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14/f

well i have a bf. well we've been 2gether 3 weeks 2day. well, i think i have a prob. everytime i get in2 a relationship all the guys wanna go with me. its hard becuz they r SOOOO fine. i made out with some1 last weekend and i told my bf. he 4gave me and i only have 1 more chance. i love my bf 2 death, but idk how 2 stop my prob... HELP ME!!!.,., thankz,
holla back at da snowbunny "abby n tyree" (link)
Yes you're a "player".
Although I think a more accurate description would be something along the lines of "slut"

It's not hard to stop, you just refrain from putting your tongue in other guys's mouths and opening your legs for them.


Me and my boyfriend were fooling around and I gave him a hickey...his parents don't have a problem with it and mine would.So my mom came to my school for a parent teacher meeting and she saw Casey walk by and she saw the hickey,but in the interveiw the teacher said I was doing a lot better and they think it's because of a certin young man in my life whose a very good influence.Well,he is and ya but anyways when my mom confronted me with me dad about this I said it was't me and I'd talk to him about it.So I pretended to break up with him to my mom and then I pretended to get back together now they're not gonna let me hang with him anymore I don't think...what should I do ??????? and if we can't see eachother I dout our relationship will work but I really really love him and he loves me.(p.s. the hickey was on his neck and we're both 13) (link)
Your parents approve of you having a boyfriend but not of you giving him a hickey? what? isn't that a bit stupid?


I'm 14/f and i used to like a guy in my english class (16/m) since the first day of school. the crush ended around the beginning of march, but now him and his friends think i like him, and now he likes me and won't stop trying to talk to me and saying hi. it's so annoying and embarassing

how can i get him to stop? (link)
Embarass him in public, when he says hi to you in a crowded place shout "NO I DON'T LIKE YOU, LEAVE ME ALONE" making sure others hear it.
His self esteem will be broken. You win.


whats a clit on a girl??


help asap! (link)
the person who wrote "Clit it like slang for vagina. Alot of boys usr this becuase they are extremely perverted" is so stupid and naive; it's cute :)

The clit is a bit of skin at the top of a vagina that you stimulate to pleasure women.

Don't worry about it though, it's not like you'll ever need to use it.


Dear Everyone,

how can you tell a guy likes you. i know i should just ask him but i dont really want to unless im sure he actually does.

signs that he likes me?

1. he IMs me first[before i used to IM first]
2. he has nicknames for me [which no one else has]
3. his default pic on his myspace is of me and him together
4. he plays around with me by holding my hand, sitting on my lap, messing with my hair, ect.
5. out of all his friends that are girls, he pays the most attention to me
6. he constantly wants to hang out together and when i have to go he begs me to stay[lol he will hold on to me and not let me go!]
7. he will make certain remarks; did i ever tell you how much i love you?
8. he shares his secrets with me that he has told no one else
9. he hugs me from behind
10. we always get mistaked for being a couple
[the other day a guy came up to me and said someone told him that my friend and i were "together". and when i asked him who told him that he wouldnt tell me. he said he forgot.]

but see the problem with all of this is that i used to like him then i told him and it was a disater because the feelings werent returned. and then i stopped liking him and now i do again. so im not sure about this one.

sincerly,
Emily Williams (link)
You'd have to be pretty blunt to not understand that he likes you.


Hey guys, well i want a good party that isnt totally lame and i only got a few bucks, a girl like me cant barely afford to rent a DJ or something else so if anyone has any ideas....thanks in advance (link)
Just don't have a party.


ok so me and my best guy friend have been friends with benefits for 3weeks now. nobody knows. while joking around with a friend i said that i was doing things with my guy friend and they took the joke too seriously and questioned him about it and he thought i told my friend everything. he flipped out on me even though i said i was joking. now i really like my guy friend as more than a friend and more than a friend with benefits and last night i told him and it seems that ever since i told him things have just been going downhill. i flipped out on him through a text and told him that i had alot on my mind and that i was sorry but i needed him to just bare with me and he hasn't answered me back yet. i dont know what to do. i keep screwing up and im not meaning to and i dont know how to make it right. i keep yelling at him and all i want to do is just kiss him and tell him how much i really really like him. i just spent half an hour crying my eyes out just to send him a text that he didnt answer to. it is possible that he doesnt have his phone on him because sometimes he leaves it in his room. please help me (link)
You're an idiot for telling your friends, I hope you've learned your lesson.


okay I have NO idea why but im starting to break out badly. Today at school when i was sitting next to the guy i liked, i didnt even want to look at him when he was talking to me;cause he would probably go straight to my zits. i covered them, but i dont wanna cover them that much, cause thats n=only gonna make it wors.e

so i wanna have NOTHING by the time i see him on tuesday.

i usually have an okay self esteem. im not low self esteem, and im not like extremely high either. but when i get acne it drops./

i dont want to use ANy Products. cause when i get breakouts like this, all the products make it worse. so i dont wanna like physically put anything on my face except like face wash.

i was just wondering if there are things i can eat or amount of sleep i should get in order to make the skin recover. If i should drink water. or things like that.


i would be SO GLAD if you can help. THANKS!
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Best treatment for acne is "roaccutane" which is a type of medication that takes 4-6 months but it does the job perfectly.
Alternatively you can keep doing what you're doing and being advised to do for regular spots, you will remove spots when they come but it won't prevent them.


so im a 17 year old guy. i have a low voise but for some reason when i talk it sounds fast and kinda like a gay mans...its really weird..what should i do? (link)
Why do you care?
Stop being a homophobe, there's nothing wrong with gays.


OK! This is going to be pretty long. I'm a 16 female, and i've been dating this Guy, Logan, for a year and a half. Well, after one month of me and him dating this one Guy, William, kissed me. I of course told William NO, and stopped him, but I had to tell Logan. So I did. And he was mad at me for awhile, but he was over it a month later. Me and Logan fell SOOOO much in love. He came to see me everyday after work, he always said I was beautiful, he was so protective of me, and he ignored his friends if he got the chance to see me. Best of all, he was my very first at sex, and he stayed with me, it didn't change him at all, he was always there for me. But, one day, my mom found out, and kinda went Kookoo, and told me I could never see him again. Well, after that we just sorta fell even more in love with each other. We spent every second trying to be with each other. And then my mom brought that William guy back. She told me if I didn't hold Williams hand than I couldn't call Logan. We went to Missouri on a trip, and she brought him with us, and made us sleep in the same room. And I was always telling William to leave me alone, and not to talk to me, but Logan was always yelling at me and telling me I was cheating on him. And one day, I just kinda snapped, and I felt like Logan would hate me soon because I couldn't prove that there was nothing going on. And then William started trying to comfort me, and he really did make me feel good. He promised to leave me alone, and just be my friend, which is all I wanted. But then, William kissed me again, and Logan found out because of my sister. And after 2 kisses, i'm sure it's hard to believe there is nothing going on. But, Logan broke up with me...So I did the unthinkable, I went out with William. William left for the marines a day later, and couldn't get anything from family or friends for 2 weeks. Logan asked me out the night William left, saying he made a mistake. I HAD to be with Logan. He's the only thing that makes me happy. But, if I dated Logan now, i'd be dating 2 guys at once, which is absolutely not my thing. So I said yes to Logan, and sent William a really harsh break up letter, but it didn't get to him very soon. But, then I figured everything would be ok. William off to the marines, me and Logan here together, everything could work out. I couldn't be accused anymore. And everything was going fine for like another 7 months, until a week ago. Logan said he can't forgive me for cheating on him. And I don't know what to say to get him back. He's the love of my life, and I know i've accidently hurt him, i've hurt him so bad because he thinks I lied all those times. I just want the man who loves me back. I don't want to be accused anymore. I don't want to fight. I want him to come see me everyday again. I want him to tease me, and smile. I want to make him happy, but I want me to be the one to make him happy, no one else. Please help, I love this man so much. (link)
Your mum is a bitch.
William is a bastard who took advantage of you.
Logan is a complete knob for having no faith in you and it's his fault that you cheated on him.

I've seen a guy trying to hit on my girlfriend in my presence with her saying very suggestive things "I love you" (as a friend). I didn't feel the need to intervene or say anything as I had enough faith in her, and she just blew him right off by saying "you're just a friend, nothing more" whilst heavily intoxicated.

You need to be more assertive and tell Logan that he's a stupid fuck and you cheating on him was almost entirely his fault.


alright i have been going out with my boyfriend for like 2 weeks and when we talk on the phone its mostly about kid stuff so we got into an argument about somthing and he was like do you want to break up with me i was like no i didnt say that so he was like if you break up with me i am going to break your heart and i was like what do you mean by that but he just kept saying if you break up with me im going to break his heart and i was like what if i just like another dude hee was like i dont care do what you do but your heart will be broke though??????????????? what does that mean??????? I NEED HELP :::((((( (link)
What.
I barely understand, maybe you should spread out your punctuation a little more next time (instead of like 50 question marks shared between 2 words)

Anyway; he sounds like a complete idiot, people often argue about different things and it's completely natural.

By the looks of your writing style; you're around 13. So I assume he's of a similar age.
He's trying to assert his dominance over you and play games with your mind in an attempt to make sure that you stick with him.

Although I don't completely understand - is he saying that you're going to break his heart or he's going to break yours? If he's threatening to break yours just laugh at him and say that he can't.

Although this all depends on what you were arguing about.


What is the balanced chemical equation to this unbalanced chemical equation?

CaO + H2O -> Ca(OH)2

Anyone got a clue? (link)
It's already balanced...


me and all my friends are 13. my friend and her boyfriend have been talking about oral, and fingering, ans sex.. he has a concom, and she says shes ready, and shes been talking about it with my other friend who also really wants it too. they say there prepared, and so are there boyfriends. the problem is im not supposed to know this, so i cant talk to them abou it. and plus im not sure if she was telling the tuth, or just saying that, but when everyone found out, she got mad, and i think it means it was true. i really cant do anyhting to help her, but i wanna know if thirteen is too young. I thik it is, but she doesnt, and im scared for her....were not that good of frends , but im still scared! (link)
Having sex at the age of 13 is not cool, it's stupid. Tell her that.


is it true that guys are only in a relationship for the sex? and what kinds of things drive guys crazy that aren't sexually related? (link)
We're all self centered pricks who are only in relationships for sex. Or at least most of us are, those who aren't are usually in them because they're insecure about their sexuality and are trying to prove that they're straight to themselves and others.


Ok well people have been telling me that they cant click on my pictures it says this page cannot be displayed. I think its because of the dumb myspace viruses that are going around. How do you fix it, its really annoying! i want people to see my pictures! and yes i already changed my password twice! and nothing has changed

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Don't be silly, the page cannot be displayed error isn't because of a virus it's because there's something wrong with the webspace that the pictures are being hosted on.


k so ths isnt really sex but w/e. wrong categ.

hows fingerin done? im cluless bt ths stuff bt curius at da same tim.e

14f if it matters. (link)
Girls get more pleasure if their clitoris is stimulated anyway, you just find it and rub it (it can be tricky to find!)


well i have a bunch of guy friends. and we're all really tight!!! but now like randomly they all started liking me, but i have a boyfriend!!!
how do i stay friends with them?!?!!? (link)
If they know that you have a boyfriend, flirt with them and then when they decide to make a move/just before they do blow them off completely (something like "what the fuck are you doing?!"), it'll come as a huge shock and kill off their self esteem.


what do guys look for in a girl?

high school guys?

and senior guys?

and if your not the prettiest rose in the bunch, then what will make a guy go out with you? (link)
I'll put it bluntly.

Most guys go for the attractive girls. Most of the time even if they are complete bitches. Sometimes they get fed up of a girl being too much of a bitch, but pretty girls get the most attention.

If you're not the prettiest rose in the bunch then you'll get one of the guys who desperately wants the prettiest rose but can't get her so has to settle for 2nd place.


Did any body out there ever had to wait till that someone you truely care about came up to you and respone to your letter or something elus? how long was the wait? and if it last for more than six months and you had to ask explain what happen? (link)
Dude if it's been 6 months since you wrote her a letter and she hasn't responded, take a hint.


i am a really insecure person and i am always getting teased about the way i look kids say things like what you looking at fatty and stuff like your never gonna get a boyfriend and if you did i feel sorry for him.and i have pimples anyway i can get rid of dem help me plz. (link)
Someone mentioned face cleansers etc. for acne - they don't work very well.
Go to your doctor and ask him for "Roaccutane" - it's quite strong and the side effects are fairly annoying but it is very effective. Speaking from personal experience here.




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