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being mean today..being really nice tomorrow..
okay i really need advice. i'm desperate.
i have this friend since i've known for almost 4 years, and we were extremely close last year and people said we were unseperable. this year were still friends but were just not as close and i miss it because last year she was always there for me when i was really sad and she always made me feel better.
this year i'll see her in school (i usually hang out with her in a group) and A. she'll completely ignore me. or B. she'll be like "i really not interested in what you have to say" but when it's just me and her with no one around she'll talk to me really nice and stuff. but im really getting sick of her acting like this but i just don't know what to do because last year she was always there for me and she made me feel soo good and she made me feel like i was loved she was like the sister i never had and i dont want to just ditch her but ughh i just don't know what should i do? thank you soo much
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don't let people take advantage of you or tell you they're your friend when they are really not. if you don't wanna be friends with her anymore, then don't. don't hold onto something that's not worth as much as it once was. it's hard i know, but it may feel refreshing to find a new best friend who treats you better.
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Dont want to be the thorn in your side but you say that she did this for you was it the other way around where you there for her did you make her feel good? Listen i am not suggesting anything just something you need to ask yourself. Another thing you need to talk to her about of course she is going to denie it at first but it probobly must be done.
Remember communication is the key to a successful relationship.
i hope i helped later
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its really hard too loose such an awesome friend like this trust me i know! i really dont wana say this but it sounds like shes using you because when shes around others she doesnt talk 2 you but when your alone you get on great. Best friends are supposed to be there for you whenever not just when they want to be! im sorry hun but i think the best thing to do would be to try and find another best friend because people change and she sounds like she has. Try not to spend as mcuh time with her and make new friends and i know it might be hard but its horrible the way shes treating you. You deserve better than that everyone does. Honest hun its for the best but its really up to you. Or you could talk 2 her about the way you feel and if she is really your freind shell change the way she is with you and if she doesnt your better off without her. Try and talk!
i Hope ive helped
xox Porsche
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hey, well if your okay with ditching her, id say go for it. i say this because she is basically ditching you. friends are suppose to care what other friends think and be there for them. she is clearly lacking complelty in that department.
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