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no one likes me=[
okay i know I'm only 13 and i have my hole life a head of me but i'v never had a boyfriend or a guy even ask me out=[ i have some guy friend but only a few of them are single and all of my close girlfriend have boyfriends and i and i don't want to call them hores but they've all gotten passed 2end base and i feel like no one gives a crap about me and no one will love me=[ i meen i think I'm pretty and allot of the guys i hang out with don't say I'm ugly and i mean none of my friend say i am but still I'm a nice person and well i have my flaws but I'm only human and i feel alone but i dont want to seem like a hore just to get a date but i don't know what to do or how to get a boy to like me as in more then a friend.
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People will love you. Don't worry, just give it time! Besides, most guys your age are still really nervous about all this (well... I'm two years older and they still are!) so just because they don't ask you out doesn't mean you aren't interested.
But all this is besides the point. You haven't actually mentioned anyone you are interested in, and, to be frank, getting boys interested in you to feel loved and beautiful is not a good way to look for relationships and not at all fair to the boy! You need to look inside yourself and find why you ARE beautiful, not just why someone else may or may not think this. You need to reach out, love yourself, do things you are interested in, enjoy your friends (don't they love you?) - boyfriends come randomly when you are least expecting it. Don't force it.
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I was exactly like you, so I know just what you're going through. The key is to be patient. I didn't get a boyfriend until the summer before my junior year of high school. And guess what? We're still together. I have no doubt that you are a nice, beautiful girl, but your problem right now is feeling like you have to have a boyfriend just because your friends do. My friends were just like your friends: they got a new boyfriend like every month and I was stuck with no one. Now, they're all jealous of me because I was patient and ended up meeting a wonderful guy and getting a great relationship that has lasted ten times longer than any of there's has.
My point is, you're young. Love will happen to you, you just have to wait. All you can do is focus on your schoolwork, hanging out with friends, and doing things you love. If you do those things, you're bound to meet someone sometime. Trust me. Just be patient and everything will fall into place. I truly hope you can find that special someone like I did and then your friends will realize they've been wrong all along.
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you really don't need to be worrying about this right now. just because your friends all have bf doesn't mean you need one. like you said you have your whole life ahead of you, your acting like this is the last time you will ever have a chance to get a bf. wait till you get to highschool boys will be all over you.
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im 13/f. its long but read the hole thing dont stop. i hear ya i was askin thoes same Qs too. i was depressed but i never cry at all. im the kind of person to get very violent and rough. but your lucky you have friends i didnt. think what you would do without them. i would stand alone. i had one best friend that could never even come over because hes a guy. and he did a lot of sports so wasnt always there for me. but at a party everyone was just so happy and makin out or with friends and i just broke down. i noticed how many people care about me soo much i had no idea. three people there had a crush on mee they were just unsure why i was alwazys alone and im freaky but peopl love me friendly and romanticly. flirt with a close guy friend that you like and might like you. at least one person on earth loves you. i found out the hard way. i was gettin soo depressed well i am still but its gettin better im startin to love life. live life to the fullest sounds cheesey i no. say whats on your mind. you have no idea how many ppl love you trust me i was the unwanted rebel. i would always think if i died who would notice and EVERYONE WILL i brought so many people together. be freakybe urself yell what your thinkin if you ever get deppressed scream how you feel. and for everyone w/ a bf or gf their just up to play anyone wait for your one true person. one thing to try is flirt with a guy for awhile then tell the loudmouth he will no and if hes up for it he will say yes if not alot of peopl will no your only human you deal with people who cant keep secrets its life your only real. do what you want say what you think. tell evryone your only human. have the time of your life now.
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Seriously don't worry about it. Life is better without a guy, you can do what you want when you want. You flirt with anyone, dance with any guy at a dance and then next song dance with someone else. Just think about all the negitives that come with boys...DRAMA.
Boys aren't everything...and when you long for a boyfriend somehow it turns them away...don't know how it just does<they r like dogs they sense it>.
But have fun...live life!
Good luck!
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