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Question Posted Tuesday March 6 2007, 9:18 pm

I have had these feelings latley for my friends. The problem is all my friends are girls. I am also a girl. So um I think I am a lesbian or bisexual. I tried to kiss my rfriend and she let me. I started making out with her we never talked about it again or did anything again but i want to. How do I stop liking girls

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ElenaHilton answered Thursday March 8 2007, 5:56 pm:
You don't stop. You may be just trying to figure out your emotions and who you are. If you come to the conclusion that you are gay, there is nothing wrong with that, but you must step up and become mature enough to accept and embrace who you are. It is totally fine if this is who you are, and you cannot change it. So embrace it. Like I said though, you may just be young and confused.Don't keep your emotions about this inside, because you'll become depressed or self-destructive.Good Luck

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daniellelovee answered Wednesday March 7 2007, 4:42 pm:
its obvious that ur still young. and when your young like that you dont always know exactly what you want. its hard. but if you really cant control liking girls. then its okayy. your you for who you REALLY are. if your bi thats okay lots of girls are. so just accept it if that what you really feel. itll be tough but it happens to the best of us. hope i helped. :]]

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nerdtchose answered Wednesday March 7 2007, 1:02 am:
Wait until your friend spreads the rumor that you're a lesbian around school. See if you like girls after that.

No, really.

Boys like girls and it's okay.

Girls like girls and it's okay.

You don't mention your age, but I assume you're a teenager. Teenagers can get turned on by a table. What you are feeling right now doesn't necessarily mean that you will feel like this forever.

However, if the feeling doesn't go away, well, better start accepting it right now, girl. Some people are lesbians, some people are diabetic, others are accountants. Nobody's taking the easy road.

And, honestly, you didn't make out alone, did you? So there you have a proof that other people do it.

Besides, being a lesbian is hip. Homosexuality is the new black.

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Riah answered Tuesday March 6 2007, 11:48 pm:
There is no way to 'stop' it, you are who you are. Accept yourself and love yourself for it. I'm bi-sexual. I expect my friends to accept it. Don't deny who you are just to please other people or fit other's standards. Good luck :D Email me at riahrnkn91@hotmail.com if you ever want to talk.

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