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Member Since: April 12, 2007
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Last Update: April 12, 2007
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hey, do you guys believe once a cheater always a cheater? also not just cheating on someone in general, if they cheated on you in a relationship that they had with you in the past. (link)
Some guys do change. Give him another chance, but keep your eyes open for ANY signs of cheating. But don't accuse him a lot or be to obvious checking if he's cheating because if he's honest this time, you'll run him away.


alright i have been going out with my boyfriend for like 2 weeks and when we talk on the phone its mostly about kid stuff so we got into an argument about somthing and he was like do you want to break up with me i was like no i didnt say that so he was like if you break up with me i am going to break your heart and i was like what do you mean by that but he just kept saying if you break up with me im going to break his heart and i was like what if i just like another dude hee was like i dont care do what you do but your heart will be broke though??????????????? what does that mean??????? I NEED HELP :::((((( (link)
How old are you? My advice depends on your age so i'll just give you some advice based on age groups.
13-14:ya'll are young so he probably just wants to have a girlfriend and he doesnt want it to look like YOU broke up with HIM
15-18:get rid of him! I know this sounds big, but you've only been with him 2 weeks and he's already threatening you. He probably feels like you will hurt him if you break up with him. If you dont want to break up with him, let him know that he doesn't need to threaten you and that you arent in this relationship to hurt him.


13/f. Im not sure how I like my friend. As in bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then he started saying bffs so I did to because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me befor the party because we told eachother. but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party recently. We both go paint balling a lot then at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and him. I would mainly go with him. And we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and when we separated he was looking for me? But im the kind of gothic violent rough girl and hes the kind of prepy nice guy. Other guys I used to like and they liked me would be rough im rough to everyone also. But hes to nice. Is that what it should be like. But now hes been wearin a lot of black and depressed. Does that mean something. But then we do joke or do shoot each other on purpose. he was talking to my other friend about something ‘top secret’. later on she started truth or dare. And it started out just my 5 bffs her and him and another guy. I kept doing truths I was just to nervous. I knew it was a setup. He asked truth to me if id ever take a dare. Then my bff asked truth to me if I liked him then truth to him if he liked me we both said no. I regret it. Everyone already knew anyway but im just not sure if I like him bf or bff? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That’s what it was supposed to be. I thought wed start taking it longer than just a ‘dare’ kiss like making out or something. I like him as a bf then bff then bf then bff I just am not sure whats wrong. Hes all I think about and write about.
i really need help soon. if i dont do it tomarrow it will probly never happen between us. we tell eachother alot of stuff and we both knew or thought before the party that we liked eachother. Do I like him as a boyfriend(bf) or best friend(bff). How does he like me? What should I do? How do you kiss? How do I change what happened? What else should I do? (link)
Hey sweetie. I'm almost 17 and i had almost the same problem last summer. Even if you dont want to admit it to yourself, you definitely like him as a boyfriend. He most likely likes you as a girlfriend to. He's wearing black now?!? Probably to impress you!! I think you should tell him how you feel. Make sure that you tell him that even if he doesnt feel the same, you would still like to be friends. This way, you eliminate some of the awkwardness. As far as changing what happened, you can't. The past is the past but learn from it. Now you know what to do in the future! Let me know how it turns out!!!


k i really like this guy in my class and hes in all my classes but i cant tell if he likes me or not. we usually walk home together because we live near eachother and when im not walking with him or with him i always see him glancing in my direction. we get along really well and all that stuff but he hates my two best friends because they purposely annoy him. also i dont know what to do because im pretty sure one of my best friends are jelous because she knows i like him and she keeps telling me that he keeps msging her for some reason and she told me that he asked out this one girl but im pretty sure its a lie because when i talk to him he says that he hates her and my bestfriend didnt hear it from him either. but it still bugs me because i really really like him. any advice please help me!! (link)
Yeah, I agree that your friend is probably jealous. Keep doing what you're doing. Even though he likes you, he just broke up with his gf and you dont want it to seem like you're just a rebound girl, even if you arent!




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