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is there any way to record a telephone onversation on a sidekick 3? anything i cand download or anything? thanx!
unfortunatly no. i have a sidekick 3 and i tried to figure it out and i couldn't. you could ask tmobile though.
okay i know I'm only 13 and i have my hole life a head of me but i'v never had a boyfriend or a guy even ask me out=[ i have some guy friend but only a few of them are single and all of my close girlfriend have boyfriends and i and i don't want to call them hores but they've all gotten passed 2end base and i feel like no one gives a crap about me and no one will love me=[ i meen i think I'm pretty and allot of the guys i hang out with don't say I'm ugly and i mean none of my friend say i am but still I'm a nice person and well i have my flaws but I'm only human and i feel alone but i dont want to seem like a hore just to get a date but i don't know what to do or how to get a boy to like me as in more then a friend.
you really don't need to be worrying about this right now. just because your friends all have bf doesn't mean you need one. like you said you have your whole life ahead of you, your acting like this is the last time you will ever have a chance to get a bf. wait till you get to highschool boys will be all over you.
I'm 17/F and a junior in highschool. Our teacher quit so we have a permenant substitute for now. Our Sub is a guy, and he told us he was 23 and right out of NYU. Pretty hot too. Anyways, ever since this guy started taking over our classes he's been kind of flirting with me. Don't tell me i'm imagining it because my friends notice too. He always comes to my desk to ask how I'm doing, putting his hand on my back. He asks me to stay after class a lot to compliment me on all my work. He asked me if I needed a tutor in any subject and that he'd be happy to do it, and one day my friend couldn't drive me home so he offered to take me. It's kind of starting to freak me out. He's good looking and all but he's 6 years older than me and my tacher. I told my parents and the school counselor and they think I'm crazy for even saying something like that. My friends are the only ones who believe me. What should I do? He's not stopping. Maybe I am crazy, but I'm pretty sure I'm not.
ok eww. he's being totally inappropriate. he is using his status as a teacher to make you like him. i'm sure your not the only one who he does this to. if your parents don't believe you keep telling them about it or bring your friends in and they can tell them too. your conselor is there to help you. i'm surprised that he or she is denying this. if this becomes a real issue then talk to an administrator(principal,vice principal) about it and they should take you seriously. good luck and don't get to close to him.
Hi! :D im hailey, and im 15. (freshman) and i like this boy in 10th grade, he likes me back and we are sapposed to go to the movies this weekend. I am realllly sickk with this really gross virus =/ and i've missed 3 days of school this week.. i rdont wanna cancel because i REALLY like him and i dont want him to get discouraged or go and find someone else.. is there a posableity (sp?) that he coudl move on and find someone else over the weekend while im sick? i know im rpbabaly over reacting but i'm jsut owndering. your honesty is REALLY appreciated, no offence will be taken from ANy answers1 thanks soooo much =))
i don't think he would go find someone else because your sick, if he did then he is NOT the boy for you. just reschedule and i'm sure he'll understand. its really no big deal.
I put out a bulletin on myspace saying, "i deserved that part."
so they all hate me, litterally. They are being commpletly unreasonable about it.
How should i react to them?!
ok i'm going to be honest. they might hate you because you were being kinda full of yourself when you posted that. put yourself in their shoes, if you came home and saw someone post that you might be mad too. you may have deserved it but it may have not been your place to be saying it. apologize and if they don't accept your appology then just play your role and do your best.
I love my boy friend tons and he told me that he has strong feelings for me i wanna kiss him but i'm afraid of what my parents and friends would say.
My friends would probably say i'm a slut but i am worried about my parents as it would be my first kiss
I really need help
ok so kissing your boyfriend is not even close to being slutty. also its your first kiss so how could you be a slut if this is the first guy you've kissed? it doesn't matter what your friends think. you two like eachother. go for it.
14/f
So there's this guy "tyler" who likes me. I mean REALLY likes me. Now tyler is not the best-looking guy in the world, but he's amazigly nice. He has asked me out a few times, but I've always said no. There are just some things I cannot stand about him, like that he is really into drugs, he's practiclly an alcoholic, and again he's not the best-looking guy in the world. Since we live really far away, we usually talk online, and we've become really good friends this way. When I see him in person, though, I keep thinking about his faults and I can never see myself with him, though I can when we talk online. Because of this, I've come to think that I'm being very shallow about this whole situation...but then I think would I really be happy with him and say I would not so therefore I am not being shallow. It's been bothering me for like forever, so please, what should I do about this whole thing, and am I shallow?
Thanks
no your not being shallow. if he's into something your not, especially drugs&alcohol, he's no good for you. the looks thing is a tad shallow but everyone does that. you could try&help him out by encouraging him to get off of the drugs and stop drinking.
The skin on my face is SO flakey and dry. Whenever I put my coverup on (liquid), it looks awful after about 2 hours. Loads of little flakes of skin literally come off whenever I touch my face. I apply a face lotion at night and even before I apply the coverup...but my face is always terribly dry. What can I do to cure this dry skin?
Lotion should help but the liquid coverup isn't helping either. Try using a new kind, like powder. Also see a dermatoligist or tell your mom.
Ok, I know what a pushup bra is so please do not tell me what a pushup bra is. (For ex: "it pushes your boobs so they dont sag" or wahtever)
I never wore one before, so I was just wondering exactly HOW it works?? (NOT what it is! lol)
haha. Ok well there's this little metal thing inside the bra at the bottom&some push ups come with this lever type thing that can make it very pushed up or not at all. Hope that helps:]
Hey. I'm 15 years old. I have never had a boyfriend, but guys have been interested in me...eh immaturity in guys sucks..but thats besides the point..totally diff. story ha. Basically, i'm scared to grow up & Be Alone. Not find somone out there for me. And turn into some cat lady. I know i'm young but i cannot picture myself being with anyone. Have you ever felt this one at one point or another? Help =[
GIRL. This is not something you should be worrying about right now. I am in the same boat and I could care less. I'm just looking for a good time and if a boy comes into the picture than good if not then good. This is what you should do too. Boyfriends aren't everything:] & eventually you'll find some guy that's going to tottally sweep you off your feet.
Okay so I like a boy I hardly know. Problem? Not sure. But I haven't had an actual conversation with him for literally months. It's just been "hey" in the halls since then. He's a grade above me, his name is Dave. Well my guy friend knows him from a sports team and one time he was on the phone. According to my guy friend, Dave said, "Who is that, (my name)? She's pretty hot eh?" And then recently another guy friend of mine has been trying to help me out. He thinks Dave is a really awesome guy and he knew him once, which is comforting since I seem to always go for the wrong dude. But anyway, my friend talked to him about a week ago randomly and asked if he knew me, because he saw us say hi in the hallway a lot. Dave said yes, then my friend asked what Dave thought of me. Dave's response was something like "What do you mean?" So my friend asked him if Dave thought I looked good, and the response was yes (and my friend adds that it was in a "duh!" tone of voice, haha). And apparently Dave had a little smile going on there. My friend thinks he got the hint, and since they had that conversation, instead of just "hey" in the hall it's something different. He'll just give me a funny look to make me laugh or like stick his tongue out at me. I have another guy friend who is good friends with Dave and he knows I like Dave. He's been trying to get us to all hang out but things keep coming up. I think I want to wait a little longer to see if that will happen since I don't have to do too much in that case.
Anyway, what I'm asking is, I guess he likes my looks if nothing else, but like I said, I haven't talked to him in a longgg time. He was so cool the last time I talked to him, but I miss it, it's been so long. He's very easy to talk to, which is unusual for me because I'm a pretty bad conversationalist. But I only see him for like a few seconds a day when we pass each other in the hall. What can I say or do to maybe have a quick conversation on the off chance I see him for more than 3 seconds? And another thing I'm scared of is that if he is interested, I'm afraid I won't be much of a challenge, which in my experience guys like. Haha, I've liked him for so long that playing hard to get sounds painful for me. But any input here would help. Thanks!
i think you should bring a friend with you when you go to talk to him, she/he will save you if the convo starts to fade. think of somethings that you could both talk about or even better ask the guy you know that was on his team. good luck girl! &remember if he likes you too then the convo should start flowing.
i have this weird feeling in my chest area. im not sure if its my chest or my boobs because ya know, theyre in the same area. it almost feels like someones either sitting on them or its heavier. i can feel something moving kind of. i dont know its really weird. it almost feels like its my boobs. i can feel something when i breathe in or out. what is this!?
this is kinda tough to answer, but i seriously think you should go see a docter or tell someone about it.
I am a freshman. And im popularISHH I am not the most gorgeous person but im cute. I am madly in love with this senior!!!! I like have an insane crush on him. I dont know what to do. He is popular and intimidating. Hes single and no girls {besides me} like him. Its so random to go up and talk and i way to scard to do that! What do i do?
ok this is pretty much the exact same thing that happend to me except for that i knew the guy a VERY long time ago. it was easier for me to talk to him because i just said do you remember me and the conversation just started flowing, and thats what you need to do. i would just go up to him and say hey and start a conversation, but go up to him with something to say in your head, its akward at first but then its like theres no age difference. one more thing;; dont bring one of your friends with you unless you really want to, guys think its kinda weird when you always have to have a tag-along.
goodluck--:]
hi, im fifteen and a girl. i like this boy, a lot. and he has a girlfriend, i hate her. anyways, it always seems like he is flirting with me because he will be like "you're beautiful" and we always laydown together and watch tv, and like stuff like that, and whenever we say hi or bye, or just want to, he hugs me, and like its not like a friendly hug because ive gotten plenty of those, its different. im so confused, because before he went out with this girl, he used to kiss me and stuff, and like, idk, i really like him, and he knows it, help me.
i can tottally relate to this. i think that if he was kissing you and giving those hugs [&i know those hugs your talking about] he probably does like you. does he act the same way with his girlfriend[like the "your beautiful",kissing,etc]? if not she may just be there to get you jealous. think about it, he's going out with this girl that you hate&yet he treats you like your his girlfriend.
hope that helped.
goodluck:]
Hi im 14 male,i was wondering,how old would most parents say you should be before your girlfriend could sleep over,like in the same room/same bed.I know some parents are strict, but what would most parents say is old enough?
Thanks,
Please Anwser
if you mean like having sex then most parents will NOT let you what so ever until your married.
i don't know why else you would want her to sleep over and i don't think her parents would be comfortable with it.
i was just wondering, what would be a good way to ask a guy out??
a guy that i kinda consider a friend, ya know??
any ideas??
anything will help!!
thx
i don't want to discourage you but i did ask a guy out and i was rejected. i think it freaked him out that i was willing to ask him myself, guys like having the pride of asking girls to be their girlfriend.
now if your talking about a date you could be like "what are you doing this friday" or "do you want to hang out or something this weekend"
its great you have the ambition to ask him yourself.
so I was walking with my guy friend and he had his arms around my hips and he said "you have a tight hip."
what does that mean? is that good or bad? was he saying it literally or like "that's tight" kind of tight? haha thanks
haha. well he could actually mean that its tight or tight like cool or awsome. you could just ask him or one of his friends.
about this guy. i dont know if i like him or not.. or if he likes me or not. i mean.. at first i liked him because i thought he was cute, but then i thought that was a dumb reason alone to like someone. and now.. i still kinda feel iffy about him, since i can be shy around guys i like.. im not shy, but... i dunno, its kinda awkward. and i may still like him.. i mean his personality is okay, and we're nice to each other i guess, but hes not that smart.. maybe thats a bad reason not to like someone.. maybe i should just try to be his friend, but i wanna do it then in like.. a cool way, not in away that would make it seem that i have a crush on him though i might. and some days he pays attention to me.. like today he came over to my table when i was talking to some other guy about a picture i drew for art, and he was talking about it too (it was like a collage of my name and they were trying to figure out what letters where which. it was pretty funny) and some other time my friend told me that shes never seen me with my hair up alot, and he just quickly turned around and saw then turned back. oooooookay............ and some other things too.. like once he stood up for me after this retard kid was making fun of my instrument, and etc. urggg guys are confusing!
first of all guys are confusing, its just the way life is. its hard to tell if he likes you(like girlfriendboyfriend like). i think you should just see what happens and don't try to hard. but there is one thing you should NOT do; don't ask one of your friends if he likes you, it will most likley scare him away. also don't worry about him being dumb, unless its a serious turn off for you.
i live a generally good, happy life. i have a supportive family, good friends, amazing boyfriend, good grades, etc. but whenever i get upset or mad over stupid little stuff [mostly when i argue with my mom or boyfriend], lately ive been thinking about cutting myself. i am NOT suicidal i never ever have been not EVEN close i can not even begin to imagine cutting to try to kill myself i have my future planned out and want to live a full happy life, so id never cut my wrist or anything. if anything id more than likely cut like the top of my forearm or my thigh, jus so i could feel it but not have any serious risks. i dont what the heck brought this on because its only lately ive been thinking about it. im not one of these who looks happy on the outside but on the inside has problems and is depressed i am honestly a happy person but its just when little things get me down i have that crazy thought. should i be worried? id be scared to death to try to cut my wrists honestly id never ever do it so even if i did start i wouldnt get to that point. but i just dont get why im thinking like this?? please dont say therapy.
DON'T DO IT!
i have had 2 friends start and they do it everyday and itslike there addicted. its gross and it never turns out good. PLEASE;just don't. distract yourself, call a friend, clean your room or whatever.
14/m
Ok so me and my gf were having sex and i thought that i could hold off from cumming but it was so good that we couldnt stop and i gizzed in her, and i wasnt wearing a condom. Could she be pregnant?
Yes, she could be pregnant&you should confront her if you really think that she could be. she might be a afraid of telling you.