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Boyfriend???(important)
alright i have been going out with my boyfriend for like 2 weeks and when we talk on the phone its mostly about kid stuff so we got into an argument about somthing and he was like do you want to break up with me i was like no i didnt say that so he was like if you break up with me i am going to break your heart and i was like what do you mean by that but he just kept saying if you break up with me im going to break his heart and i was like what if i just like another dude hee was like i dont care do what you do but your heart will be broke though??????????????? what does that mean??????? I NEED HELP :::(((((
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What.
I barely understand, maybe you should spread out your punctuation a little more next time (instead of like 50 question marks shared between 2 words)
Anyway; he sounds like a complete idiot, people often argue about different things and it's completely natural.
By the looks of your writing style; you're around 13. So I assume he's of a similar age.
He's trying to assert his dominance over you and play games with your mind in an attempt to make sure that you stick with him.
Although I don't completely understand - is he saying that you're going to break his heart or he's going to break yours? If he's threatening to break yours just laugh at him and say that he can't.
Although this all depends on what you were arguing about.
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How old are you? My advice depends on your age so i'll just give you some advice based on age groups.
13-14:ya'll are young so he probably just wants to have a girlfriend and he doesnt want it to look like YOU broke up with HIM
15-18:get rid of him! I know this sounds big, but you've only been with him 2 weeks and he's already threatening you. He probably feels like you will hurt him if you break up with him. If you dont want to break up with him, let him know that he doesn't need to threaten you and that you arent in this relationship to hurt him.
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Talk to your boyfriend about it. Threats are gonna get him nowhere, but they could soon turn into something else. He was saying that if you broke up with him, he'd get his revenge & break your heart right back. I think he sounds abusive, and I would try to get away from this kid as much as possible. It'll be hard, but when you do & he comes after you [if he does], file a restraining order.
Good luck.
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i think he was just saying stuff because he was mad and unrealistic. or he is planing on revenge on you if you break up with him and it can be physical or emotional either way ir wont turn out pretty if thats what he ment but most likely he just wasnt thinking
~becky~
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first of all, you need to let your boyfriend know that threats will not keep you around, and you don't react well to them. what he is doing is trying to control you with threats, its wrong and it may be a hint that the relationship can potentially become abusive.
second of all, im guessing you are in middle school/high school, and believe me boys are immature as they come around that time. by this i think he means he will make you jealous by 1. dating one of your friends or another girl 2. talking trash about you. he thinks these things will break your heart and they may upset you, but they certainly shouldn't break your heart: you're stronger than that.
ehhh what he said was wrong and you should tell him calmly that you won't be heartbroken because if he ever did TRY to hurt you then he isn't worth caring about in the first place
good luck =]
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