theres this guy that i used to be really close with but now he's kind of at that stage where he doesn't eat, he doesn't talk to anyone, he's always fighting with his best friend and he always works and studies to hard. i don't know what do say to him, he won't listen to me or to anyone else. he thinks that what he's doing is fine and doesn't care. what should i do?
ps. i don't want to say anything to him because he gets angry easily and he's not to pretty when he's mad
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ChaosDragon answered Thursday April 12 2007, 7:13 pm: I am a guy, and have done that same thing about a year ago, but not the exact same. The best thing to do is tell him how you feel. It sounds like something is wrong, yes, but he may not want to talk about it. If you give him time he will eventually want to talk about it. The best thing you can do right now is try to be a good friend to him. That's what my friends did when I was going through that, and i got mad at them and yelled at them and almost told them I wasn't their friend anymore. Then, when I got out of the slump, I realized that the ones who helped where more willing to be my friend after what I said to them than the ones who didn't try to help me so much. Just try to figure out what's wrong, and try to help him out with it. If you need more advice, just send me a message to my inbox. I hope i have helped. [ ChaosDragon's advice column | Ask ChaosDragon A Question ]
christina answered Thursday April 12 2007, 7:12 pm: Something may be wrong at home, or just with him. If you & his other friends can't seem to get through to him, tell a trusted adult & get him help that way. They can help in ways you & his friend cannot. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
Lost_3v3rytim3 answered Thursday April 12 2007, 6:59 pm: I'm dealing with someone like that but its different. he doesnt get anger he just lies. this guy needs help he sounds broken hearted and needs help. ask all his friends to go in one room and comfront him. yell at him show him that you care and everyone elus. if he dosent listen then he'll lose his friends the only people who care for him no matter what. he needs to know he is not alone. good luck. ;) [ Lost_3v3rytim3's advice column | Ask Lost_3v3rytim3 A Question ]
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