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I don't think he does. At least, he promises me he doesn't.

I've only been intimidated by 3 girls, and 2 of them I know he won't date, 1 of them is really bad, we've had problems with her, but he would look like a total ass if he went with her, the second lives a long ways off and he hasn't spoken to her in forever, and the third...

Even if he does get with her, it won't last long. I'm not very judgemental, but she's kind of a cheating whore.

She's dated 3 guys at once, and was having sex with 5 while she was with those 3 guys.

So...I dunno.

Either way, all I want is to have Logan back. Logan is brutaly honest...He would tell me if there was another girl. (link)
Sometimes the best thing you can do is talk with him and tell him how you feel. Personally I write the other person letters because it is the easiest way to get all my feelings out uniterrupted.. But I know that you think he is brutaly honest but fact is he is male so they are only honest about something they are not going to be in trouble about. Start asking his friends or siblings questions but you have to be slick with the guestions so they dont auctually realize they are answering them if that makes any sense at all.... Good luck Aslo the girl you describe is a whore yes but teenage boys think with one thing and one thing only. ASk her I bet she will tell you if she don't like you she will be honest just to hurt you..Be prepared for what you might find out.


Friday night i was at a party with my boyfriend jon of three months this saturday. I get drunk really easily and thats what happened. We were about to be going home and when we got to his car we ended up making out for so long. I think i gave him head. I dont exactly remember but he said he wasnt drunk so im not sure because i was pretty messed up. Im still a virgin and i think he is too. he'spretty shy and this is the first time we did anything besides him going down my pants (fingers only). I want to know what happened without feeling really stupid. How should i bring it up? I also got grounded for a month because i came home late so whatever but hes been asking when im gonna beable to go back out again and stuff. do u think he wants me more now that i gave him head and stuff? i cant exactly remember but im almost positive i did. it wasnt weird at all though but he didnt come? does that mean i was bad? (link)
Ok well you were not drunk enough not to remember because you remember he didnt cum!!! Anyways don't start using alcohol for an excuse that you don't remember because it will be a long road in front of you.. We are capable of making decisions when we are intoxicated our judgement is just not the best. But you remember so why pretend you don't?? If he is a virgin he probably would have cummed very easy so you might want to talk to him and get that cleared up.. Pratice makes perfect if this what you want I quess!!


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the thing is i get horney (randomly though) and i need to masturbate. so i do. it just doesnt satisfy me though. like idk nothing works. and i just want more than i can give my self. i want sex when i masturbate. and dont tell me how sex is bad for you i know! but how can i satisfy myself without having sex

ps. also i invision myself with a girl eating me out. is that normal? i mean ive made out with a girl and kindaa had sex with her. (clothes on) but does this make me bi? (link)
You are awfull young for these feelings but I guess you know that. I think its natural to masturbate but if you are a virgin which you probably are not but if you are you should stay away from the toys and just try to satisfy yourself if it is that necessary which once again is very odd at a such a young age!!


My daughter has been purging off and on for the last year...that I know of... She declares that she is at a point where she is ready to stop...and indeed has not purged for some time. However, at times, when she eats, normally, her food does not seem to stay down... and she feels like vomiting even though she may not want to... I understand that this is probably an after effect of her making herself throw-up off and on for over such a long period of time. Is there anything we could do "naturally" to help ease her body back into accepting food and keeping it down. Thank you so much for answering our question. (link)
I as well can not believe that you havnt seeked medical and mental health help for your daughter. I am not trying to critisize you but what in the world were you thinking that you could just handle this on your own... Your daughter has a real medical condition this is not something she can just "stop" doing. Get her some help please before she has lasting affects for the rest of her life....


okay me and my boyfriend have always had unprotected sex. he had cancer when he was younger and the chemotherpy was supposed to mak him infertile. well i am 15 days late for my period. so last night i went to his house to take the test, but before i did, we ended up having sex again. i took the test and it said i was pregnant. is this just because i had sex 10 minutes before... or it that probably accurate?


i'm freaking out so bad.
i'm 16.
he's 20.
he'd go to jail. (link)
Most states in the USA the legal age consent is 16. But I hate to be the bearer of bad news if the pregnancy test says you are pregnant you are pregnant. They are not 100 percent in the face that they will sometimes say negative when you are auctually pregnat but if its says positive it is... You might want to check your state and see the legal age consent as well. Then go to the doctor as soon as possible because there is a lot of health risks you can face in pregnacy. The sooner you face it the sooner you can make the decision of your life and decide what you will do. Don't be so hasty to make the decision this will stay with you for the rest of your life. Whether its abortion, adoption, or to keep the baby its a decision you and your boyfriend have to face!!


alright so my boyfriend and i have had sex about 5 times so far...and it just stopped hurting after the 4th time. but even thought it stopped hurting, it didnt feel like much after. isnt it supposed to start feeling good after it stops hurting? its not that he's small or anything..he pretty much fills out a magnum...which comes to my other question. how is a condom supposed to fit? is it supposed to be really tight? because the magnum seems to fit fine...just a little but more room, becasue the regluar trojan condom looks too tight. i dont know, maybe it's just me being paranoid. i just was hoping it would start feeling good soon, not just for my sake...but for him as well. i think it would make him feel good to know that im orgasming. i've never done it yet, and he has fingered me before. i hear that not everyone orgasms from being fingered though.

thanks so much! (link)
How old are you? This might be your bodies way of telling you you are not ready yet!!


Baby I am was not trying to tell you that you are not mentally ready but our bodies do not always agree with our minds...


OK! This is going to be pretty long. I'm a 16 female, and i've been dating this Guy, Logan, for a year and a half. Well, after one month of me and him dating this one Guy, William, kissed me. I of course told William NO, and stopped him, but I had to tell Logan. So I did. And he was mad at me for awhile, but he was over it a month later. Me and Logan fell SOOOO much in love. He came to see me everyday after work, he always said I was beautiful, he was so protective of me, and he ignored his friends if he got the chance to see me. Best of all, he was my very first at sex, and he stayed with me, it didn't change him at all, he was always there for me. But, one day, my mom found out, and kinda went Kookoo, and told me I could never see him again. Well, after that we just sorta fell even more in love with each other. We spent every second trying to be with each other. And then my mom brought that William guy back. She told me if I didn't hold Williams hand than I couldn't call Logan. We went to Missouri on a trip, and she brought him with us, and made us sleep in the same room. And I was always telling William to leave me alone, and not to talk to me, but Logan was always yelling at me and telling me I was cheating on him. And one day, I just kinda snapped, and I felt like Logan would hate me soon because I couldn't prove that there was nothing going on. And then William started trying to comfort me, and he really did make me feel good. He promised to leave me alone, and just be my friend, which is all I wanted. But then, William kissed me again, and Logan found out because of my sister. And after 2 kisses, i'm sure it's hard to believe there is nothing going on. But, Logan broke up with me...So I did the unthinkable, I went out with William. William left for the marines a day later, and couldn't get anything from family or friends for 2 weeks. Logan asked me out the night William left, saying he made a mistake. I HAD to be with Logan. He's the only thing that makes me happy. But, if I dated Logan now, i'd be dating 2 guys at once, which is absolutely not my thing. So I said yes to Logan, and sent William a really harsh break up letter, but it didn't get to him very soon. But, then I figured everything would be ok. William off to the marines, me and Logan here together, everything could work out. I couldn't be accused anymore. And everything was going fine for like another 7 months, until a week ago. Logan said he can't forgive me for cheating on him. And I don't know what to say to get him back. He's the love of my life, and I know i've accidently hurt him, i've hurt him so bad because he thinks I lied all those times. I just want the man who loves me back. I don't want to be accused anymore. I don't want to fight. I want him to come see me everyday again. I want him to tease me, and smile. I want to make him happy, but I want me to be the one to make him happy, no one else. Please help, I love this man so much. (link)
Why did he wait 7 monthes to decide he could not forgive you? Maybe you should look into a bit more and find out if there is more to this maybe he has met someone else?


So I'm going to describe this the best i can, but i'm not sure if you'll get it. On the left lip of my vagina, like on the underneather part, it was hurting the other day and its still hurting so i went to go look at it and it feels like there is a tiny hard ball like thing inside of it. When i touch it, i feel a bit of discomfort but it doesn't actually hurt. Also, its not very big though.

And i'm starting to get what looks like the chicken pox around my bikini area but i have already had them, they don't itch or anything but they are just red dots. So help? (link)
Its probably just a hair bump but if you are sexually active you should have it checked if it persists or spreads.


I badly want to download some MP3 files for my computer

(Akon-I wanna love you,Neo-I'm so sick of love songs, Justin Timberlake- what goes around comes around etc)

please please give me some website links where I can download free mp3
I've been trying so hard to find websites but all websites I manged to find so far had some sort of payments in it..

please give me websites where I can download free MP3. I would so appriciate it!
THANKS A MILLION IN ADVANCE (link)
blubster.com


on the N, theres a comercial for above the influence. me and my friend are argueing about wiether slomming is real. because at the end of the commercial, theres a ciberette and so im so confused as to wether people really do that. is it true? do people really put leeches on themselves? (link)
No its not true the point of the commercial is how stupid and how far people will really go...




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