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their treating me like im a doll
my bf's best friend and his other friend asked me out.i said no of course but now their all fighting.i feel like its my fault but its not.their not even thinking about how it makes me feel but right now i feel like their treating me like a doll.my bf doesnt know that his bbf asked me out he just knows his other friend does.my bf and i havent seen or talked to each other for ages because his phone is broke.we are going back to school tomorrow.we dont go to the same school but im afraid my bf and his friends will have a massive fight.to be honest they all have a bit of a temper.i dont want any of them to get hurt because their all of my friends.is it my fault their like this?what should i do?i m feeling really down over this.
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its always the guys fault you guys say haha joking anyway did you ever think of talking to them about it? So they dont get in the fight. Other than that the other people had good opinions.
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Typical behaviour for a bunch of guys really isn't it - to ask one of their friends gf out. :-/
I agree with the other posters reply too - you did the right thing and it's not your fault at all. I doubt they will let on to your bf that they asked you out in fear of what he will do or how he will react.
They will eventually get over it so don't worry about them. At the end of the day you did the right thing. If I had been in your bf's place I think I'd be really proud of the way you handled the situation especially since it's a very awkward position for them both to have put you into.
Try not to feel down about this - it's not your fault at all. It's just guys being guys... i.e. stupid. :-/
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Hey,
It's not your fault at all...You did the right thing. You were honest and you stayed loyal to your bf. In my opinion, I think he's just gonna 'forget' that i happened and when it happens again, he's gonna strike. OR he's gonna go up to the guy and let him know that "hey, she's mine, back off", you know?
I don't think it'll get serious unless it turns into some dramatic Shakespeare scene...That might be caused by insults or self-defense stuff. You know guys... But no one will get hurt, don't worry. Your bf knows that it will make you feel bad.
And remember: it's not your fault!
Hope it turns out well. Lemme know how it goes!
Kay.
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