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talk to me anytime.
ill always give you some =)
im 16.
i had my baby on April 14th :]
Shes now my world
her name is Riley James.
my boyfriends name is Ryan.
Hes amazinggg.
We have been dating for 2 years.
We will be getting married soon :]
anything else?
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E-mail: lilmalak13@yahoo.com
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Okay so on myspace I put in a code to hide my friends...and I don't want them hidden anymore, but I don't know what the code looks like or where to look for it so I can erase it. Can somebody help with that? (link)
okayy well go to your edit profile.
and i normally put mine in about me.
so if you see a code or something that says hidden within the like 1st line of the code.
thats the code.

hope i help :]


me and my boyfriend only just make-out and french. we are always open to try new things but we dont know what to try. any ideas?
all are welcome =] thx! (link)
try using pop rockss.
those are really fun.
um passing gum is fun...but it does get kinda old after awhile.
maybe try looking this up on google.
hope i helped.


how exactly can you tell
i missed my period i was sopposed to get it like 2 1/2 weeks ago. my stomach is killing me and i feel like im going to throw up some one help (link)
sounds to me like ur pregnant.
you should prolly get a at home test.


if u were a tampon do you lose your virginity (link)
no sweetie.
you can lose your virginity only by sex.


Ok, on the weekend I had my 2 best guy mates over and my best girl mate. I've known for a long time that one of my guy mates who I will call Ben likes me and if I was single I would probably like him back. But I have a boyfriend. So I had them over and my girly friend and the other guy went off and Ben went and lied down on my mum's bed coz he was feeling sick(we were all very drunk). I went and lied with him because I was bored with no-one to talk to. We fell asleep in the early hours after a nice talk. Next thing I know I wake up and he's moaning my name and grinding himself against my butt and leg. I was still half asleep so I just rolled over and went back to sleep...Wake up I don't know how long later and he's trying to finger me. I moved and went back to sleep again and nothing more happened.I didnt really think much of it the next morning coz I was so tired and hungover but i've been thinking about it now and it makes me sick! I told my boyfriend and he wants me to go to the police and if not he wants his name and number and shit so he can get him bashed!! But the thing is, I dont blame Ben becoz he was drunk and here I am lying next to him, it mustve been pretty tempting because he does like me, and the thing is I don't blame him! But I know the right thing to do is go to the police...Please Help me :S (link)
okay well if it was me...
i wouldnt go to the police.
because you guys were drunk and if you guys are under age you could possibly get in trouble for that also.
but do what you think is right.
if you believe he was trying rape you, go to the police.
lemme know if you need anything else =)



Ok, so when im on the phone with my boyfriend, he always wants to play the question game, and like ask sex kinda questions and stuff. And I always run outta questions, can you give me some questions please? THANK YOU SO MUCH (link)
okay well it all depends on how old you sre but ill tell you some anyways.

ever had a hand job?
how big is ur penis?
made out?
fingered?


okay like these are just some of em.

if you really need anymore lemme kno =)

some of these might be personal too so dont beg



I cut myself (for personal reasons) but i do it below the wrist. And I try to hide it. But I can't. It's not cold here, so wearing long-sleeves doesn't make sense. When people see it, they get really freaked out. What are some reasons, that make sense, which I can tell people, so they won't think I'm cutting myself? (link)
okay i have had this problem before. i used to cut myself everyday. untill one of my friends saw it. but anyways. say a cat scratched you...uhmm wear braclets.
also if your like just standing there hold the wrist you cut...(i only cut one wrist so yeah) right wear you cut it. that way no one can see it.
butyou also shoudnt be cutting. maybe call a teen hotline or something.


so iv had the same sn for a long time and i need help thinking of a new one. i want it to start out like "color me ____" but if you can come up with something totally different thats okay :]
so i need a really cute fill in the blank.
you dont have to tell me about putting the xoxo's in there or numbers, i know.
i guess i should tell you a little about myself :]

the names jessica [jess for short] f/14
im all around a happy person,
im pretty high maitenence.
im a blonde. and have plenty of moments.
green eyes.
short.
im really girly - or preppy, w/e you want to call it.
i love a&f, AE, hollister. etc.
i love music, mostly alternative/rock stuff. basicly anything on fuse.


& thank you so much!






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color me pretty
color me happy
blondiejessie
AEjess
glamourjess
color my world


does anyone have any song ideas for a high school talent show? i want something to showcase my voice and either be something i can play piano with or dance to...
any ideas are appreciated
thanks! (link)
okay well i have this like spring play thingy.
and i was going to sing hero by mariah carey.
and thats a good song to play piano to and you can really showcaes your voice.

i think another good song to sing is You found me by Kelly Clarkson. you can dance and showcase yuor voice.


me and my boyfriend have been going out since 4th march.. thats nearly one n a half months..
and all weve done is huggeD?? is ther something wrong.. its hard because i always give me friends advice about love and taking it to the next step, but i can;t even take on my own advice and do it myself. i don't know if its me or him. his always the one whos hugging me so it must be me. he sent a message the other night saying '' i love you, do you think we should take our relationship to the next level '' and i replied '' yes '' and then nothing after that.. we sat next to each other in the movies and nothing still happened~!! pls i need help.
thanks
love julia xxx (link)
dont worry.
me n my b/f have been dating for 9 months and he didnt hug me or hold my hand until 2 months.
we kissed on our 3 month ani. and just a peck lol


ok i have two questions.. at what age do most girl lose their virginity and how far have most girls gone by age 14 or 15

i would love as many answers as possible thanks in advance! (link)
okay im 14/f.
and i had sex when i was 13.
my boyfriend and i were ready.
but it all depends on you.
USE PROTECTION!


I think my friend is a lesbian, but I don't want to ask. She NEVER has crushes on any guys and if she has, she's never told me. I've caught her looking at girls butts and it's really creepy! One night we had a sleep over but i left some of my clothes at home. I asked to borrow hers but she insisted it would be fine with her if i slept in the NUDE!!!!!
Other times, we've had sleepovers and she'd change right in front of me. Most girls do that, but when i went to change in the bathroom, she freaked! she kept saying "we are both girls, why don't you feel comfortable around me?"
It probably wouldn't be good by saying i thought she wanted to take pictures of me but.....
i've joked around saying "what are you a lezbo?! Haha!" but she puts on like a pity smile and changes the subject.
Once i said it in front of other people and she was quiet for the rest of the night.

HELP!? it's creepy, she's into me!

(link)
you are a little bitch
god just cause your friend might be a lesbian doesnt mean you cant be friends.
there are alot of reasson she might wanna chang in front of you.
1. shes jealous.
2. when she said to sleep nude she was prolly just klidding.
3. i stare off into space and start daydreaming and when i coem back to the real world i find myself looking at girls butts.
4. im straight and my friends and i joke around all the time like that.
5. WHO FUCKING CARES IF SHES A LESBIAN.
6. YOUR A BITCH AND I THINK YOU NEED TO GROW UP!

uhmm how do u kno she wasnt kidding?!
and how the hell am i a whore.
alright god damn it.
if u cant handle the truth dont put the question on here.


Please!!!!! help. I am a 13 year old girl. I am pretty small (5 ft, 87 pounds). I want to know if I am getting my period period. I have had pubic and armpit hair for like a couple years and I have had discharge for probably a year. OKAY HERE IS THE STORY! On Sunday, I noticed some blood when I was going to the bathroom, I decided I would worry about it if it happened again, then when I went to the bathroom yesterday there was a little bit of blood, and that happened again today. It is not that much blood though so I am not sure if it is my period or not, or is it a sign my period is coming? PLEASE HELP OR IF YOU DO NOT KNOW JUST TELL ME YOUR IDEAS! PLEASE, THANKS! (link)
yepp you got it.
the blood is just small amounts untill you have ur period like 2 times.


Well i know there are a lot of good songs that people could use as like "their" song like a couple but idk i like rock/rap music but my boyfriend is more of the country/rap person and we cant decide on a song... i guess he would be ok with pretty much anything.. but if you know any real good ones lemme know thanks (link)
okay well mine and my boyfriends song is by creed. (dont stop dancing.)
but anyways ill give you some songs.

All I ever Needed Bret Micheals ft. Jessica Andrews.

My sacrifice Creed

Amazed Lonestar

Lost in This Moment Big & rich

Evrything I do i do it for you Brain Adams.

Cupids Chokehold Gym class heros


hope i helped.
if u want anymore.
IM me sometime.
woahbaby2013


is it normal for you to have a goey like discharge stuff and for it to have an odor?? (link)
yepp.
but it shouldnt have a smell.
if it does..its old.
wear a pantyliner..and then change ur pantys more.


im 13 and in 7th grade and i have a bedtime of 9:30.. and it's really not fair because my 2 younger bros that are 7 and 9 both go to bed at 9! when i was 7 and 9 i had a bedtime of 8! i talked to my parents of letting me stay up till 10 but they dont listen! what can i do? (they wont listen if i talk to them again) (link)
this might seem un fair.
but just like everyone else.
its good that your parents have your bedtime at 930.
so just be thankful


yeah so my friend gave this kidd head can she get preguant from that? (link)
no she cant.
i agree with the advice under me.
if u guys didnt know that.
your too young


i have this dog, and he has to be put down tomorrow, b/c he has been peeing in the house, and we got him fixed, but it didnt help. we have 2 other male dogs, so theres a lot to compete for. he is the smallest. and im getting a new puppy tomorrow, for my b*day, and it just happens to be the day that we have to put down my other dog. my dad has been calling me mean and such b/c im getting a new puppy, and im happy to be getting her, but hes like your replacing your old dog with a new one, thats so wrong. but today i was crying b/c its my dogs last day with me, and i really do love him.
im allowed to be happy to be getting a new puppy, right? (link)
yeahh you can get a new dog.
it doesnt matter.
your sad that your other doggy has to go but thats what happens.
dont worry you can get a new doggy.
p.s.
HAPPY B*DAY



ok so i am in jr. high now and there is this guy i kinda sit by..he doesnt have a g/f and wen he comes to my desk i guess you can call it flirting he gives me this look and he will lik pull my hair or flick me.....2day he asked me y i havent been on msn and i thought he was gonna ask me out on there and i jus said i have been...do you think all this stuff hes done means he likes me or jus a lil......should i go afta him PLEASE HELP thanx :D (link)
HE DEF. likes you.
go after him.
he was really flirting with you!
lol.
well lemme kno how it goes.



14/f
i hav only had sex twice but now i feel horny alottt. Like almost all the time. its really annoying because i cant just have sex everyday, and now me and my bf broke up so i really cant get any. is thos normal? will it go away? (link)
its normal.
and it will go away.
you just like sex.
and now you really want some.
but dont worry.
when i 1st had sex i was 13 and i was horny for awhile.




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