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Gender: Female
Location: New Orleans
Age: 14
Yahoo: crawfish13lb@yahoo.com
Member Since: August 19, 2007
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Last Update: October 27, 2007
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15/f and a freshman in a new school

we had 2 dances already and I went to both of them. They were really fun but I noticed that a lot of high schoolers grind. So my question is how do you do it? Like I know the guy is supposed to be in the back and you're in front of him with you back towards him... but what is the motion like? do you move your feet at all or is the motion just in the hips? What do the girls do with their arms?

No links or videos please! Just some advice would be so wonderful! our next dance is in February and is there any way I could practice for then? (notice- i'm 15 and I can't go to any clubs) (link)
just start feeling the music and let loose and have fun thats it


Ok, there is this guy, lets call him John, he is sixteen and I'm thirteen. We talk a lot and we've joked around about liking each other. Age isn't really an issue, but he lives in North Jersey and I live in South Jersey. He gets his permit in a month or so, and he said he'd visit me. I have an idea that he likes me as more as a friend, and I like him the same way. But I've had bad long distance relationships, and even though he's really sweet, and trustworthy, I'm just worried it won't work out or end badly and ruin our friendship. What do I do, go out with him or just stay friends? (link)
thats a question you should ask yourself because no one knows him like you do and you know the feelings he have inside so i say you decide


is there tracker on myspace to see whos looked at your profile?? i rate high (link)
no


im 13/f nd im a virgin i wanna have sex but i wanna noe if it hurts TNX! (link)
i know you wasnt asking this question for a lecture but i think you should wait until your older but yes it hurts


other than a dildo? (link)
use your fingers


Everytime I shave "down there", I get bad itchy razor burn. Even when I use a ton of shaving cream! Sometimes I'll shave and everything's okay for the first half hour, then the razor burn appears. I don't want my boyfriend to be grossed out! What's a good way to prevent razor burn? Or a fast way to make it go away faster? (link)
get it waxed


what are other items u can masterbate with other than the bathtub faset or a brush handle? (link)
a dildo


what do boys like you to do when you give a handjob? i'd like to know because i told my bf i'd give him one :D
thanks in advance (link)
the ones that dont know what there doing sit there and look stoopid and the other ones probably will touch and you and rub your body down


Hey what does it mean when a dude says a girl is "tight" or "lose" ... like whats the difference?

and what is it.. when i guy eats her out or whatever? (link)
tight means a boy is going to have a hard time trying to stick it in her and lose means thats she open and eat her out means that hes going to eat a girls private


Normally, on the first two days of my period...its a really heavy flow.
I've had my period for two years by the way
Anyways, I got it yesterday, and by the end of the night (after 8 hours) my tampon was basically clean!
So I though tonight Ill have to wear a maxi pad so that I don't leak... but this morning I woke up and the pad had the smallest amount of blood.
Every time I've had my period, its been extremely heavy on the first two days!
So whatss happening to meee =[ (link)
like ur period is probably just spotting so its really nothing to worry about


Ok so Me and my friend have been bestest friends for 7 years almost 8 and yeah were tight and stuff. She moved like 3 years ago to her house wich is like 2 hours away from me and so now we dont see eachother alot only like once every 2 months. Anywayz when she moved up there then she became friends with alot of ppl and I was happy for her. Well her friends became my friends and so like this chick Amber that were both friends with Has a brother Jesse. Well my bestest friend is like in love with him and he's in love with her. But like a year ago we both liked him and he knew it cause we both told him and he said that he liked both of us 2. So yeah we flirted with him and stuff but then like a couple months after that then he said that he only liked her and I asked him why and he said just cause I live so far away and he hardly see's me. So it took me a while but I finally stoped liking him but I was still like heart broken cause I liked this dude ALOT. Well just like a couple of months ago I started liking him agian and Jesse and my bestest friend are like going out. And I really really dont want to like him but I do and now he is coming in between our frindship and we argue alot and I know that one boy shouldn't ruin a friendship of 7 years. But it is starting to I cant talk to her about anything anymore because she is alwayz talking about what her and Jesse did of something sweet Jesse said to her and like all she wants to do is talk about Jesse or nothing at all. I dont know what to do and I really need some help on how to get our friendship back to how it used to be before Jesse came in.
Kaleigh (15/f) (link)
tell her how you feel that shes letting a boy come between your friendship because the same thing happened to me i was just like your best friend and my friends all started to not want to be bothered with me and stuff so i had to figure this out on my own and i lost most of my friends but im saying if shes so stucked up with him just stop calling her and sooner or later hes gonna mess up and shes going to come back crying to you about how she needs you and then you tell her how you felt. hope this work it surely worked for me. good luck


okay so im 14 years old and deffently ready to use a tampon . but the thing is , im scared of breaking the hymen, like will it hurt? will i cry? how will i know when its broken? i know how to insert one , ive practiced about twice . but then i pull it out because i dont want it to hurt too bad .
did it hurt you when you first used a tampon ? and how will i know when its broken? HELP! [btw: i start school tommarow!] (link)
If your asking all these questions about using tampons it doesnt seems like your ready...


which condom is best to be used during sex? (link)
trojan


okay so my boyfriend is only a year older but a year is a lot with us because im going into seventh grade and he is going into eighth. He always tells me about how his best friend got to third in a cemetery and stuff and well i know that he wants to go farther too. and if he tries to touch my boobs or take off my shirt i always tell him no because i dont want him to see the stretch marks on my boobs. what should i do.

thanks xox (link)
You shouldn't be embarressed about how your body look and just do it but thats only if you only want to.




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