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i cheated.
i had been dating this boy over the summer and i really really fucking liked him. and one night i got really fucking drunk and had sex with one of his best friends in the bathroom at walmart. slutty, i know. but i was trashed. i didn't know what the fuck i was doing. so he found out and dumped me, ofcourse. and seriously, i've never regretted something so much.
so he dumped me about a month ago. and i'd almost kind of gotten over the fact that nothing was ever going to happen between us again. and then he invites me over to his house saturday night out of no where and tells me he's giving me a second chance. and then last night when i talked to him, the whole time he just made me feel like shit. he said he'd only ever date me again if things went MORE than perfectly when i see him saturday. he said he doesn't think i'll do anything right. and as for me, i really like him, and i want to atleast try to get this going again because i know that we could have something amazing. but the thing is, i'm realllyyyy fucking grounded right now, and the only way i'd be able to go see him is if i snuck out after my parents went to sleep. but they know i do this so they constantly check on me, i think. but i REALLY need to go see him. so, do you think it's worth getting caught for?
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i dont think that its worth risking it
*he wants you to try to impress him somehow
if he really wanted you back
he wouldnt make you feel like s***
*hed realize that you made a mistake and forgive you for it ...
i think he just wants to get back at you for what you did once you guys are back together
hes just going to use you ...
your risking your parents trust for some guy that wants you to be something your not
"perfect"
you should just tell him that if he really wants you back he should wait till tour off punishment
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Quick answer to that is no. It is not worth risking yourself, your health or your self-worth. Especially it is not worth risking the trust you have with your parents, even if they do keep checking up on you. Your priority is number one and if he makes you feel that bad, he is not worth the effort.
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No.
Look, you screwed up. Absolutely and horribly. However, you screwing up does not mean this guy gets to demand perfection and certainly doesn't mean he gets to expect you to sneak out and get in trouble for him.
Why would you take such a risk for someone who made you feel like shit? For someone who either doesn't know, or doesn't care, what's going on in your life right now?
The relationship is too toxic when one person gets to make demands of another like that. If he has decided to take you back, then he should take you back with as clean a slate as possible. Not try and make you prove yourself. Making someone 'prove' themselves is always the kiss of death in a relationship. Just let this one go.
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Though the guys giving you a second chance and you say you really like him, why risk the chances of sneakin out too see him when he might just make you feel like shit all over again?
But then again there he's gotta have some love for ya to give you another chacne after that shit ya pulled. But i think if your really deticated to the guy and you think you really want something and this time around it'll work out, go for it. But if your tweaked about getting caught it must not be that much worth it?
hoped i helped a lil
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honestly... not really like i dont want to be mean but if he really wanted to give you a second chance he would understand you were drunk and yet that doesnt at all mean hes suposed to forgive you but he should say that he at least wants to forgive you and he just needs time than just treating you like shit you have to remember we all make mistakes and big ones too but if hes gonna make you feel like shit then hes not worth it i mean seriously think about it if at all any point in the relationship you guys fight he will bring it up just to make you feel bad and cry so dont do it and i think you need a better guy than that your not a slut ive heard worse and people who were sober and just dont do it tell him you cant go out on saturday and say your grounded and if he says your making all this bs up then just dont talk to him again but if he says ok well can you tell me when your not grounded and plan another day because i really want to give you a second chance then yea hes worth it ok
hope i helped sorry for the long answer
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