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Q: Theres this girl that i been friends with for a long time and i know she likes me and i kinda like her but she is not that popular but pretty
there is this other girl that i actually like alot but me and her arent friends but we give each other the accusional hi in the hallways and she is popular and really pretty shouldi wait and become friends with the popular one or just go out with my friend

Popularity means nothing.
I say you should lean more twoard the girl you know more. But if your not sure and your asking for advice, then your not ready. Take some time and patients is always good to have.
see how things fall out.
cuz if you dont know this other popular girl, who knows she might be completly not your type personallity wise.
Just make sure the relationships meaningful and not some 2 week deal. Make sure your decisions one thats worth it and the best for the long run.

Q: AHHH I am so sick and tired of being the sober cab for all of my friends. Over this summer I have driven them at least 10 differnt times, and I have not been repayed that favor. If they were my true friends they would take responsiblity and drive also. But they get so wrapped up in their own little world and not notice others. AH I am so mad. Basically I am asking advice on how you guys would handle this situation.

i say you warn em first that you need your share in on this. If they dont listen, as much as it would suck, dont go to the next party or when they get to drink. Then what sober driver will they have??

Q: I have a girlfriend, and someone else likes her. He said that hed beat me up for her. I told one of his friends, he can have her, now rumors are propbably flying around my school, and soon my girlfriend will find out. I really need advice please help!

Alright alright,
so,
first off im wonderin why you would even say you would give up your girl just cuz some guy would beat ya up over her. If i were you i'd take the beating for her, i mean if she's that important to me ya know? fight back do something to keep this girl if she means anything to you. Like that other guy said though, you better call her up and tell her whats goin on befor a rumor, if there even is one, spreads out so things dont get all mixed up. you know how people like to add on things to gossip that they hear about.

Q: i had been dating this boy over the summer and i really really fucking liked him. and one night i got really fucking drunk and had sex with one of his best friends in the bathroom at walmart. slutty, i know. but i was trashed. i didn't know what the fuck i was doing. so he found out and dumped me, ofcourse. and seriously, i've never regretted something so much.
so he dumped me about a month ago. and i'd almost kind of gotten over the fact that nothing was ever going to happen between us again. and then he invites me over to his house saturday night out of no where and tells me he's giving me a second chance. and then last night when i talked to him, the whole time he just made me feel like shit. he said he'd only ever date me again if things went MORE than perfectly when i see him saturday. he said he doesn't think i'll do anything right. and as for me, i really like him, and i want to atleast try to get this going again because i know that we could have something amazing. but the thing is, i'm realllyyyy fucking grounded right now, and the only way i'd be able to go see him is if i snuck out after my parents went to sleep. but they know i do this so they constantly check on me, i think. but i REALLY need to go see him. so, do you think it's worth getting caught for?

Though the guys giving you a second chance and you say you really like him, why risk the chances of sneakin out too see him when he might just make you feel like shit all over again?
But then again there he's gotta have some love for ya to give you another chacne after that shit ya pulled. But i think if your really deticated to the guy and you think you really want something and this time around it'll work out, go for it. But if your tweaked about getting caught it must not be that much worth it?

hoped i helped a lil

Q: 16 f
ok well i have a boyfriend who i LOVE so much. i cant live without him and without seeing him. but theres a problem my parents dont let me have boyfriends and they hate it when i talk to them about these kinds of things they say i should focus on school and i do but i love my boyfriend and he loves me. whenever he askes me to hang out i cant. mainlybecuase of my parents. they dont know i have a boyfriend if they did they would tell me to break up with him and i love him too much to do that. we mostly go to the movies but its getting boring. where else can we go? im scared of going to the park or the mall beucase im scared i might see a family member one day and they might tell me parents. please help what should i do thanks so much!!

Hey,
your my first person on this site to give advice to but i figured your topic was good to reply to.
Welll,
i know were your comming from with the whole parents not letting you date.
my girlfriend moved from washington were i am down to houston, and her mom wouldnt want us together. Both when she was here and when she went down there. But we still love each other through a long distance relationship. But thats the basics of my ish, what i'm gettin at is if you really really love this guy and he loves you like you say you do. Then how much can your parents do? break you up? no no no, they cant break up love it's impossiable. Yea it'll involve fighting with your parents and arguing but it's worth it right? to have that person that understands you and appretiates you the most? I say if you love this guy alot and what you got is genuine, then your gonna have to talk to your parents no matter how hard it is and no matter how much they hate it. your their kid. they need to listen. they should care enough to do that right and be happy for you?

sorry for it bein a bit long...
hope i helped in anyway?

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Well, my name's Keone and I'm 16 living in Washington. Only hobbies I got are Martial arts, hangin' out with the friends, and giving advice to other people outside of this site. Lookin around here i see theres mostly girls giving advice or asking questions. But don't assume just because I'm a guy I can't give good advice or think i keep to the cliche of "the way guys just are". No, I'm more mature about situations and try to do me best when it comes to helping people. I got that thing were i feel like I need to care about people and their problems and try to help them through it to make these people stronger. I'm more of the indepth kind of person to give advice. Then again i can be layed back and chill. Depends on the situation and how you feel about it. I'll never put people in ackward positions or make them feel uncomfortable. I'm always trying to help people with figuring out things for themselfs, with a lil help. If you figure these things out on your own, you get stronger from it and learn more. What I lean more to in giving advice would probably be Love and Relationships, Depression, and just Life in general. I've had my share of girlfriends and a lover so Im hoping I can spread some of what i know to whoever's willing to learn or ask.
But hey, just reading all this, isn't going to help me explain who I am or how I can help.
Plus why should I be goin on about me, when it's suppose to be about me helpin you.
Soooo, ask me questions that are be anything and I'll do my best like I do for everyone.