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Hey. I'm 15 years old. I have never had a boyfriend, but guys have been interested in me...eh immaturity in guys sucks..but thats besides the point..totally diff. story ha. Basically, i'm scared to grow up & Be Alone. Not find somone out there for me. And turn into some cat lady. I know i'm young but i cannot picture myself being with anyone. Have you ever felt this one at one point or another? Help =[
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**dont worry its ok plenty of girls feel like that even ive felt like that before and dont ur not goin to be a old cat lady..talk to the guys that are intrested and see if you have anythink in common with any of them.
*keep it zen!
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Ik exactly how you feel... i never actually had a bf either.. and guys have also been interested in me... but i never went out with any of them. and NO your prob. not going to turn into a cat lady cuz you have a lot of time left to find someone special. the right time will come, so you dont have to worry...lol..ik this all sounds so cheezy.. i.m embarrassed just writing this, but ik that i.ll happen, it always does.. so i wish you the best of luck.. and thats all i can say to help you.
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I'm really starting to think it's natural for most people to feel this way. In the grand scheme of things (try to imagine this yourself), fifteen is really young. You have so much time, but you don't see that right now. Trust me.
There's nothing to worry about being alone. I've always felt that way: that love was for everyone except me. But I stopped worrying about that, I stopped caring what might happen, and that made all the difference.
If you keep those thoughts in the back of your head all the time, then it might stop you from making friendships which could have developed into relationships. Oh, and about immature guys...if you take anything from my answer... don't go for older guys just because you think they will be more mature. That is not always true, and in most cases they end up being more immature by taking advantage of you or making you believe things that aren't true.
Be patient - good things come to those who wait. There is plenty of time for you to consider relationships. Hypothetically, if you were to get married at 25, which is still relatively young or average for most, that still gives you ten whole years to find somebody and learn how to love. It's a lot more time than you think. So try not to feel that way, you're definitely not the only one who does feel that way. Make the right choices when it comes to friends, and things will happen on their own from there. Hope that helped and good luck.
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You're not alone. But like you said, you're still way young. You have plenty of time ahead of you to worry about finding the right guy. & at your age, none of them are really that great anyway, so you're not missing out on too much! Give it some time & you'll have a boyfriend before you know it. You'll learn to realize that just because you have a boyfriend, doesn't automatically make you happy. You should never depend on a relationship or guy to fulfill part of you or make you happy. Learn to enjoy life, do the things you love & be happy on your own until that moment comes. :)
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Yeah i know how you feel. The best way is to try and find someone you really are interested in, so you can feel comfortable with them. Try forgetting about it, life's too short, live your life to the fullest. =]
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Yep. Sure have. Actually, I used to always tell my parents I never plan to marry and have children. Kinda funny considering I'm now married with one on the way.
You are 15, there is so much life ahead of you yet.
So you don't have a boyfriend now, big deal. Honestly? All through highschool you will be lucky to find a guy worth spending the rest of your life with. High school sweethearts who become happily married couples are few and far between.
That doesn't mean don't get a boyfriend in highschool, it just means don't base a lonely future on having a highschool boyfriend.
You will doubtfully end up a bitter, barren, spinster. You will find a guy out there who happens to be just right for you. Have patience.
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GIRL. This is not something you should be worrying about right now. I am in the same boat and I could care less. I'm just looking for a good time and if a boy comes into the picture than good if not then good. This is what you should do too. Boyfriends aren't everything:] & eventually you'll find some guy that's going to tottally sweep you off your feet.
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