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not returning calls or going online
i'm the type of girl who's very
clingy and wants to know where
my boyfriend is and who he's with.
it's not because i don't trust him,
it's just because i always want to hear
his voice. my boyfriend used to be like
that but now after we've been going out
for a while, he doesn't call me as much
and he barely goes online and he doesn't
go to my school. i always call him and he
never calls me and i seem desperate calling
him every hour. =( but i can't help it.
how can i stop seeming desperate and stop the need to call my boyfriend every hour?
because he thinks it's getting annoying....
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haha its okay that you feel that way sometimes.
i mean i was like that too. it just kinda ruined my relationship though. so try and play the whole hard to get game. cause then HE will be the one calling you instead. and also try saving a voice mail from him or something that has his voice. so whenever you feel the need to hear his voice just relisten to that. it will help. i hope. hope i helped. :]]
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There's no problem with being clingy-that's fine- the only problem is when you're obsessed. I don't think you're obsessed, don't worry. Just try to occupy your time with something else. If that doesn't work, and you absolutely NEED to hear his voice, make up an excuse to call him. Ask him for help on homework or something. Or, if you want him to call you, play hard to get. Don't call him. Look extra gorgeous at school so he'll HAVE to call you. Also, there's a chance that he could just be shy about calling you. If you've both got cell phones, try texting. Then he doesn't have to get nervous about talking to you, and you're still speaking to each other. That's about all I can say. Good luck.
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Since you even see your behavior can seep annoying and somewhat desperate, you can probably sense that he's feeling the same way. Some guys even breakup with girlfriends just because clingy isn't going to work out for them. Just know that you COULD lose him over this. [Im sorry if you disagree with what I was saying and you find it harsh or whatnot in advance] That could be your motivation. But also keep yourself busy. Get a job, do chores, do homework, study harder. Go ahead and find a new hobby. I don't think a girl should revolve her life around a boy.
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