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I dont really understand
Well , I know loosing your virginity is a big thing in all but why?
I mean yeah i know that its the risk of getting pregnant and getting disceases but other than that why is sex such a big deal?
Why do people think other people are slutty if they give a blowjob or get fingered?
It feels good, its not like your hurting anyone by doing it.
I just dont see whats so bad about it sometimes.
Please inform me, because ive done all that stuff and I dont feel bad or regret it at all, i thought it was very enjoyable.
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Like I have told many people; sex is a natural thing for humans. How you do it and how often you do it is up to you. As long as you are safe and responsible about it, there's nothing wrong with it. But you have to remember that sex before marriage goes against many religions. Sex is a big deal to some people, and it's not a big deal to others. It's a matter of opinion. That's all. It depends on how you were brought up and whether or not you practice a religion.
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I personally don't do that because I am saving myself for the right person. I think its everyone's decision and if you think its ok thats your bussiness. I try not to judge people, but I also think its somewhat disrespecful to yourself to let people have free samples. I think sex and blow jobs and all that is something to be shared with someone you truely love and thats how many people think thats why many people think its so bad. Its your body and your decision, just becareful you can't take it back.
Best of luck to you,
hope i helped.
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I personally haven't done any of that, but I wonder too why it is such a big deal. Then I remember its because people do it for all the wrong reasons. Its supposed to be a strong emotional connection, and most teens are called sluts if they have sex because all they have are physical attractions and cannot really appreciate all that it is. Its not supposed to be "fun", its supposed to be a larger than life feeling of connecting in the most powerful way with your soulmate. It's not really about the unfortunate consequences, its about not realizing the seriousness of the action and how teens do it for all the wrong reasons.
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it is a big deal because it's something that you'll never get back and that you should share wtih someone special. to many people it's so important because of what the bible says.. many people just say that their slutty about that stuff... just to say it.. i don't regret it either. only because i'm glad that who i did it with was the one who i have strong feelings for.. everyone just has different opionions. to lots of people their virginity is precious to them
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Lots of people have different opinions on loosing your virginity! Honestly if you are comfortable with is there shouldn't be problem!!! You are gonna get call a slut somewhere along the line beleive me, people call me a slut and i have never even kissed guy! There is nothing wrong with as long as you not loosing it for the wrong reasons
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Loosing your virginity is a big deal to some people because they believe you should be married or truly love the person you give your virginity to because you can only give it to one guy. Also you'll always remember the guy or girl you give your virginity to. It's the closest you can ever get to someone. People only consider the other stuff slutty if you sleep around or you barely know the person. If you don't regret anything you've done than good for you. Don't let anyone else make you feel as if you should regret it.
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well in my opinion its not a bad thing at all!
dont worry about what other pepo think. as long as you dont over do anything. haha. but in reality sexual stuff is a way of life. everyone does it. so do what you want. hope i helped a little. :]]
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