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I want him back
OK! This is going to be pretty long. I'm a 16 female, and i've been dating this Guy, Logan, for a year and a half. Well, after one month of me and him dating this one Guy, William, kissed me. I of course told William NO, and stopped him, but I had to tell Logan. So I did. And he was mad at me for awhile, but he was over it a month later. Me and Logan fell SOOOO much in love. He came to see me everyday after work, he always said I was beautiful, he was so protective of me, and he ignored his friends if he got the chance to see me. Best of all, he was my very first at sex, and he stayed with me, it didn't change him at all, he was always there for me. But, one day, my mom found out, and kinda went Kookoo, and told me I could never see him again. Well, after that we just sorta fell even more in love with each other. We spent every second trying to be with each other. And then my mom brought that William guy back. She told me if I didn't hold Williams hand than I couldn't call Logan. We went to Missouri on a trip, and she brought him with us, and made us sleep in the same room. And I was always telling William to leave me alone, and not to talk to me, but Logan was always yelling at me and telling me I was cheating on him. And one day, I just kinda snapped, and I felt like Logan would hate me soon because I couldn't prove that there was nothing going on. And then William started trying to comfort me, and he really did make me feel good. He promised to leave me alone, and just be my friend, which is all I wanted. But then, William kissed me again, and Logan found out because of my sister. And after 2 kisses, i'm sure it's hard to believe there is nothing going on. But, Logan broke up with me...So I did the unthinkable, I went out with William. William left for the marines a day later, and couldn't get anything from family or friends for 2 weeks. Logan asked me out the night William left, saying he made a mistake. I HAD to be with Logan. He's the only thing that makes me happy. But, if I dated Logan now, i'd be dating 2 guys at once, which is absolutely not my thing. So I said yes to Logan, and sent William a really harsh break up letter, but it didn't get to him very soon. But, then I figured everything would be ok. William off to the marines, me and Logan here together, everything could work out. I couldn't be accused anymore. And everything was going fine for like another 7 months, until a week ago. Logan said he can't forgive me for cheating on him. And I don't know what to say to get him back. He's the love of my life, and I know i've accidently hurt him, i've hurt him so bad because he thinks I lied all those times. I just want the man who loves me back. I don't want to be accused anymore. I don't want to fight. I want him to come see me everyday again. I want him to tease me, and smile. I want to make him happy, but I want me to be the one to make him happy, no one else. Please help, I love this man so much.
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Your mum is a bitch.
William is a bastard who took advantage of you.
Logan is a complete knob for having no faith in you and it's his fault that you cheated on him.
I've seen a guy trying to hit on my girlfriend in my presence with her saying very suggestive things "I love you" (as a friend). I didn't feel the need to intervene or say anything as I had enough faith in her, and she just blew him right off by saying "you're just a friend, nothing more" whilst heavily intoxicated.
You need to be more assertive and tell Logan that he's a stupid fuck and you cheating on him was almost entirely his fault.
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man, you have no idea... i had the exact same thing happen. unlike you me adn my bf are still together, he didn't pull that dumb crap 7 months later. i'm so sorry. waht i said to my baby is, "jon, i love you. no one else. you make me happy and i thought i made you happy. please give me the chance to prove to you what i am saying. i know i can" and he did. maybe change it up a bit though. go to logan and say, logan i love you adn you said you loved me. love equals trust. i swear on everything i am that nothing on my end was wanting those kisses. if i had wanted to be with him, i wouldnt be here now telling you all of this. its all about you, please show me you still care and give me the chance to show you how much you mean to me. if he doesn't stay away, give him the looks you used to, adn keep to yourself when it comes to relationships. by that i mean, simply make him want you by showign you don't want anyone else. and for the record that was fuc** up what your mom did.
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aww im so sorry bout all of this. but if you really do love him and really want him back, get him back! do lal you can to get him back. right now he probably doesnt think you love him because you "cheated" on him. but show him that you do need him. keep telling him that your sorry. but dont just tell him that your sorry prove it to him. dont go out with anyone else. and if you do get to a point where your crying because of this. let him now. call him up at that time and just be like baby im really sorry, i never wanted to hurt you and if you dont want me back i understand but i love you so much and would do anything to be in your arms. and then maybe if he hears you crying he might be like wow she really does like me. but dont just like start crying. or you can always get together with his friends and see if they have any ideas or if your hanging with them and your talking to them about him they could tell him. because i know all my friends tell eachother if someone is mentioning them alot. or if you are maybe your friends or his friends might notice your not the same without him and your really upset that you dont have him they could tell him that. jsut prove to him that you need him really badly. and that your not yourself without him. just dont go off with some other guy. and if he sees you in the hallway smile at him or something. hope i helped. need anything else just drop it in the box =]
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Aww im so sorry to hear that. Well relationships are all about trust and respect (and other stuff lol) he should of trusted you when u said you werent cheating. It doesnt make any sense really, he should believe you. It was williams fault really. You did everything you could to get william away. Don't be so hard on yourself. You didnt mean to hurt Logan. And technically you didnt really cheat on him. William wasnt respecting you and just stepped in when he was not wanted. You have to explain to Logan about how you never cheat on him and it was williams fault you didnt want him with you and HE kissed you, not like you wanted it (hopefully not). Explain how much you love him and he should trust you he has no reason not to. If he doesnt except it then im not sure what to tell you. Its hard losing someone you love especially if they dont trust you for no reason. I may be confusing right now. If you want anymore advice or need anymore help with this i will try my best so just send it in my inbox if so.
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And I Hope I Helped
Good Luck Hun :)
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Why did he wait 7 monthes to decide he could not forgive you? Maybe you should look into a bit more and find out if there is more to this maybe he has met someone else?
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