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i love him more than anything help!!
heres the problem this may sound crazy but ive had a freindship with this guy who lives in a diff. state and we never met before, and we almost talked on the phone before. hes my age 13 and i talk to him alot i fully trust him dont tell me hes some rapist hes real hes given me proof and ive talked to his sister. but like i said i have alot of trust in him i tell him everything all my secrets and he tells me his too and i feel so stupid when i tell him "your a really great friend i love you and care for you so much, and so on but when i tell him he just types "aw thank you" and...what do i get??
just that i dont get the same thing back.
i would like alittle credit i mean ive known him for a year now but..i never once get any credit he worries me so much bc he gets beat up and teased for the way he dresses (tight pants ext.) and god i think bout him more than anything.
so can anyone tell me the problem why he wont give me any credit? and when he tell each other stuff he just types "but we tell each everything we cant secrets from each other blah blah"
WHY WONT HE GIVE ME CREDIT?!
and i need to hear something positive :(
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
Fist of all, how do you know this is not a kinky couple or married couple that gets their kicks in picking up girls, meeting them, then springing the kinkiness on them--or worse, rape you altogether?
You don't.
Read your own quote: >>i tell him "your a really great friend i love you and care for you so much, and so on but when i tell him he just types "aw thank you" and...what do i get??
That should be a hint he wants more. Or that he isn't as interested as you or given up on you as prey.
It's easy to fall for a guy you can't see, and can't connect with in real life, go through the trails and tribulations of everyday stress and arugments. So far, he's mr. perfect eccept you are not heeding you own gut insticnts. Listen to you intuition. It is telling you something isn't right-- and it is not right.
He is currently learning all he can about you to manipute you.
If you trust your pparents-- tell them. Notify the the FBI immediately-- he is a child preditor sweeties, do not delude yourself.
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okay honey well the thing about guys is that they don't show thier emotions the same ways as we do.....girls say stuff like you did and guys appreciated it but they don't want to get all mushy gushy back.....it has something to do with pride and they fell uncomfortabvle openein up to much if you aren't in a realtionship. i have told guys beforethat and they say jsut about the same thing don't worrie just try not to make him to uncomfortable and even though you tell each other everything he may want to express that in a different way....like telling you everything....you know what i mean.
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I know you want to hear something positive but i cant give you credit but You must feel good at what you have done. Which i am not entirely sure of but that doesnt matter. Think of how good it will feel when he does say with out you pressuring him. I AM not saying you are. I cant tell you why or why not. You say you guys dont hide anything so if you feel its right then talk to him about. But you have to say it in a way where he wont get mad. If you have already and he says he doesnt owe you anything. Then you need to think what you gave him What he gave you. has he giving the same to you. Listen i know what you are thinking you are thinking or i can guess ive told him how much he has done to me. Dont worry. Smile. he hasnt done anything horrible to you. you are lucky you have this guy. And for the trust. I congratulate you not many people can do that. Trust is at the heart of every relationship.
No one here can tell you why some one does or doesnt do something i am sure you know this. Just relize you finding out is the only way.
You have a good day>
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He probably just wants to really meet you before he says anything. Im not saying meeting him is a really good idea, but I think that is what is going on. If you do meet him bring your parents and make sure he brings his. It might make things a little less comfortable, but safer.
ALWAYS&&fOREVER
MELiSSA
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