Hi. My name is Danielle and i really enjoy helping people in need. I really try to give the best advice i can, always. Even if im totally agianst something you said. i will always be honest and sincere. im totally fun and love myspace. im also a very young indivdual. 15. but i dont think that effects the advice i give at all. unless its about school work or stuff like that. haha so i try. :]]
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E-mail: danizzilbaby@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: AriZonaa
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
AIM: coconutlovee
Member Since: March 6, 2007
Answers: 19
Last Update: May 7, 2007
Visitors: 1367
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Hi
HOW and when do i give my boyfriend a handjob?We've been together 3 months now and he has fingerd me once and i know he doesnt expect anything bt iv neva done nething nd i rly want to now..i jus dont know how 2 get around 2 giving it!should i be in his room/bed/wat??
also im a christian and i dont know if its wrong 2 be doing this stuff with my boyfriend?He knows that i want to wait for sex until im married but what about the other stuff?is it wrong?
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i actually dont agrree withh the other advice givers. ha. but really as long as you dont have sex. your good. your alowed to give and recieve SOME kind of plessure. its not a sin to feel good. haha. but ya just kinda start feelin him while you kiss sumtime wen your definetly alone. then slowly start feelin him more. and i thinkk hell get wats goin on. but in my opinion i think you shud blow him instead. just an idea. cuz sum guys even enjoy that more then sex. just a thought.
ha be careful.
bye. hope i helped a little.
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Ok, so there is this guy in my class at school. Me and him are really good friends. He likes me, for 3 years now, and i have liked him for 3 years now as well...but the problem is that he already has a girlfriend. His next door neighbour is him girlfriend...they met this summer but he told me that if i would've asked him out earlier then he would've said yes and i soo wouldnt be stuck in this situation that i am in right now!! So what should i do to get him jealous and make him want me more than he already does/?
oh and by the way he said he wouldnt dump his girlfriend unless she cheated on him(i dont beleive that though yet)..yeah soo..i really need advice on this..thx bye (link)
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okay so what you need to do is find another guy that interest you and totally make a move on him [perferably a guy that is friends with the one you like] like play around with this boy whenever your near that guy. so stop being jealous of this chick and get him jealous of you two. i hope this isnt confusing. i just dont know his name lol. but ya try and get a boyfriend so you can make him jealous. but try really hard not to hurt anyone. but if you dont wanna do that. try and get him to think that he cant have you anymore. maybe like play a little hard to get, because he thinks that once hes done with that girl he could move on to you. ya know.? so make it like your better than her AND him. i hope i helped a little. :]]
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14/f
im stuck inbetween two guys, both my age in the same school, both my good good friends. the first one "J", second one "M". Well me and J have went out before in the begining of the school year and things didnt work out because he was never around or could hang out and we broke up. Now he likes me and i like him (or I did) and we kind of have a little thing, also we went to 2nd base and that night he asked me out but i said i couldn't answer (yes stupid thing i regret doing that). so as of now, we are good friends and flirt at times, just i dont know if he likes me like he did before, and i like him a little. now M, we've been good friends and he likes me, but also likes another girl. hes such a great guy in every way and i think i am falling for him, pretty much thats it in a bottle. i am just stuck inbetween these two boys because if i choose one i will be curious about going out with the other one.. yeah im pretty screwed up =/. haha hope you can help, thanks in advance (link)
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ooh i know exactly what you going threw. if i were you id go with j. mostly because he obviously likes you a lot and you like him back. as for m. he [like you said] likes another gurl. and trust me its a horrible feeling to know that your not the ONLY one in his mind. i really dont want you to get hurt. so i suggest goin with J. just a thought. hope i helped a little :]]
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Well , I know loosing your virginity is a big thing in all but why?
I mean yeah i know that its the risk of getting pregnant and getting disceases but other than that why is sex such a big deal?
Why do people think other people are slutty if they give a blowjob or get fingered?
It feels good, its not like your hurting anyone by doing it.
I just dont see whats so bad about it sometimes.
Please inform me, because ive done all that stuff and I dont feel bad or regret it at all, i thought it was very enjoyable. (link)
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well in my opinion its not a bad thing at all!
dont worry about what other pepo think. as long as you dont over do anything. haha. but in reality sexual stuff is a way of life. everyone does it. so do what you want. hope i helped a little. :]]
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So me and this boy are great friends, seriously. I kinda like him, but no one knows, and we flirt all the time. I can't help it, I'm a natural flirt. But I heard he was going to ask me out, and I asked my friends what they thought and I got mixed replies. Some think we wouldn't look good together, some think we should go out, stuff like that. I mean I want to say yes, but I don't want it to be weird. Because right now, me and him are pretty free around each other and nothing is awkward. I want to go out with him, and not have people make fun of me and I want things to stay the same. What should I do? Thanks
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i think you guys would be great together. its always good that you guys were buddies first. so then it shouldnt really be as akward as you thinkk! if you really do like him give it a shot. its worth it. hope i helped :]]
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if my boyfriend tries to put his arm around me at the movies, how do i react? do i put my arm around his shoulder or do i just sit there or do i look at him? ahhh, im so scared. (link)
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just enjoy it dont freak out. this is a really good thing. you can either move a little closer. or look up at him and smile, even give him a little kiss and then get backk to watching your movie. and once you get the first movie theater kiss outta the wayy the next one wont be hard at all. hope i helped :]]
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Could someone PLEASE tell me what a douche is? (What is does, how you use it, everything) and what does 'THO' mean? (link)
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well a douch is just like calling someone a retard. its mean but it can also be used jokingly. like "woww what a douche!" haha its just like an insult that doesnt really need an exact definition. lol. but tho. im not sure. maybe its a shortened way of saying though.
ha thats usually what i use it for. hope i helped :]]
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I have had these feelings latley for my friends. The problem is all my friends are girls. I am also a girl. So um I think I am a lesbian or bisexual. I tried to kiss my rfriend and she let me. I started making out with her we never talked about it again or did anything again but i want to. How do I stop liking girls (link)
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its obvious that ur still young. and when your young like that you dont always know exactly what you want. its hard. but if you really cant control liking girls. then its okayy. your you for who you REALLY are. if your bi thats okay lots of girls are. so just accept it if that what you really feel. itll be tough but it happens to the best of us. hope i helped. :]]
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15/f.
This only started this year...is it normal to get a sudden attraction to EVERY guy that passes by? (He has to be Okay looking though :P lol)......and getting a sudden urge to talk to that person or communicate to him? :O (link)
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haha dont even worry about it. im 15/f too and i ALWAYYS feel that wayy. exspecially if he is a hawtee. so its good that u wanna talkk to him. i suggest doit exactly that. ha. were just boy crazyy chickas! haha hope i helped :]]
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14/f. im a freshmen and there is a junior asking me to prom. his friend texted me saying that he was. he texted me and said "scott wants to ask you to prom." what should i say back? i want to go with him but i dont know what to say. im bad with words i guess. thanx!
ariella (link)
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say something to his friend like
"that would be fun. but only if HE asks me himself" cuz u dont want a baby. haha
and when//if scott does ask you be like.
"love to" ha. hope i helped and havee fun chicka :]]
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Lemme hear all the ideas u have =)
Yes he likes me but how do I make him jealous?? (link)
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ooh. this is easy.
lol. give long hugs to his best guy friends.
play a little hard to get.
whisper kute things in the ear of the guy next to him.
hug him for a shorter period of time then anyone else
talk about how hawt the guy "over there" is today.
treat him like a just a friend.
leave him confusing comments on myspacee **
haha.
but if he likes u.
why do u needa make him jealous?? lol.
hope i helped. :]]
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how come no one gives you "feed back" on your answers anymore. like serouisly. (link)
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i would have to say its because they are lazy. :p ha but or because they just dont know what to sayy. why not just say thanks tho. ya know. :]]
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Theres this guy at work that has been confusing me. He's a team lead over cashiers and with me working the sales floor, we had never talked before. One day I was joking around at the service desk with one of my friends who is a cashier. She introduced us and since than him and I have become instant friends.
When I walk by him, he always hollers at me so that I will stop and talk to him. Even when I come in on my off days, he stops whatever he is doing and talks to me.
One of the things that confuses me is that he treats me differently when some people are around. When no one is around he flirts and tells me his plans and things about himself. But if people are around he treats me like a team member, like he wasnt just flirting with me 2 seconds before.
Like the other night, he made me stay past my time to cover a department, so another team member could go to the huddle. After the other team members left, he called me to make sure that I wasnt mad at him.
He is very very serious about keeping his work and personal life separate. He also keeps spouting off the rules to me about how he is not even allowed to hang out with team members only team leads. But than he messages me to come and hang out with him and so on. When I questioned him about how isn't him hanging out with me mixing work and personal life, he responded with that he trusted me not to mess up his work enviroment. He always drops little hints into the conversations about himself and everything.
Another one of the team leads over the cashiers who I am extremely close with told me that they told her that the rules were that they could date and hang with team members as long as it didnt interfere with the job.
The other night I ran into him and his friends at the pool hall and the first thing he said to me was "What took you so long to get here?". After they left him and his friends went to eat and I went home. When I got home I had a message from him asking me why I didnt come eat with them.
He's not a really shy guy, he's actually very outgoing.I've never ever had a boyfriend, any boy that I ever liked has always put me in the friends only category. He is the first guy to even show just interest in me that is maybe a little more than just friends. I think he knows that I like him but I'm not sure. He's told me that work relationships, never work out, not statistically anyway. People at work have noticed and tell me that he treats me different than he does anyone else there. I'm just not sure. Sorry for the long text I really needed to get it off my chest.
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well what i think is that he likes you but is very serious about keeping his job. he obviously has a thing for you but probably just doesnt know how to let you know. maybe he thinks you dont like him. what a smart thing to do would be to hang out with him more outside of work. get to know him where he doesnt feel paranoid about getting caught on the job flirting with you. so what i think is that you should def. chill with him more offten OUTSIDE OF WORK more than at work because obviously he can just be him self and not worry. also since you have never been in a real relationship it would be smart to not get clingy. thats always a way to lose someone you really like. hope i helped. :]
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i like this guy *jack*.... in 1st year i really didn't like him i thot he was really annoying....now we're in 4th year and he's really grew up.. and we've became the really good friends nd i feel really close too him......i broke up wif my boyfriend the other week because he was pressurin me into doin stuff nd i told *jack* about it nd he was pretty protective about it....but now hes coming up behind me in skl nd tickelin me he tells me everythin nd hes also reli flirty wif me nd all my friends have noticed but he flirts wif alot of girls in my year but he doesnt tickle them..... but when he does like someone tho he usually tells them and thats how i don't think he likes me
sorry its long but please can you tell me is its signals he's sendin me or not (link)
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well what i think you should do. is just flirt back for a while. kinda make it obvious that you might just like him too. because it seems like he may like you but hes just afraid about how to tell you cause you might just have dif. feelings. so just let him know you like him by flirting back a little. but not too much becuz you dont wanna seem like hardcore desperete like flirt a little. maybe he just doesnt know how to make the first move. hope i helped. :]
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ok so theres a guy at my school who im not really friends with. hes one of the "mans men" meaning hes always with the guys. so anyways the guys in my school argue with eachother a lot, even the girls. every time im talking to someone or just making a point and someone counters it [goes against what i say] he almost always defends me. for example my friends would be joking and saying "oh its her fault" and he would say no its not its mine its ok or "no you're wrong" he'd say well actually..etc etc. i dont think hes overly friendly, but is this a sign that a guy might like you?? thanks. (link)
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ya im pretty sure that this guy likes you. most guys like to come off as the good guy and try to be on your side as much as possible even if he has no idea what you are even talking about. so id def sayy theres a chance. and u should def make a move. hope i helped :]]
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Dreadlocks - my latest 'craving', you could say. There's this girl in my uni who has it and it looks amazing on her.
I was just wondering how it's done...I know someone who'll do it and stuff but I wanna know how. Also, will I be able to wash my hair? And after how long will it start to get all loose and weird? And are there any negative consequences (like the 1.5 million different fleas found in Bob Marley's hair)?...
I admit I'm a hygiene freak (must wash my hair before 24 hours are over between each wash)and I just want to make sure I won't do something I will regret.
Thanks for your time.
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well i know this guy that has them and he washed his hair. its just that it ruins them. so if you are a clean freak. then i dont think dreads would be a smart decision. sorry.
hope i helped :]]
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i'm the type of girl who's very
clingy and wants to know where
my boyfriend is and who he's with.
it's not because i don't trust him,
it's just because i always want to hear
his voice. my boyfriend used to be like
that but now after we've been going out
for a while, he doesn't call me as much
and he barely goes online and he doesn't
go to my school. i always call him and he
never calls me and i seem desperate calling
him every hour. =( but i can't help it.
how can i stop seeming desperate and stop the need to call my boyfriend every hour?
because he thinks it's getting annoying.... (link)
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haha its okay that you feel that way sometimes.
i mean i was like that too. it just kinda ruined my relationship though. so try and play the whole hard to get game. cause then HE will be the one calling you instead. and also try saving a voice mail from him or something that has his voice. so whenever you feel the need to hear his voice just relisten to that. it will help. i hope. hope i helped. :]]
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is there a way to find someones song when they hid it? on myspace?
i want to know this person's song.
please?
http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=10267817 (link)
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usually when the song is hidden its not supposed to be found. haha. but all you need to do is go to google. and type in a line from that song in quotes click enter and easily you can find who its by and look it up on myspace. thats what i do when i cant think of the artist. hehe. hope this helps. :]]
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anyways!
I'm 14/f. My problem is that my life is sooooo freakinnng boringg!! I bore myself. We just moved here 3 years ago. Still have no family friends and no relatives. I have 2 best friends from school, but we can never do anything together because we're too young to drive...and our parents are too lazy and don't want to drive all of us anywhere.
I really don't know what to do!! I don't feel like doing something useful...I just want to have a good time for once instead of sitting on the computer for hours...
It seems hopeless. I know what I have to do, to be creative and motivate myself...but there's nothing really motivating in my life right now... (link)
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omg. i used to always feel this wayy. then i decided that i could just try to perfect myself. so i started like working out. cooking. trying new things and tryed to stay away from myspace. lol. but its a lot of fun. like when your bored to get some excersize in. or go for a jog. cuz i know how it feels to be bored and its not fun at all so just try to work on yourself and get to know yourself a little more. trust me it can be a lot of fun. hope thiss helps. :]]
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