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Oksy, so I am not in need of a lecture on how I nned to be protected from oregnancy and STD's. I have take the proper precautions; I have been taking BC pills for almost 3 months now and I have condoms on hand. I am planning on doing with someone I trust and care for very much. No need to worry too much, I know the consequences and what-not.

My question is more of what would be the least painful way to lose virgnity. I have never been fingered but am willing to if it helps. Also, I am a rather tiny person so I don't know if that makes a difference. Is the top or bottom better for pain? If it hurts can we stop or is it one of those things that's going to hurt as much on the way out as it did on the way in? Does masterbation make it easier for later? (random detail: i know i get wet rather easily, as in turned on, would this benefit me or make it woerd?)

I am 18/f and he is 22/m if this makes a difference. In Canada that's legal right? As in, the legal consent age is 18 right, not 19?

I think the easiest way is to get fingered first. Starting with one finger and moving on to two then three. and it should be less painful when you actually have sex. Although some people's first time hurts, and others don't. it depends on you

Its also better if your on top so you know when to stop or if it hurts too much.
and you can stop whenever you want, but in my opinion I think you should just keep going because you have to go through it eventually.

hope i helped.
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how do you kiss with braces,

like i herd if you have them you can cut peoples lips and stuff like that, but how do you prevent that


and does haveing braces effect making out?
if so what can i do to avoid it

you just, kiss.
it doesn't affect you at all.

kissing doesn't have to do anything with teeth.

:D

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almost 15/f

I go to a boarding school, I just got here like 2 days ago...

and the thing is- i'm already feeling homesick. Everyone here already knows eachother and I'm practically the only freshman!

I'm not preppy or shallow or anything but EVERYONE ELSE IS!!!! that's what makes me so uncomfortable with the people here.

any advice about how to not feel homesick is appreciated.


all the guys here are gay, but the ones who aren't gay are taken.

:(

awww, i'm so sorry.
=/

but one thing I suggest is don't change who you are to fit in.
you'll eventually find someone and become friends.
Just talk to someone, i'm not really sure how it works though, cuz i've never been to boarding school.

Don't worry about guys either, they should be the least of your priorities.

I'm sure there has to be some new people there.

hope you feel better.

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this is weird-
but do boys get orgasims?
cuz i knoww like for a girl you like
shake a little and like it feels amazing
but like guys do that too rite? and if they
do, how and when do they get them?
thanks

yeah, they do.

its usually when they cum.

how and when?
how, when there getting pleasure, it just happens.
and when, it depends on the guy usually.

but I think thats how it is.

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ok....so I am 15/f.

Homecomming is comming up in like 3 weeks... and I really like this kid...and I want to go with him... and there is a football game tonight...and he will be there...any tips on flirting...and should I ask him to homecomming??

Advice please!!!

This happened to me last year.
lol.

I say, flirt a little.
like teasing, not slutty teasing, but just a little teasing.

&& if you think he likes you, then go for it, ask him.
&& if he doesn't like you, then just go as friends.

but I think you should ask him, i made the mistake of not asking him.

hope you have fun.
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im 13/f nd im a virgin i wanna have sex but i wanna noe if it hurts TNX!

it depends on if your ready or not.
&& if you don't know, then I don't think your ready.

but thats just me.
just make sure you and whoever you'll be with it ready, then you should be fine.

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Yesterday I tried out for a musical and for the first time in an audition I had to sing. Well I was nervous because before people have told me I sing bad. But this time I sang "fabulous" from hsm 2 (I know it's a bad song, but it's the only one I could remember!) and the my friends told me I was amazing and one told me I sounded like ashley tisdale. I think maybe this was because I was onstage and I could be as loud as I want, because usually when I sang I was afraid others would hear me so I sang soft and high. Well this weird thing happens to me when I get onstage, like I don't care what anyone thinks. But one thing I really really want to do is to vibratto in my voice. You know how your voice vibrates at the end of a note. I'm so jelous of girls who it comes naturally for! This little girl can do it so good. Is theere any way I can learn?

To do vibratto, you basically put more pressure when you sing.

Like say your singing a note.
Then when you want to do vibratto, you like push more air out so it vibrates.

I know how to do the vibratto, i just don't know how to explain it.
lol.

hope i helped.
&& good luck.
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My gf says im not daring enough like she wants me to grab her but and finger her but I want to treat her with respect and iono most ppl would think i'm weir for not doing it but iono

Honestly, people who think your wierd, are the wierd ones.

There should be more guys like you out there.

But don't do anything if your not ready, I'm pretty sure shes ready, since shes asking.

But if thats all she wants from you, then shes not worth your time.

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so all of the boys at my school are so preverted. is that normal for boys or are they just like taht around me?

Honestly, not all guys are like that.
Yes, I know there is a lot of perverted guys out there, but there are some that are worth your time.

Usually there perverted to show off to there friends, but some consider it flirting.

hope I helped.
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