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too far, too quick?
okay so in december me and this kid went out for a very short period of time..(i was rebound) and his last gf just broke up with him saturday and asked me out last night but i said no we can just talk for a little while and well today he came over and we fooled around went to like 2 or 3 base-ish and now i feel terrible (right after i was told my bff got outta jail but one of his best friends died so now hes gotta go to a funeral which also upset me) i guess my question is
1 why do i feel bad
2 how do i trust this kid that i fooled around with
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Bad things happened in life today, so you feel bad. You did something you aren't sure was right, so you feel bad. That's okay. Feeling a bit bad when people you care about are in pain, and feeling a bit bad when you think you made a mistake are both, good, human responses. Just ride it out. You'll feel better in a little while.
How do you trust this boy? Well, you don't. Not yet anyways. You have no reason to trust him right now. If you are interested in him, go back to your orginal plan of just talking to him for a bit, and seeing if something more, like trust, developes.
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you feel bad, because you know that it was wrong wat you did, you just feel guilty. i think that you shouldn't trust him, move on to a guy that is perfect, that doesn't have too much drama, and can't hurt you.
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Maybe you just feel bad because you feel like you were JUST a rebound and you meant nothing more to him. My advice is to just get to know him, but not just physically. Really get to know the person he is. Once you get to know him on a deeper level, you'll begin to trust him.
ps. i hope you and your best friend are dealing well with this death. im really sorry about that
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