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this guy keeps IMing me.


Question Posted Tuesday April 17 2007, 7:18 pm

ok theres this guy named jake and hes like one of those popular and hot guys.
im like anormal girl who hangs out with normal fun people and ive never even talked to him before

okay so i was on AIM and he imed me and asked who i was. i told him my name and he said " oh shit ur hot. i saw you on facebook and see u at school sometimes" and we started talking and i felt a little awkward.

and he was like "your picture made me horny, i jacked off".and started asking me like "do you think im hot"

and today im talking to him right NOW. and was like "what have you done sexually. or like yeah


but i dont wanna block him or anything.
and dont worry, im not gonna like fall in love with him or anything.

What do his IMs mean?


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SoOverIt1 answered Tuesday April 17 2007, 9:54 pm:
One you need to make sure he isnt messing with your head.

Two If you like him tell him
Three If he FXccs with your head mess with his back & dont fall right away! mmmaakkkayy babe be easy!

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ashmoe2 answered Tuesday April 17 2007, 9:21 pm:
well this is a typical perverted guy who thinks since he is popular he can say anything he wants and get away with it....jsut don't be stupid and say you have done stuff you haven't i had a guy try to do that once and well i got him arrested....ong story he treid to do stuff because i told him i hacd done thing but i really hadnt any way just be careful he might be using you as a way to get his freinds atention.

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XoTEnniSChicK5oX answered Tuesday April 17 2007, 9:16 pm:
Ok, this boy's IMs are inappropriate. He shouldnt be saying these things about you because they don't show you any respect. He's not giving you compliments by saying that you make him "horny." My guess is that he's just doing this to you because he thinks its funny even though it isnt. Him and his friends are probably doing it to see if you'll fall for it, but dont. The same thing happened to my friend and it all turned out to be one big joke and she was really hurt by it so I suggest blocking this kid.

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uresweetie16 answered Tuesday April 17 2007, 8:26 pm:
Ok this is what most pervertive guys are like.. but if you want him to stop why don't you say to him " I feel more confortable if you talked to me in person instead of im's" because maybe he will not act like that; or you can say "if you really respected me you wouldn't say that stuff" because basically he is harassing you and if he does not talk to you in school you should ask him "well why don't you talk to me in school you only talk to me online". And to tell you the truth he is not respecting you if all he says is " your hot & you make me horny".. hope i helped and i really hope he stops bothering you

<3 Elianna

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YoUgOtItDuDe2013 answered Tuesday April 17 2007, 8:11 pm:
hes prolly just trying to get things outta you.
like what youve done sex wise.
if you think hes hot.
yeah.
uhmm when he says ur picture made him horny.
he could be serious.
or just trying to see what you say.
and saying ur hot, just to see what youd say.
but like popular guys are jerks so yeah.
he was prolly just joking.
but maybe have some of your friends talk to him on IM.
and see what he says to them.
my friends and me do it all the time.

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