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my friend still pleeease help mee
13/f. Im not sure how I like my friend. As in bff or bf. Weve been really close friends for a long time then he started saying bffs so I did to because I tell him more than my other bffs and he tells me a lot and were always there for each other. But then we flirt so much people think or say were dating or should but were not. He knows I liked him I know he liked me befor the party because we told eachother. but I have no idea now. I went to a paintball party recently. We both go paint balling a lot then at the party my team was my 5 bffs 3 of their bfs and him. I would mainly go with him. And we flirt so much that’s what im so confused about. He was showing off and when we separated he was looking for me? But im the kind of gothic violent rough girl and hes the kind of prepy nice guy. Other guys I used to like and they liked me would be rough im rough to everyone also. But hes to nice. Is that what it should be like. But now hes been wearin a lot of black and depressed. Does that mean something. But then we do joke or do shoot each other on purpose. he was talking to my other friend about something ‘top secret’. later on she started truth or dare. And it started out just my 5 bffs her and him and another guy. I kept doing truths I was just to nervous. I knew it was a setup. He asked truth to me if id ever take a dare. Then my bff asked truth to me if I liked him then truth to him if he liked me we both said no. I regret it. Everyone already knew anyway but im just not sure if I like him bf or bff? And ive never kissed or been kissed. That’s what it was supposed to be. I thought wed start taking it longer than just a ‘dare’ kiss like making out or something. I like him as a bf then bff then bf then bff I just am not sure whats wrong. Hes all I think about and write about.
i really need help soon. if i dont do it tomarrow it will probly never happen between us. we tell eachother alot of stuff and we both knew or thought before the party that we liked eachother. Do I like him as a boyfriend(bf) or best friend(bff). How does he like me? What should I do? How do you kiss? How do I change what happened? What else should I do?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
You like him as a boyfriend, and he likes you as a girlfriend. Ask him out, and don't worry about kissing, it comes naturally.
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Hey sweetie. I'm almost 17 and i had almost the same problem last summer. Even if you dont want to admit it to yourself, you definitely like him as a boyfriend. He most likely likes you as a girlfriend to. He's wearing black now?!? Probably to impress you!! I think you should tell him how you feel. Make sure that you tell him that even if he doesnt feel the same, you would still like to be friends. This way, you eliminate some of the awkwardness. As far as changing what happened, you can't. The past is the past but learn from it. Now you know what to do in the future! Let me know how it turns out!!!
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your questions in order
1) I am sur ehe likes you a lot. I think he might be just as confused as you are. I do the same kinda stuff with this one girl at school, and I am having the same problem with her you are having with him. The best thing to do is let him know how you feel.
2) I kinda already said this, but I'll say it again. You should tell him how you feel. Just try going out and if it doesn't work, just try (and I am NOT in anyway trying to make this sound mean) to move along. I'm not saying to rush into another relationship, but just wait. It might pay off.
3) To kiss you just... kiss. I mean, there isn't really a right or wrong way to kiss. You just pucker up and kiss. It takes a while, but you will learn.
4) Unfortunatelly, you can't change the past. But you can fix the future. Just ask him if he likes you. It is gonna be scarey, but you can do it.
5) Just follow your heart. That is really the only thing you can do. If you like him, go for it, if you don't like him, then don't. Either way, you can't lose.
Hope I helped.
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