually want- whether it's junk food or just pasta or something...
and i know there have to be days when you just plain don't think about what you're eating.
How often can I have these days?
once a week? twice? once a month? i just don't know (link)
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I can tell you this you should go on weight watchers and you would know the answer for that question and everything you will every need. You see kind of like your diet weight watchers doesnt make it so you cant eat anything you can eat anthing you want but of course you have to keep within the points with eating unhealthy food is near to impossible so you try to get good food. Anyway with this it depends on how big, old, young, depends on how many points you get so lets say you can have 30 points a day. OK well you have 35 points for you to use anypart of the week you want all in one day or 5 a day. I kno i didnt help im sorry. but i guess it could.
sorry i hope i helped somehow.
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okay i really need advice. i'm desperate.
i have this friend since i've known for almost 4 years, and we were extremely close last year and people said we were unseperable. this year were still friends but were just not as close and i miss it because last year she was always there for me when i was really sad and she always made me feel better.
this year i'll see her in school (i usually hang out with her in a group) and A. she'll completely ignore me. or B. she'll be like "i really not interested in what you have to say" but when it's just me and her with no one around she'll talk to me really nice and stuff. but im really getting sick of her acting like this but i just don't know what to do because last year she was always there for me and she made me feel soo good and she made me feel like i was loved she was like the sister i never had and i dont want to just ditch her but ughh i just don't know what should i do? thank you soo much (link)
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Dont want to be the thorn in your side but you say that she did this for you was it the other way around where you there for her did you make her feel good? Listen i am not suggesting anything just something you need to ask yourself. Another thing you need to talk to her about of course she is going to denie it at first but it probobly must be done.
Remember communication is the key to a successful relationship.
i hope i helped later
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Ok, I am going to a new high school next fall, and i would really like to have a reputation as a prep. I have the personality, and I kind of was a prep at my old school, but I got caught up in the wrong crowd and my rep went down the drain. SO, I would like step-by-step type advice on how to have a sweet, preppy, reputation at my new school! how to meet the right people, not act like im trying to hard, how to dress, etc! thank you SO MUCH!!
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haha ok ok im sorry just know this to be preppy its more along the lines of clothes. Please remember that. I am a guy and i am preppy at my high school and im cool with that but remember just because you dress it doesnt mean you have to be the stereotypical preppy. I mean the stuck up bitch. And hey there are those who want to belike that and thats cool if thats there personality but if its not dont. I suggest the nice preppy which i think you stated in yopur paragraph. do what the person before said but also preppy people know everyone -not literally- but almost
Id love to sit and chant and mingle but i gotta go lol i hope that i helped
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What are some good gushy love songs?
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umm some of these i dont like but you might but my favorite is The Scientist by coldplay oh and Amazed buy lonestar
CAN YOU FEEL THE LOVE TONIGHT Elton John
YOU ARE THE SUNSHINE OF MY LIFE
Stevie Wonder
JUST THE WAY YOU ARE
Billy Joel
UP WHERE WE BELONG
Joe Cocker & Jennifer Warnes
THIS WILL BE
Natalie Cole
ALL MY LIFE (
Linda Ronstadt & Aaron Neville
THE LONG AND WINDING ROAD The Beatles
IN YOUR EYES Peter Gabriel
THE POWER OF LOVE Huey Lewis and the News
YOU'VE GOT A FRIEND James Taylor
YOU'RE THE INSPIRATION Chicago
WIND BENEATH MY WINGS Bette Midler
YOU ARE SO BEAUTIFUL Joe Cocker
SOLID Ashford & Simpson
WONDERFUL TONIGHT Eric Clapton
TONIGHT, I CELEBRATE MY LOVE Roberta Flack & Peabo Bryson
WHENEVER
I CALL YOU FRIEND Stevie Nicks & Kenny Loggins
HERE, THERE, AND EVERYWHERE The Beatles
TRUE COLORS Cyndi Lauper
HOW SWEET IT IS Marvin Gaye & Tammi Terrel
UNCHAINED MELODY Righteous Brothers
EVERYTHING I DO) I DO IT FOR YOU (iTunes) Bryan Adams
HOPE I HELPEd
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Okay so i have a friend, lets call her Maria. Maria is one of my best friends and I'm pretty sure I'm one of hers. I think that she is really sick. She told 2 of our friends what was going on. Apparently she had to go to a hospital or something and she is going to be absent for like two weeks or something. She hasnt told me anything. I have asked her whats wrong and she replied "personal problems" on texting. I've called her and she hasnt answered. I have texted her asking for details. I have IMed her, but when I do puts up an away message. I am really concerned about her and its hurting me that she doesnt feel like she can tell me. What can I do to get her to tell me, or at least talk to me? (link)
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go with what the other person said mostly but it doesnt matter what she has or had or anything it should just be about talking. Put this with what the other person said
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heres the problem this may sound crazy but ive had a freindship with this guy who lives in a diff. state and we never met before, and we almost talked on the phone before. hes my age 13 and i talk to him alot i fully trust him dont tell me hes some rapist hes real hes given me proof and ive talked to his sister. but like i said i have alot of trust in him i tell him everything all my secrets and he tells me his too and i feel so stupid when i tell him "your a really great friend i love you and care for you so much, and so on but when i tell him he just types "aw thank you" and...what do i get??
just that i dont get the same thing back.
i would like alittle credit i mean ive known him for a year now but..i never once get any credit he worries me so much bc he gets beat up and teased for the way he dresses (tight pants ext.) and god i think bout him more than anything.
so can anyone tell me the problem why he wont give me any credit? and when he tell each other stuff he just types "but we tell each everything we cant secrets from each other blah blah"
WHY WONT HE GIVE ME CREDIT?!
and i need to hear something positive :( (link)
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I know you want to hear something positive but i cant give you credit but You must feel good at what you have done. Which i am not entirely sure of but that doesnt matter. Think of how good it will feel when he does say with out you pressuring him. I AM not saying you are. I cant tell you why or why not. You say you guys dont hide anything so if you feel its right then talk to him about. But you have to say it in a way where he wont get mad. If you have already and he says he doesnt owe you anything. Then you need to think what you gave him What he gave you. has he giving the same to you. Listen i know what you are thinking you are thinking or i can guess ive told him how much he has done to me. Dont worry. Smile. he hasnt done anything horrible to you. you are lucky you have this guy. And for the trust. I congratulate you not many people can do that. Trust is at the heart of every relationship.
No one here can tell you why some one does or doesnt do something i am sure you know this. Just relize you finding out is the only way.
You have a good day>
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do some punk rock guys like black girls? just wondering.. ive been flirting with this boy for like 2 weeks now. hes a skater and im a black girl..i wouldnt say im ugly but idk. one day hes like super superr sweet and walks me to class and gives me long hugs and the next day hes all bleeehh. idk anyway are punk guys into black girls at all? or does it depend.. (link)
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depends o the guy punk rock is a "theme" not a state of well mind. well it kind of is but not really. But anyway yes there are some who do. There is some who dont. You are scene so your kinda like him. Sorry about my answer but the answer is yes.
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they say im always dark hearted whats that? (link)
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It means well kinda hard to explain it means that you look at everything in a bad/ even evil ways
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hey you guys probally know the band HIM well i was wondering if its said him like a word or like each letter like h...i...m. haha yea well thanks :) (link)
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you pronounce HIM as in him and i belive that its actually not standing for anything
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i hate my life so much. just everything about it im always mad or sad never ever happy except with my friends which is only like every other 3 days. everyone of my friends have had a time they need all of us and now its me but nothing helps and im only happy with them. my parents dont let me express anything at all. so when i get mad its hell then im grounded. in my life everything bad happenes to me and my friends try to keep me out of it. they can tell out of everyone i am deppressed and what all happenes to me. so when i am with them we go scream till our lungs give out then im fine for a day then im mad enough to kill myself and they say ill end up suicidel. i have to wear pink and brights when im not with my friends. my mom thinks im deppressed and going gothic. no duh i have been for almost a year. and its not getting better they make it 10X worse. im crying my eyes out now. i canot get a therepist what else can i do. (link)
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Talk to people that have got out of depression. The first thing you need to ask your self is what is the main cause of my problem, and then whatcan i do to change in a good way that problem. Yeah sure sounds easier then it is. Im sure your thinking he cant know what what i am going through of course id ont but, lifes way way to short to get mad/sad at small stuff. Now maybe your problem is something big, still that will lead you into getting mad at the small stuff. If it is something big then you need to figuir what you can do to change it. You have to remember there is only one person that can end you depression and that is you. you have to make the iniciative. Sure your friends help, bt if you really want to i believe you can. Next talking helps a ton, if you have someone to talk make sure you do, you ont then you need to find someone.
Remember life is to short to swallow yourself up inside.
I know this message probobly wont change every thing but i hoped it helped at least a little.
good luck
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