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for about a week now, i haven't been able to eat as much as i normally do. i usually have a normal portion of breakfast lunch and dinner but in the past week i havent been able to eat anything but a couple bites and i feel like im going to be sick. is there something wrong with me? i've tried eating more but then i just feel really sick all day long. i've been pretty stressed out the past few days but this eating thing started a couple days before that. im getting nervous because i feel light headed and ive already lost a couple pounds. im 5' 2'' and about 100 lbs if that helps w/ anything (link)
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you shouldnt worry
itll pass
youre probably just stressed
out
ive had the same problem
and im 5'6" 1/2
and im 105lbs...
just try to not pay attention to it ...
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*Nancy .Dot .Com* ™
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost a year now his name is jared. Hes great our personalities go really good together and im 100% comfterable around him the one thing is im so bored with our relationship but i dont wanna end it cause i love him and i dont think i can act more myself around anyone else. i have this good friend Luke who ive been friends with for a while he has the best personality ever and hes tons of fun i kinda have a crush weve alwayse been kinda close the thing is that hes not as good looking as jared and hes big like a teddy bear lol. i think that if i dumped jared id regret it but if i stay i might be wasting time? idk what to do should i stay even though im bored or should i try new things?
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talk to him tell him things like
*how come we dont do ....anymore
[hopefully hell get the hint]
work it out
if it doesnt
wait till you ask Luke out
dont just jump into another relationship...
*****
i hope i helped
keep it zen!
Nancy .Dot .Com™
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15/f
i want a double pierce in my ears.. a cartilege pierce.. and a belly button pierce but my parents wont let me. i have one pierce in both ears and the double pierce is a possibility. they like think the other things look trashy or something. how old do u have to be to get them done w/o parent approval? (link)
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um the cartilage one u have to be 16 ...
um but places might do em now
just take some one older they
don task about all the hoopla
the belly button thing i think you should wait till your 18
cause thats more probable to get infected ...
and you really want to go to a good clean shop to do that ...
****
keep it zen!
[Nancy.Dot.Com]
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Ok well my mom found out about me and my boyfriend because of his mom and now my mom is upset not only is she upset because I have a boyfriend but because she had to find out from someone else who wasn't me and I did something bad I denied it and now she's even more upset because not only did I keep this from her but I lied about also and well lately a lot has been happening in my family between my mom and dad they've been arguing and fighting a lot and my dad brought me into it and my mom got so heated that she blurted out "I know what your keeping from me and we have a lot to talk about" and she's serious so lately she's been really diffrent towards me she no longer looks at me as who I use to be and tomarrow me and her will be home alone and I know she's going to come into my room and make me spill the beans about me and my boyfriend and I'm afraid if I tell her she's obviously going to tell my dad and then it'll get really bad (my parents are beyond strictd) he'd be capable of murdering me (sacarsticly speaking) please I don't know what to do .. (link)
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i agree
with roxxi1999
you should just tell her the truth and hope that she will understand
and later fogive you for it ...
****
keep it zen!
[Nancy.Dot.Com]
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hi.. does anyone know of ways to please my boyfriend? i want to blow his mind tonight. (link)
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read alot of cosmo
they have the weirdest things ever
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i had been dating this boy over the summer and i really really fucking liked him. and one night i got really fucking drunk and had sex with one of his best friends in the bathroom at walmart. slutty, i know. but i was trashed. i didn't know what the fuck i was doing. so he found out and dumped me, ofcourse. and seriously, i've never regretted something so much.
so he dumped me about a month ago. and i'd almost kind of gotten over the fact that nothing was ever going to happen between us again. and then he invites me over to his house saturday night out of no where and tells me he's giving me a second chance. and then last night when i talked to him, the whole time he just made me feel like shit. he said he'd only ever date me again if things went MORE than perfectly when i see him saturday. he said he doesn't think i'll do anything right. and as for me, i really like him, and i want to atleast try to get this going again because i know that we could have something amazing. but the thing is, i'm realllyyyy fucking grounded right now, and the only way i'd be able to go see him is if i snuck out after my parents went to sleep. but they know i do this so they constantly check on me, i think. but i REALLY need to go see him. so, do you think it's worth getting caught for?
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i dont think that its worth risking it
*he wants you to try to impress him somehow
if he really wanted you back
he wouldnt make you feel like s***
*hed realize that you made a mistake and forgive you for it ...
i think he just wants to get back at you for what you did once you guys are back together
hes just going to use you ...
your risking your parents trust for some guy that wants you to be something your not
"perfect"
you should just tell him that if he really wants you back he should wait till tour off punishment
*****
keep it zen
Nancy.Dot.Com!
[i hope i helped]
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i'm moving to a new house and want an awesom new room. I'm a prep, but i don't want it to be too preppy..kinda sophisticated tho...any ideas? (link)
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stick to fall / winter colors
browns reds yellows oranges / blues grays greens
theyre always good ...
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weve been bestfriends 7 years but now i think were growing apart. im 14 shes 13. im very perky and peppy. she is very dark hearted. i wear pinks and brights she wears the blacks and darks. we have always been real different like this but now i gues its going to extremes. prep and goth totally different music she listens to screaming and rock stuff i listen to pop. even when we go to the mall i want hollistar she wants hottopic. when we go to dances its just creepy the people she can meet and how she dances. i dont wana lose her shes all i really got. i make it seem like i have alot of friends but its really only her. she has alot of gothic friends that were there for her when she was suicideal. she just scared me so i was kinda away i regret it now. now i realize that i left her when she was dieing literally how meaner can i get to her. leaveing your bestfriend to die. we talk over aim and very little at school but thats pretty much all. i dont like her friends i hate them so much their freaks and just try to kill theirselvs for fun? i told her that it made her scream and go to them. she doesnt cry not even through all the deaths shes been through. i can tell in her eyes shes dieing inside. shes always in trouble always pissed at something. shes very mad im scared of her she talks about death and killing and she can kill someone instantly shes just scarey. shes always with her other friends she said there the only ones in my life to understand me truely. they have kept her alive this hole year. she will not let anyone help her not even her parents but how do i. there is alot of questions about friends on here so i was hopeing anything will help me. anything please shes all i need (link)
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hmm this is a hard one ...
i think that, those deaths you mentioned are probably triggering her behaviors
]when my brother died my behavior changed so much
to the point where i was also suisidal ]
her friends have nothing to do with yours and her friendship
[i have lost contact with a lot of my friends for the same reasond as both of you ]
so i cant really answer your question
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keep talking just keep talking to her no matter what
and if she scares you tell her
she wont change
but she will know that you are there and that you care for her
tell her what you think of her friends
shes your closest friend dont let that go
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work on your spelling please
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I am 13 and i can't stand my body, my legs are to short. I am the shortest one in my grade, only 5 foot and i don't no what to do, my family doesn't exactly have the money to give me a shot that will help my growth and they say that i am normal height but i had my period over 2 years ago and i'm not supposed to grow anymore. Is there anything i can do that will make me a normal height? (link)
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bad self esteem is the worst thing to have when youre lacking atributes
theres no shot
you will grow
own it
embrace it
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has anyone ever heard of that tea that makes u loose weight, well if so were can i get it, thanx (link)
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green tea
not sure if it works though
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does the fat in a food make you fat? or do the calories or carbs? sorry this is a stupid question, but i'm confused lol. (link)
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not burning it all off
makes you fat
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ok so im 100 lbs and in the 8th grade, and i want to be smaller. i used to be the thinnest of all... then i gained. i want to be the SMALLEST of everyone i know, and i know i can do it b/c i have before. i really want to become anorexic, PLEASE, ive heard all about how it screws you up and stuff, but i want ways to BECOME anorexic, not people telling me the dangers i already know all that. if youve been anorexic before, please tell me how you did it, b/c i want to be! i havent eaten all day and when i do, i just throw it up. i dont seem to be seeing much of a difference, so please tell me how to be anorexic. (link)
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okay you came to he *wrong* site no one here is going to *tell you how to be anorexic *
its *retarded* just to think of that
i was *95lbs in the 8th grade *
but i was in karate and i would stuff my face every chance i could
*its not a matter of not eating *
plus dont treat anorexia like its *insignificant*
millions of people *including myself* are suffering
from this 'stupid' disease
and you *willingly* want to have it
thats *dumb*
youre going to end up *hurting yourself*
and *i dont care* if this wasnt what you wanted to hear ...
*your in the 8th grade you know nothing *
you WILL end up *ugly* , *fatter*, or* dead *
GO *EAT* !!!
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hello-
I'm 15/f and this is kinda a weird question.
but most people i know are baiscally a "type" like more prep, emo, athletic, gurliy..ya know? and well i'm everything i listen to emo/rock/rap/alternative. i'm most def. not a girly girl but some days i'm a total girly girl. it just depends on my mood that day. and i'm just everything and sometimes i worry people think i'm a poser or something cause i'm just so unique. i mean i'm friends with total preps, emo's, jocks and etc. but i'm starting to think that maybe being so diverse is a bad thing. cause sometimes i have my emo days and others my jock and prep. and i'm starting to think being so many differnent things is making people think i wanna be something i'm not and maybe thats why i've never had a bf. cause woudln't a guy want a girl who she knows who she is? cause i don't know what i am cause i'm everything. and i don't know if i should stay like this or try and lean towards one direction...should i try and stick with my emo/rock side or my athletic side or maybe the guy of my dreams wnats me to be the girly girl. i just have no clue what to do and i just need some help. i'm so lost in life right now.
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WOW
first you shouldnt label yourself thats the firstt sstep in turning you personality one-dimensional.
+your not the only one going through this+
you dont have to hang around with like a certain type of people to "fit in"
thats whats wrong people today they think they should be a cerain way...
its annoying and id do everything in my power to make that stop...
i KNOW that when youre just yourself others will feel that youre *real* and gravitate towards you...
=if you do decide to be completely brainwash yourself and strip your personality into a tiny sliver of nothing ...
dont lose yourself and your entity and who you really are ...
*your personality is complex +and as you said unique*
You have many dimensions to yourself and guy find that to be very attractive...they find out a new side of you every day ...it tends to be exciting...
KEEP IT ZEN *
MUAh i hope helped
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how does it feel to lose something that you never had?
leah (link)
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my brilliant answer!
horrible!
kidding
if uve never had anything how could you lose it
*how do you know love is lost if you never knew you had the power to posses love?
ask yourself ...
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Hey. I'm 15 years old. I have never had a boyfriend, but guys have been interested in me...eh immaturity in guys sucks..but thats besides the point..totally diff. story ha. Basically, i'm scared to grow up & Be Alone. Not find somone out there for me. And turn into some cat lady. I know i'm young but i cannot picture myself being with anyone. Have you ever felt this one at one point or another? Help =[ (link)
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**dont worry its ok plenty of girls feel like that even ive felt like that before and dont ur not goin to be a old cat lady..talk to the guys that are intrested and see if you have anythink in common with any of them.
*keep it zen!
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okay for valentines day if u have a boyfriend is he your valentine no matter what? or does he have to ask you?
and if he has to ask you to be ur valentine, is it stupid to ask him?
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**its all depends on the type of relationship ya have together if ya can tell each other any thing then theres no problem but if ya have that relationship were he call you stupid and it makes u feel bad then better jus to get him something and not ask...
*zen4evr
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How do you flirt with someone?
I used to be a very big flirt and easy going with the guys
I've had a boyfriend for a while, but we broke up like 2 weeks ago.
There is this other boy in my Spanish class that I have my eye on, he seems really nice and cute.
I don't remember how to flirt, as stupid as that sounds, it's true.
Can anyone give me advice on how I go about talking to him?
I tried today, but I kind of choked on my words. (link)
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dont worry about it if hes intrested he'll think its cute...just start of slow u kno the basics laugh at his jokes..smile alot...then ull get the hand of it and u if ya are met to be it will work out
keep it zen
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I just recently realized I like my friend, Chris.
Tomorrow we have school & I want him to know that I like him.
What sort of things can I do to let him know?
What flirty actions or things can I say to him?
Thanks in advance!
ps. I NEED TO KNOW ASAP
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How weird is that
i used to like a guy named chris
*but this is about you
******so anyways
just tell him but if your to shy just
drop small hints
you lnow be flirty
start small talk
ask him what he likes if you like the same stuff
agree youll find something in common and
youll have something to talk about have a meaningful conversation
if not iy wil just be awkard
kay hope i helped
luvzit Laters gorgeous !
*muah
zen4evr*
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15 FEMALE i want to figure out why these
pathetic parasytical abortionsurviving copycats cant find anything better to do that judge a person by what they wear or do or act
now you like cant be yourself w/out being forced into someones box
its irritating to feel like listening to the music you want wearing the clothes you want
and acting the way you want
unless someones tearing you down by ither calling you a poser or some one refusing to speak look or respect you !
it just gets on my nerves having to be steroetyped by people
*im obiously a rocker but not cause i intentionaly
chose to be
i love the music for a reason *a reason to long to explain !
i love the clothse because i enjoy expressing my feelings
I hate when people ask me if im a headbanger-or emo -or a punk -or goth -what music i like
in my head i always tell myself
if i tell you i like eminem britney spears and tupac christina agulera and black sabbath will you believe me
then stop asking Effing turd !
well my question is why are people so concerned on your apperance and musical likings ???//?//??/
i also hate it when people jump to conclusions
*like if yiure goth you must be a blood drinking satanic vampire !
*or if ur emo -you cutt your yourself and your always depressed
if your a headbanger you play guitar and go to shows and your in a band
i espessialy hate the people that fall for the stereotyoes and are part of them 1
uggh im mad pleaze try to explain !!!!
*i espassially hate (link)
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people judge you because they have nothing better to do !
and because there scared that you might be right
i totally like feel the same way
but like u said theyre all pathetic parasytical abortion surviving copycats
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HI
Im 13 years old and have never had a bf. All my friends have and they have all had their first kiss i still havent . Im worried ill never get a boyfriend when i talked 2 my mate she said to try flirting more but i dont know how
please help
xx (link)
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chick theres nothin wrong w/you
youll find a guy that likes you for who you are
not for bein flirtatious
or whatevr
but yeah if you want a guy that doesnt dig you
i suggest you flirt around !
or like jeez you have all your life to fall in love
roght now just like have fun
you dont need a guy to make you happy !
but whatever floats your boat !
*keep it zen
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