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i hate it and how can i look better to make guys like me i have acne but ive been using face wash everyday and i hate when people walk up to me and say get pro active and laugh well my acne is not that but i think im pretty sometimes but i was going out with a hott guy but idk i need help to get a bf because i really want one and i want to be popular how do you get to be popular im trying to like tell people that you dont have to be perfect to be popular but how do you???? (link)
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I understand what you are trying to prove....but wanting to be popular makes it like never happen. You just gotta be nice to like everyone never talk trash be everyones friend but not fake...you also gotta be happy in your own skin.
No one that has wanted to be popular has become popular. "Popular" people don't think of themselves as popluar they just live their lives.
Good luck
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My stomach is fat. im a skinny person but I have so much fat on my stomach its not even funny. You can see it through my shirt.
What can I do? my mom said sit ups DON'T help.
13/f. HELP! (link)
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Sit ups DO help...they are the best way!
Do a BUNCH a day...and try jogging...and laughing>thts the best thing you can do to work you abs laughing hard and long!
good luck
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okay i know I'm only 13 and i have my hole life a head of me but i'v never had a boyfriend or a guy even ask me out=[ i have some guy friend but only a few of them are single and all of my close girlfriend have boyfriends and i and i don't want to call them hores but they've all gotten passed 2end base and i feel like no one gives a crap about me and no one will love me=[ i meen i think I'm pretty and allot of the guys i hang out with don't say I'm ugly and i mean none of my friend say i am but still I'm a nice person and well i have my flaws but I'm only human and i feel alone but i dont want to seem like a hore just to get a date but i don't know what to do or how to get a boy to like me as in more then a friend. (link)
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Seriously don't worry about it. Life is better without a guy, you can do what you want when you want. You flirt with anyone, dance with any guy at a dance and then next song dance with someone else. Just think about all the negitives that come with boys...DRAMA.
Boys aren't everything...and when you long for a boyfriend somehow it turns them away...don't know how it just does.
But have fun...live life!
Good luck!
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Well , I know loosing your virginity is a big thing in all but why?
I mean yeah i know that its the risk of getting pregnant and getting disceases but other than that why is sex such a big deal?
Why do people think other people are slutty if they give a blowjob or get fingered?
It feels good, its not like your hurting anyone by doing it.
I just dont see whats so bad about it sometimes.
Please inform me, because ive done all that stuff and I dont feel bad or regret it at all, i thought it was very enjoyable. (link)
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I personally don't do that because I am saving myself for the right person. I think its everyone's decision and if you think its ok thats your bussiness. I try not to judge people, but I also think its somewhat disrespecful to yourself to let people have free samples. I think sex and blow jobs and all that is something to be shared with someone you truely love and thats how many people think thats why many people think its so bad. Its your body and your decision, just becareful you can't take it back.
Best of luck to you,
hope i helped.
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I'm 17/F and a junior in highschool. Our teacher quit so we have a permenant substitute for now. Our Sub is a guy, and he told us he was 23 and right out of NYU. Pretty hot too. Anyways, ever since this guy started taking over our classes he's been kind of flirting with me. Don't tell me i'm imagining it because my friends notice too. He always comes to my desk to ask how I'm doing, putting his hand on my back. He asks me to stay after class a lot to compliment me on all my work. He asked me if I needed a tutor in any subject and that he'd be happy to do it, and one day my friend couldn't drive me home so he offered to take me. It's kind of starting to freak me out. He's good looking and all but he's 6 years older than me and my tacher. I told my parents and the school counselor and they think I'm crazy for even saying something like that. My friends are the only ones who believe me. What should I do? He's not stopping. Maybe I am crazy, but I'm pretty sure I'm not. (link)
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Well maybe you should try avoiding him like if he puts his hand on your back shrug it off. Don't stay after class without a friend. Don't be rude but when he tries to make conversation find a way to leave or something. Just give him little hints that you aren't interested, if he keeps doing it talk to your parents again, let them know you wouldn't make something like that up and that you tried taking care of it yourself. If the school doesn't listen to you they can get in serious trouble so just make them listen.
Best of luck!
And always use the buddy system around him!
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what does "i'll cross my t's and dot my eyes" mean :S? i heard that in an all american rejects song! (drive away) hope you can help me =) (link)
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Like finishing everything up.
Like you write a sentence and go back and cross the t's and dot the i's to finish the sentence off.
Hoppe I helped!
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my fucking mom treats me like im still 7. my siter is 9 and every friday and saturday night they go out to eat. im fucking 14 years old so why the hell do they think i want to spend my friday and saturday nights EVERY weekend at a gay restaurant with my parents and my mom and sister dont get along so i end up having to listen to them fight.
im at the age where i can go out with my friends and i can stay home alone, i dont need to go everywhere with my parents. i scream at them and tell them how much i hate being with them and they never let me go anywhere with my friends. i dont have any fun
once again on a friday night my parents a sister are going out to eat, and they said i HAVE to go. but i went LAST week and the week before that and the week before that. its a fucking friday night i want my friend to come over but NOOOOO my mom has to be gay and say "o ur going out to eat you cant stay home alone with your friend"
how can they expect me to go everywhere with them????
i need major advice. i cant deal with this shit and watch all of my other friends have fun without me (link)
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Well you need to grow up. Just because you are 14 doesn't mean you act it. Don't scream and yell at them its childish. Talk to them calmly, and ask them if you can go out on Friday nights once and awhile like every other week.
It sounds like you guys have a family night going and its a great thing, I wish my family did that once and awhile. You may not hold that dear now but when you grow up and move out you will miss it, no matter how messed up it is.
But calmly talk to your mom about being able to go out with friends once and awhile, remind her you will still go to dinner's with them.
Hope I helped
Good luck!
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i might be prgenate and if iam im not to sure of how to tell my parents .. wat should i do (link)
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Its up to you but it shows more responsibility if you are honest and tell them face to face before you take the test. And then ask them if they will be there with you while you take it, like say it would mean a lot to you to have their support.
Or
you could take the test and tell them if you are.
Good luck!
Hope I helped!
Babies are wonderful if you are pregnate it is your choice to keep the baby or not, don't let anyone influnce you, ofcorse you do need to inform the father once you find out you are pregnant if you are!
Good luck!
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soo i just got my period. and im kind of confused- about everything. how long can i leave a tampon in? can i wear one to bed? and how long does it last? one week every month?
14/f (link)
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Leave a tampoon in for 4-8 hours.
Don't sleep in one, its dangerous.
3-7 days
every month
once you start getting on track
I have had mine for 5 years and still go six-eight monthes w/o having it and it sometimes lasts 2 days.
So it takes awhile to get on track and have it super regualry
typically yes your boobs start to grow
typically!!!
Good luck
hope i helped!
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what is a minx? what does it mean? (link)
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A minx cat is a cat without a tail.
It has been chopped off.
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Why would a cat start pooping next to the litter box instead of inside of it. I have two cats, but just the female is doing this. (link)
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She may not like the little if you changed it recently, she may want to behave by going "in" the litter box so she goes next to it. She may have a cut on her foot and the litter hurts her paw. If you very recently got her declawed, I have heard of their paws being super sensitive and them never going in the litter again.
To be safe reather than sorry call you vet imeditly.
Good luck!
Hope I helped!
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Whats that song that has the line about ripping up your heart and sewing it shut. its like, bout trying to help some one i think... (link)
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Theres one song kinda like that, that I am thinking about its If you're going through hell by Roodny Atkins.
Its like:
Usen the needle of your compass to sew up your broken heart.
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I am looking after this 6 year old. He is lovely. However, the mother recently left. I've been needed over a lot more to help out because his dad is really upset. After i've put the son to bed i go down and drink coffee with Brain (the dad). I can tell he really needs someone to talk to and we sometimes talk for ages. I dont want it to become inappropriate though so the conversation is usually quite censored. We talk about Tom (son) and about whether his wife has called. Thing is, we've become quite close. He's a really young dad but i dont want to split up a family or anything, so i would never initiate anythin. Thing is, he kissed me. It was completely random and he apologised loads afterwards. He said it was really wrong of him and he didnt want to loose me because im the only one he can talk to and ive helped out so much. We talked afterwards, my idea, i didnt want things to be awkward. He told me he liked me but would never want to put pressure on me and never intended on telling me.
I like him too. Its awful isnt it~? im a really bad person. But he's married. Its been 5 months since she's left and she hasnt called. And me and brian are becoming closer and closer "friends". nothings happened since, but i know if i wanted it to i could. I get on so well with Tom and i cant help thinking my morals are making me make the biggest mistake of my life (link)
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You should stay close with him, keep talking but don't like kiss him or let him kiss you. Wait till his divorce is final, you will know him better than, have a stronger realtionship with him and his son(always a plus) and you will have time to look over the situation and think about it. Time is the best thing, you can clear your head a little and figure out if this is really what you want.
But wait untill him and his wife figure things out, you don't want to blame yourself and wonder for the rest of your life and you don't want him to do the same thing. Let things kinda work things out a little and calm down.
Good luck
hope I helped!
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I'd discharge for about 3yrs.I still havnt go my period.My friend said you'll you;ve started when the discharge in your vagina goes brown
True? (link)
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Trust me don't be in any hurry to get your period. Let nature take it's corse. Always carry a pad with you though, be prepared!
Good luck!
Hope I helped.
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i have like this nasty looking cole sore or pimple or whatever the fuck it is and its right by my mouth is there anything that i can do to get rid of it help please im desprate (link)
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If it is a cold sore, try blistects (sp?)[the chapstick], if it is a pimple try the 3 day acne stuff you see on tv. I use it and it totally works!
Good luck
Hope I helped!
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can anyone list me some healthy things I can eat for break fast? That's healthy though because this year, I want to eat really healthy stuff to improve my complexion (no i'm not fat, but I have really ugly skin, not just in my face either). So bread with sugar is executed thsi year..Can I eat yogurt for breakfast? My parents said it's a snack so they took it away from me =(
How many times can you eat yogurt a day? (link)
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Yogurt is more of a snack but if you pair it with like something more filling like and apple it could be breakfast. You shouldn't eat yogurt more than 3 times a day because the amount of lactose could make you sick.
For breakfast try frosted mini wheaties, specail k. They have special K breakfast bars which are really good and filling. It is a rumor the whole chocolate thing, chocolate is associated with periods which when you are on your period you typically get break outs so you can eat chocolate but not a lot because its not super healthy.(My really good friend's dad is a dematoligest so I got this info first hand.)
Good luck. Eat fruit and veggies! Stay away from grease!!!
Hope I helped!
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Any ideas on how do I put up my hair so i can decrease my acne from the oils of my hair? It's so hard to keep it up because first of all, It'll put a dent on my hair and my hair will forever have a dent in it and second of all, it's hard to put up your hair when you have serious amounts of acne (link)
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Well of corse you are going want to mix it up not doing the same thing everyday.
SO:
Ponytail
Braids
Headband
Pigtails
Curled w/ pigtails
Curled half up half down
Skrunchy half up and down
Skrunchy headband
Cliping front peices back and curling them
Curled ponytail
Hope I helped, I use the 3 day stuff and it really works, try getting black head stuff to it really scrubs your pores clean keeping you clean of acne.
Good luck!
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ok, i'll be blunt, i hate my legs. i don't know why, and i'm not sure when it started, somewhere around grade 4 and i am now in grade 10. i have a little extra above my knees and i am self consious because hair grows thicker on my legs. so here is my main question: can you shave your uper legs? is it better to wax? if so how much is it going to caust me? last but not least: how do i get over being self consiouse about my legs?
P.S. i'm a 15 year old female and i weigh 130. (link)
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You can shave up there, and wax...waxing hurts a lot! But it coasts about 20-40$ depeanding on where you go and how good of a job they do. But you can go to like any nail salloon. Anyways about being self concious I don't know exactly how to fix it but try focusing on what you love about yourself and were clothing that makes you feel good about your legs.
Good Look!
You don't weigh a lot so don't be worried about tht!
Hope I helped!
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ok i have over axcess ear wax and do you know of anything that i can use to dissolve it i need all the help i can get i already tried q-tips it only makes it worse please help (link)
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Try q-tipping like twice or three times a day. I think you can do like something with sodium cloride, but you might want to ask your parents or doctor first, because you would be putting something in you body and it could be really dangerous. But ask you doctor.
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Okay well I gained weight. I want to loose like 20 pounds. I feel horrible abut the way I look and how clothes fit on me. I love clothes but I hate the way they look on me. I've been eating better. Also, I'm starting to do 100 crunches a night, increasing by 50 each day. At this rate, how much weight will I loose in like 1-2 monthes? Any other simple workout techniques/tips? I'm really stressed and desperate!
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Ok well try jogging in place or outside works great either way 15 minutes straight(in place is much easier to me) and doing the crunches you will look so great but you have to do it everyday, I did and got results in a week. But once you stop and start eating junk and all it goes down the toliet. But you are on the right track already!
Good luck!
I know what you are going through.
If you jog 15 min. straight and do the sit ups you can eat what you want. But dont over do it!
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