plzz ask me anything that is appropriate. i will answer and hopefully help u w/ your problems. i've experianced alot and i know what to do in those "sticky" situations. i'm mostly good at helping people who have friends, school, and family problems.
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so for as long as i can remember,my arms have always gotten red. like blotches and they are bright red. i hate wearing short sleeves because everyone always asks "whats wrong with your arms" "why are your arms all red" "are you okay" it will go away after awhile but ive tried running cold water on it. blowing on it and it doesnt work, and they are really hot (link)
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i would see a doctor. it seems serious. try aveeno or something medicated.
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so there's this guy, and we like each other. we also liked each other a long time ago. well we both recently got out of relationships. and we are going to a movie tomorrow and we decided that we're going to make out. first of all, will it be awkward to make out in a movie theatre because of the seat angles? advice on that please! and also, how do i tell him i don't want to commit to anything just now..i'm worried he'll ask me to be his girlfriend. thanks! (link)
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if your gonna make out at a movie, sit in the back for privacy reasons.
just tell him that you wanna go steady and that you don't wanna commit yourself to anything yet.
tell it to him straight up. you gotta be honest and real.
if you are gonna go on a date and you are gonna make out, then you are gonna be classified as his girlfriend already.
hope this helps!!!!
good luck!!!!
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SO. My boyfriend's name is Doug. When we started dating his ex girlfriend was SO rude to me. She called me fatass, she started rumors, and she was just all around rude. They broke up two months ago, and now she wants back in his life. She added him on myspace & her message read; "I just want to try and get along."
Is it wrong for me to not want them to associate at all? I don't want her to be back in his life, I don't want them to be friends. Am I just being selfish?
I keep trying to put myself in Doug's shoes, but it's impossible. (link)
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you are definately not being selfish... i would be upset too. i guess you could start to do more thigns with doug so that you ae always in his mind. do something fun... go to kings dominion... i see alot of couples when i go there. if you talk to him about it, then things should be ok. also try to flirt more w/ him.
don't tell him that you don't want him to associate w/ her, then he will think of you to be controlling. just tell him that you don't feel comfortable about him being budddy-buddy w/ her.
just keep it short and simple. he should understand your feelings.
good luck!!!!!
hope this works!!!!!
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I've been with my boyfriend for over a year.. but when i call another guy i talk to, my heart absolutely pounds out of my chest! and i get really nervous! why is this? (link)
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well, just because it's been a year doesn't mean you still can't breaa up w/ him. obviously, you like this other guy. so, breakup w/ your b/f and go for the guy that make your knees shake when he enters the room(figure of speech). he would be the right guy for you.
good luck!
hope this helps!!!!
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i'm 17/f. if i have a boyfriend, and we've been together for a long time, is it cheating if i hold hands with another boy? (link)
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well...
uh...
no, it isn't cheating...
but it is flirting...
and you definately shouldn't be doing that w/ a person other than your b/f...
unless you are holding your little cousins hand while crossing the street...lol
personally, i would get pretty pissed off...
i wouldn't take the risk...
you never know what the consequences might be...
if it really bothered him, he might even break up w/ you...
be careful!!!!
hope this helps!!!!!
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hey there.i'm 13/f and i like this 16/m.he's almost 17.i was just wondering the best place to hang out with him at.him, and my best friend.i think i'd be too shy if it were just me and him. i'd probably stutter and what not. problem is, my best friend is his ex. how well would THAT work out? ehh i dont know.
any advice is ALWAYS taken into consideration.
thanks in advance :] (link)
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hello. i'm 12/f. so, i'm not too far behind of yourself. i have a b/f who is my age. and my bff asked him out and he said no. and he wanted to go to the movies. and of course, i wanted my bff to come w/. so, i can gaurentee you that thee will definately be some sense of awkwardness. but no need to worry.
all you have to do is talk to your bff about your crush. if she's really your friend and wants you to be happy, then she'll understand. but, you don't wanna just mess w/ your relationships. if he's not as important, then don't do it.
the best place to go, is the movie theatre cuz they don't have to fight and you can sit in the middle.
or, have your bff bring a date.
hope this helps!!!!
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I have software version 1.2 and it doesnt show a list of the songs that are already on my Ipod. So because of this I can't delete any of my older songs and now I don't have any space to add new ones. So if anyone can help me out with this I would be sooo thankful!! (link)
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ok, when you go onto itunes, just right click the song that you don't want and pick delete or any onther sign that means to discard
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theres this guy that i used to be really close with but now he's kind of at that stage where he doesn't eat, he doesn't talk to anyone, he's always fighting with his best friend and he always works and studies to hard. i don't know what do say to him, he won't listen to me or to anyone else. he thinks that what he's doing is fine and doesn't care. what should i do?
ps. i don't want to say anything to him because he gets angry easily and he's not to pretty when he's mad (link)
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if that boy is giving you a hard time or not paying attention to you, then he ain't worth your time. it is probably just puberty or something is wrong w/ family o something
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so theres this guy who sits next to me
i know he notices me cause we talk, but he has an impression of me as a freshman that laughs a lot.
Any cute ideas to make him notice me more?
not anything too extreme like bring flowers but
anything else is fine :]
and he doesnt care if i touch him either haha
so is theyre anywhere i touch to make him like feel that nervous "feeling"?
Thanks. (link)
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ok, NO!!!!!... NEVER touch someone, especially in public or if you are under age. i don't think it is a smart idea to do that. you should probably just talk to him more... and if you are having a test, then ask him if he would like to go to a cafe and study... then you still don't touch him, then you talk more and start flirting a little. hopefully, he will ask you out. then, you still don't touch him... that would be in my case a bit slutty. then when you get in to a deeper relationship, then y'all can do something, but not sex... unless if you really want baby or if you have a condom.
hope this helps!
and remember that this is jus my opinion and you probably hate my gut right now and will give me a bad rating but it is what i believe in and i think that it is the right thing to do.
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Canadian here:
I'm trying to understand what state Washington, DC is in. Is it District of Columbia?
Thanks. :o) (link)
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washington d.c. is not a state, it is just the distict of columbia
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15/f (sorry if it's in the wrong category)
I have VERY long hair. And my hair's like really thick and healthy. Lately, I've been washing it too much. And now I worry that it will like all fall out. I've been noticing that it's getting thinner and thinner. But sometimes, however, it's normal. I wash my hair like every 2-3 days...and sometimes, when I put gunk in my hair, or come out of the pool, I was it every day. I don't know what to do. My hair gets greasy VERY quickly. And I mean like every 2-1 days. And it's gross just walking around like that (since my hair is always down). This causes me to wash it so often. Now I'm worried that all of my beautiful hair will either wear out, or fall out...or something bad will happen. ;_; advice please? :'( (link)
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ok, i used to have long hair and i would always put my hair in a braid. and my hair is REALLY thinck. but my sister has thin hair and it gets oily alot. you could probably start doing other things with your hair. there is this store called "sally's beauty salon" in there, you can get this fake hair clip and put your hair in a pony-tail and then clip it on. it looks really pretty afterwards. another thing that you could do is donate your long hair to the locks of love foundation. that is what i did. then you can ask the person doing your hair for a deep cleaning shampoo. just for your info, the locks of love foundation takes the hair that you donate and makes wigs for people that have cancer.
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I know it's hard to have one without the other, so that's why I'm aiming for both. I have high-self-esteem. I never try to blend or anything like that because what makes me feel so great about myself is knowing I'm not typical. I do lack confidence in some areas. I'm afraid that people will think I'm a snob or not sincere, so I'm very humble, but I'm convinced that people are taking that as a sign that I don't value myself. To have confidence in myself: what would you suggest? (link)
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well, the sign that you are getting from them that they think that you don't value yourself, is ust what they think. it is an opinion. and you don't know for sure. you said that you are convinced. which could mean that you are convinced 99%. but what about the other 1%. that is for you to decide. do you think that you don't valu yourself?
hope this works and helps you!
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13/f okay well we have established that. Well here's the deal, I got my phone stolen, and didn't realize it, but I told my parents, so now I want a new phone, but my mom doesn't think I'm responsible, and I don't have any money. Should I try to earn it, get it from my brother, or just wait until my birthday or christmas (link)
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ok, since you are 13, when you turn 14, your are aloud (legally aloud) to get a job. but it has to be a part-time job until the summer, then it can be full-time. once you get the job, you will start getting more and more money.
hope this works!
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okay, well i can't seem to find this anywhere, so if someone could help me interperet my dream, that would be great.
well i'm in 8th grade now & i had a dream that it was the first day of high school & i just walked into the main office to get my schedule. well i was really late & nervous... & i found a staple remover on one of the lady's desks & i pushed it into the palmside of my thumb (like the part that you push down when you get your thumb printed) & pointer finger of my righthand, & it started bleeding [ a lot ] & stinging.
can someone please explain to me what that means? i'll take ANYTHING. thanks! (link)
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it is just a dream, it means nothing. it is probably just your conscience telling you to be careful and alert.
and to not touch everything and to keep your hands to yourself.
hope this works!
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umm...ok hi.
i like this boy Dakota and he likes me. and wen wnt out for about 2 months but too much drama got started so we broke ^. but we REALLY want to go bak out but we r afraid that if we do drama will get started again but we still REALLY like each other....plezz help. we r just....so lost.. (link)
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ok, i think that you should get back together with him. that is sort of what happened with my friends, they got together and they were stressing so they broke up. also with celebrities, that happens alot. most of them just split because of publicity reasons. my friend basically got me soo sick of her complaining of me to break up with my boyfriend that i finally did. and i also found out that i was better of without him. so if u peoples REALLY like eachother, then you should get back together.
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i dont know why,but i cant make a conversation,i cant be funny,i dont know why no one wants to be my friend. im really self concious(sp?) how do i become wild,fun and outgoing? and funny? like i cant hold a convo. i have like no friends here for some reason. whats going on?i find myself boring,and blah,i dont like it! thanks for any help! (link)
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unlike you, i am usually the person who starts the convo. i just start with something random. during lunch, you can talk about food, and you might find that you have something in common with another person. talking about food can't be hard. just say to a person next to that you like french fries. then they would reply. after, you could talk about how fattening they are. and that they use the wrong oil. if they were to use olive oil, then people wouldn't be soo obeise. if you give facts, and hold on to the convo and talk like you know what you r talking about, then they will see that you r smart and fun to talk to. and don't b afraid to laugh. but if you are trying to b funny, then b funny... not mean.
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okay so in december me and this kid went out for a very short period of time..(i was rebound) and his last gf just broke up with him saturday and asked me out last night but i said no we can just talk for a little while and well today he came over and we fooled around went to like 2 or 3 base-ish and now i feel terrible (right after i was told my bff got outta jail but one of his best friends died so now hes gotta go to a funeral which also upset me) i guess my question is
1 why do i feel bad
2 how do i trust this kid that i fooled around with (link)
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you feel bad, because you know that it was wrong wat you did, you just feel guilty. i think that you shouldn't trust him, move on to a guy that is perfect, that doesn't have too much drama, and can't hurt you.
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