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does it hurt?
im 13/f nd im a virgin i wanna have sex but i wanna noe if it hurts TNX!
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i totally agree with everyone who says you shud wait before you hav sex. im 18 and didnt lose my virginity until a few months ago. there is NOTHING wrong with being a virgin 4 as long as you need/wanna b. first time sex hurts a bit because your hymen (cherry) will probably still be whole so it will tear when the guy enters you, but its nt agony. i hope you enjoy sex when YOU are ready and mature enough.
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YOU'RE THIRTEEN YEARS OLD WHY THE HELL DO YOU WANT TO HAVE SEX? I just lost my virginity and im 16, so wait. And yes the first time ALWAYS hurts, usually until your cherry (or hymen) is popped but everyone is different. It hurt for me because my cherry popped but after it had, i was fine and it wasn't painful anymore. Wait till you find someone you love, don't just want to have sex to have sex. I love my boyfriend and he was worth going through all that pain for. Don't go doing it with random guys because if something happened like say you got pregnant, he probably wouldn't be there for you, you never know.
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Why would you want to have sex at 13?
My advice: DON'T do IT!
You're 13, THIRTEEN! You know how much potential and how long of a life you have left ahead of you? What if you have sex and you get pregnant? Bye bye any future plans. How about if you get an STD? And it gets really serious? Bye bye possibly any future at all. What if whomever you had sex with just blows you off, even if you didn't get pregnant/contract an STD? What if he blows you off and you're going to have his child? Think of all the situations you could get yourself into, and think to yourself, is it really worth it?
I personally don't even think you should be having sex, unless it's with someone you really love and are going to know forever.
I'm not saying this to scare you, I'm saying this to try and help you. I'm trying to help stop you from making the biggest decision of your life.
Make Smart Choices! =]
-Laura. (15-f)
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It's different for everyone.
If you are tight and rushing into sex, then yes it will hurt.
if you loosen yourself up by letting the guy finger you [like not right before sex, but for a few weeks or so] and works his way up to 2 or 3 fingers. sex won't be so uncomfortable for you.
also you have to be ready.. and be comfortable with it. if you are tense, your muscles tighten up and it doesn't feel good.
my first time, i prepared myself for it and i felt ready.. he took it slow and it didn't hurt.
but still, everyone is different and it usually hurts the first time from what i've heard.
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Sex may be uncomfortable and be a bit awkward the first time, but not for everyone. People are different, but if you do experience pain the first time it could be because your hymen has broken. Every girl is born with a hymen but it doesn't only break during sex, it can also break when using tampons or playing sport. Sex may also be uncomfortable if you're not relaxed in the situation and lubricated. If you are having sex it can help to have foreplay — kissing, touching, and cuddling — before having actual intercourse. In the long run sex shouldn't hurt but if it does it may be something to talk to your doctor about. Most importantly remember that whether you're having sex for the first time, during a girl's period — in fact at anytime — a girl can still get pregnant. So to protect against unplanned pregnancies always use contraception — and only condoms can protect you from both STIs and pregnancy.
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it depends on if your ready or not.
&& if you don't know, then I don't think your ready.
but thats just me.
just make sure you and whoever you'll be with it ready, then you should be fine.
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i know you wasnt asking this question for a lecture but i think you should wait until your older but yes it hurts
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